[akiralove]

say your friend/ best friend was over at your place and stayed over till 11 or later at night
would you make her go home on her own when she didnt drive over? And she lives about.. 15-20 blocks away from you?

edit: hehe thanks for the replies..
i went out with my ex again today to eat...
again i would pay cause his work place isnt in my city so he has no money? :/
but anyways.. it was around 8 we just finished dinner.. and got tapioca <3
and then.. he asked what to do/where to go next..
then he asked if i wanted to go to his place.. i told him no cause i dont wanna go home alone again hehe..
and then he sounded kinda mad.. o_O cause then i said i had school tomorrow
i think he got angry cause i used to go no matter how late it was.. but not anymore...since today ^__^

[sigh991]

I'd definitely walk with her

[Torento <3]

If I was in America especially, presumably where you are. I would walk her home.

[5.mystline]

No, I would definitely walk her home..Its obviously not a real safe place out there at night during that time period.

[akiralove]

heh.. what if you knew her for a long time and you used to always drive her home?
im talking about my ex.. were supposedly best friends but he never drives me home anymore
and i end up either taking the bus walking..
he's 21 im 19... and im not allowed to drive...
he says he is sick of driving me.. should that be an excuse? :[

[Torento <3]

Don't go to his house so late then.

Pretty simple.

[BrightCloset]

^
That shouldn't be an excuse.

[PapayaSeed]

i always make it a point to drive my friends home (or at least to some place convienient to take a bus) if it's late at night
maybe i'm just too lazy to walk..haha

[Tuxedomask]

If I wasn't available to walk her home then I'd call her a cab and give her money for it. (Make sure you get the car # also just incase anything happens)

[bigbadtommay]

no way, i'd definitely make sure she gets home safely, if i can drive, ill drive her home, if i cant then i'll walk her home and walk alone back and talk on the phone with her or something so i dont get lonely.

[_dax_]

Depends on the neighborhood

[Pogichinoy]

heh.. what if you knew her for a long time and you used to always drive her home?
im talking about my ex.. were supposedly best friends but he never drives me home anymore
and i end up either taking the bus walking..
he's 21 im 19... and im not allowed to drive...
he says he is sick of driving me.. should that be an excuse? :[

He should drive you home or walk and catch public transport with you.

But in this case, since he's your ex, and he still harbors resentment, he obviously isn't keen on wanting to take you home. Maybe you should take this as an indication that he may or may not want your company.

[naoto]

^
That shouldn't be an excuse.

well it could be a good reason, I had to walk my friend home at 330am in a shabby neighbourhood (where she lived). I lived 25 minutes away and so I spent 50 minutes for no reason, plus when I walked back I felt really insecure myself. I'm a human being too. Women need to realize that sometimes T_T Toronto<3 (I call him toronto) has a good point then...

[ShadowMax76]

your ex is kinda... taking your safety for granted.

[des monstres]

i would drive my friend.
aha.. eff walking. i don't wanna get raped. >.>
but seriously?

if you know he isn't gonna take you home, why even bother going there so late. :|

[akiralove]

i would drive my friend.
aha.. eff walking. i don't wanna get raped. >.>
but seriously?

if you know he isn't gonna take you home, why even bother going there so late. :|

hehe... it kinda sucks. we broke up for more than half a year but we still did couple things at times
we're long distance now cause he went away for school
he came back today so we hung out.. and yeah i still have feelings..
and him? he says he loves me but not in the kinda way
he knows i still like him too

[Flicksityy]

Girls fall head over heels for guys who actually takes concern in how they are getting home.

It's adorable.

[Namine]

if he is sick of driving you home
seriously take the bus earlier

dont blame it all on him




like my friend who gets driven home by me a lot is considerate enough to take in notion that sometimes she may be taking us for granted too much so she goes home by herself as well

[Left_King]

Definitely...
...and in this case, it was just 15-20blocks away...wouldnt even think about it...!!!

[shudder_V]

WOWWWW!!!

What kind of guy is he? Is he a girl or something? Holy crap...If it's late at night, I'm pretty sure even if he just fell asleep or is busy, he'd take the time to drive you or if he can't drive AT LEAST walk with you back home..

I have never let a girl walk home alone and if I'm driving I would definitely give her a ride, even if she insist she walks alone. It's not worth worrying over these things, especially if by the weird chance something happened to her, could you honestly live with yourself?

Hence, I would always try to make sure the girl gets home safely, cause I don't want to be blamed nor have something happen to my friends or anyone in particular.

Example: My friend(a girl) wanted to walk home at like 11pm-12am, were it's pitched-black in the summer alone, since she only lives like 5-7 minute walk, like 4 blocks? I just walked outside after I found out she left. I caught up with her and just walked with her, even when she refused and told me everything's fine etc etc. It was pretty awkward thought since she tried really hard to get me to leave and let her walk alone *shrugs* girls...hahaha

but BOTTOM LINE: you need to make better friends that will actually care for your safety..what kind of guy lets the girl walk alone AT NIGHT...you can pretty much ask around and see how many guys would let a girl walk alone at night... I bet you it's not a lot and REALLY rare..

now you know what an heartless or "gentlemen" he is by letting you walk home alone...you shouldn't even affiliate with him or at least try to take the bus or get home earlier before it gets dark..