[pankeke]

I find this extremely strange. One of my EX's randomly messaged me online the other day.
They asked me how I was doing, if I was still with my bf, etc.
We haven't talked for two years or so, I found it really random/akward.
He told me he moved out from his family's home and was living on his own.
He started talking about promises we made over 3 years ago like moving in together and buying matching pets, ETC.
He told me that he really liked me and all this stuff.
ANYWAYS,
What should I take out of this conversation?
He misses me still out of all this time?
He's desperate and thinks I'm someone easy to talk to??
Just for the record I don't like him anymore and I'm happy with my current BF, so I have no attachments.
I just find it really strange/ random o.0

Haha I have no clue ~!
I'd like some other people's opinions on the situation.

[Kiribati]

Two years is long enough to move on, don't you think? I don't know...if I was in that situation, and I happen to feel like start talking to an ex, my feelings would be totally mutual. It's just one of those things, you know? "I wonder how she's doing" kind of thing...

YOURS2ENVY's post a few down basically sums what I said up, heh.

[Tuxedomask]

Messaging and just saying hi is one thing but bringing up the past and promises is going a little to far.

I think it's safe to say he wants you back

[7thprincess]

Just tell him that you are happy with your current bf.

I personally think he wants some ass. But who knows, he just might want you back.

[Tuxedomask]

Just tell him that you are happy with your current bf.

I personally think he wants some ass. But who knows, he just might want you back.

Haha...I wanted to say that but me being a guy would be betraying my species

[Kachuu]

(1) he wants you back
(2) he's bored and wants to... have some fun...

i've seen it go both ways so it really depends what kin of person he is/was.

[GOOMBA]

-___________-

I don`t see what's so complicated about a person attempting to catch up with a person that was once SIGNIFICANT in their life.

Why over think it? It`s just a conversation.

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Edit
& Just to add, even though he brings up the past - still, don`t think too much of it. It`s easier for him to think of topics that you guys have already talked about than to bring up something totally random like, HEY HOW`S THE WEATHER.

[Eijiro]

I wouldn't read into it too much, to be honest.

[pankeke]

Just tell him that you are happy with your current bf.

I personally think he wants some ass. But who knows, he just might want you back.

LOL that's what i thought too.

i was like HMM either he's really horny right now or he's thinking about me

-___________-

I don't see what's so complicated about a person attempting to catch up with a person that was once SIGNIFICANT in their life.

Why over think it? It's just a conversation.

i would agree to that. i mean its fine to be like hey wats up how's life.
but i literally havent even had one conversation like HI for over 2 years.
and the conversation wasnt "hey wats up"
it started right away.
"hey i moved out of my house. remember how we said we'd always move out together?
you know i really liked you, if you dont beleive me you can ask all my friends."

he also was like.

"i was so sure i was going to marry you"

ETC ETC.

thats a lil far for a first conversation in so long in my opinion but thats just me Haha

[Tuxedomask]

^ That's a little beyond a comfortable conversation with an EX.

lol...he's just really horny i think.

[Eijiro]

He's probably just having second thoughts, I've been guilty of it before. He'll get over it.

[RE.]

im in sorta the same situation.. yet reverse in a sense...

we've been broken up for more than 2 years. and she would contact me once every couple of months. And it seems like each time we talk she would bring up how i said that i was gonna marry her .. she's still a V (shes like "i bet you're relieved to her that huh"). And that she cooks really well now.. stating that isnt that the type of wife i wanted. All in a joking manner (or id assume).

i mean.. how am i suppose to respond to those kind of touchy subjects? I laugh it off and play along, but damn.. i swear each time we talk she brings it up. I try not to analyze anything, but it's hard with the history that we've been through

[pankeke]

RE. :

LOL, thats what i did... i just changed the subject to luxury cars HAHA!!

[Bombom.]

Yeah I still talk with my ex boyfriends.
Only sometimes though because I hate them stinkin guts.
Hahah xD

He probably wants you back because since you said
he thinks your a easy girl :] But bleh!
Just forget him and love your current ;D
Best wishes.

[insanelyCRAZY]

Two years is long enough to move on, don't you think? I don't know...if I was in that situation, and I happen to feel like start talking to an ex, my feelings would be totally mutual. It's just one of those things, you know? "I wonder how she's doing" kind of thing...

YOURS2ENVY's post a few down basically sums what I said up, heh.

ive never thought about it like that.
it gives me a different way of looking at things..
im in the same situation, except i kinda hate my ex for the time being..lol..

[lilkrazeqrl]

That's really weird. He told you he misses you too?

If you're happy with your current boyfriend and all, don't let your ex bother you or change your life. Maybe he was just checking up on you as a friend? After all, a break up doesn't mean "don't talk to me ever again." .