[ht1088]

Hi Soompiers, I want to ask you all for some opinions.
I've been going to church on Sat. evening for the past 5-7 weeks, and I've been sitting next to this guy who I find attractive.
I find him attractive because my ideal guy is someone who goes to church, nice, tall, etc...
What surprises me is that for the past 5-7 weeks, we've been sitting next to each other on the same seats.
The very first time I noticed him was when he sat right behind me, I turned around to offer the sign of peace to other people and him as well, for the very first time. Since then, we sat either right next to each other or 1 person away from each other. And we still offer each a sign of peace. And for the times when we did sit next to each other, we held hands during Our Father Prayer. (...hahahhhah)
The funny thing is that, sometimes I come late, or he comes late, we always find that same spot and sit near or next each other.
No, actually, for my part, I intentionally find him and sit next to him ... LOL but I don't know if he does that too or jst because he likes that spot and sits there.

So what do you all think? Opinions and advices are welcomed!

Thanks!

[jbigdog123]

I think you should start a conversation with him and see how he responds, see if there is anything between you two.

[Apple.Mint]

::point above::
ohmygosh!
i tried to squish the bug thinking it was on my screen..
wooowww
that was just sad

haha okay
um..yeah, start a conversation with him
i mean if youguys sat near/next to each other THAT much
i think it's time to say something =P
be like "hey did you noticed we've always sit near each other"P
good luck!!

[teaoholic]

::point above::
ohmygosh!
i tried to squish the bug thinking it was on my screen..
wooowww
that was just sad

LOL I did too, I was like woah that's one big ant.

back on topic,
have he even try to talk to you?
take in consideration that if he's not starting a conversation with you.
He might not be interested.
Usually the guy will take the initiative if he finds a girl of interest.

[ht1088]

^^ that's what i thought too.
maybe it's just me thinking one-sided.
guess i'm going sit somewhere else next week.

[teaoholic]

My recommendation is to sit somewhere where he can see you, see if he follows, if he does then there's your answer.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

hahahahahhahahaha
this is kind of what happened with my current gf
Kind of met her in the church, and then yeah we offer each other blessings and at once she offered to held my hand and bla bla lol.

anyways. Why don't you just talk to him?
He might not be interested in you yet, but maybe you can change that.
I mean, I kind of agree that usually the guy talk to you first if they find you attrative.
But that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. I mean, like I said in another thread, if all girls have the mindset of not taking the first move, then nothing would happen.

so take the first step and talk to him
good luck

[GOJIN]

Kind of!!!

*ahem*
Kind of ask him out, yo.

[Left_King]

Awwww...thats soooooooooo sweet...!!!
As many ppl said...talk to him...after church... ^^
Go for it girl!!!