[Cally]

I'm not sure whether is over between us or not as my bf left for his hometown without any resolution between us? He is leaving for oversea next year. Earlier on, i think we are on an okay basis when we talk on the phone last Saturday, but he had a small argument on my habit of going out with boys. I never find him back after that (as I annoyed by him) and he left yesterday from what my friend said... I never had the guts to find him... I was too overwhelmed with my sadness. I sent him a sms at nite, but he never reply til this morning... So What is going on in my bf's mind?.... Is it over between us?...... Help!!!

[Tuxedomask]

Hm. I wouldn't come to a conclusion just yet. Just wait until you get him on the phone or in person. Tell him to stop running the problems in the relationship and to man up.

[7thprincess]

Why don't you call him and talk to him. Find out for yourself!

[Cally]

Why don't you call him and talk to him. Find out for yourself!

Well, He never ignored my message, if he is ignoring.. i think he is trying to run away or he is still struglling with himself.. I'm not sure either.. He wanted to stay back for me, but his parent has plans for him...

And part of me thinks that maybe he is has left me as from his past relationship, we fought with his ex over a silly promise and they broke up just like, when his ex trying to find him, what he did was never to reply her back or find her back...

I don't know which one to believe in.... tat he is struggling or he alreadi left me?

P/s: you know how we girls always play an incident over and over in our mind a million times...

[GOOMBA]

Ask him.

& You could always enter a long distance relationship.

[Tuxedomask]

Ask him.

& You could always enter a long distance relationship.

Long distance relationships are hard. My girlfriend and I just broke up and we dated for 3.5 years. Then again I did just move 1200 miles away hehe...

[Cally]

Long distance relationships are hard. My girlfriend and I just broke up and we dated for 3.5 years. Then again I did just move 1200 miles away hehe...

Wow... dated for 3.5 years ..tat is alot!!.... Our relationship is just 2 months old.....X.X

[linny]

If he doesn't respond back to you, call him and leave a message that you'd like to talk and don't want to leave things up in the air. He owes it to you to at least be honest about what his plans are if he's going to move far away soon. If he isn't completely cold-hearted, he will call you back. It's just not easy to say exactly when he'll get back to you.

Don't drive yourself crazy waiting for his call. Go out with some friends and do other things. There's no point in waiting around and moping.

[ShadowMax76]

you wouldn't happen to be that touchy type when you're with boys are you?

[Daikirai]

what he did was never to reply her back or find her back...

And that's why you have to look for him and ask him yourself..

[Pogichinoy]

Communicate.

Do everything in your power and ability to contact him to get an understanding of where the relationship is.

[Cally]

If he doesn't respond back to you, call him and leave a message that you'd like to talk and don't want to leave things up in the air. He owes it to you to at least be honest about what his plans are if he's going to move far away soon. If he isn't completely cold-hearted, he will call you back. It's just not easy to say exactly when he'll get back to you.

Don't drive yourself crazy waiting for his call. Go out with some friends and do other things. There's no point in waiting around and moping.

Your advice is reassuring!!.... I really have to get out with my friends!!!

you wouldn't happen to be that touchy type when you're with boys are you?

Touchy type?..... I dont get your meaning...