[terrorist]

Long story short, i'm upstairs having a little get together with a group, there are around 7 people.
It's an empty house, so my friend whom i know for 5 years-- hears the door creek.
She got scared and I made a joke saying at the end of the hall there is a ghost and I see eyes looking at me.

She responds saying "Shut the f**k up, or i'll f**ken punch you in the face, seriously."

I was about to flip out but I was mature about it.. I just left.


Another long story short, I was really depressed one time and all 5 of us are at Chinatown,
having dinner.
I had my head down since I didn't have an appetite.
(same girl) She goes What the f**k is wrong with him?<--- said it really mean, unfriendly.
Her friend answers, i guess he just doesn't feel too good...


There are many small things that also add up, Please don't jump into conclusions thinking i'm a sensitive guy, because the way she said it, it hurt a lot...
If it was a guy friend who said that to me, i would of stuffed my fist in his mouth so he never says anything like that again.

Have you been in this situation? anything similar?

So based on my short story, What should i do?

[Tuxedomask]

No offense but your friend sounds like a B-word...lol

[BrightCloset]

Yeah she does sound like a pinkberry.

Forget about her.

[sigh991]

About the ghost thing; maybe she was kind of joking too? As in, she's scared of ghosts and you made her feel creeped out?

[ITS VIVIAN! =D]

Well, are you leaving the group of friends just because of her? I mean, if the whole group was like that, I'd just leave o_o. If it was just her that's the MAIN problem...I'd talk it out with her alone and see what's up. If you don't do anything about it, things will just get worst and she'll continue to ignore your feelings.

[Flicksityy]

That girl is such a disgrace.

Why are you leaving the group because of a girl like her?

[Namine]

are the other girls/ppl more considerate? (like the one that kinda.. stood up for you sorta..)
cause that might make a big point
like maybe that girl is just a pinkberriii

[5.mystline]

Wow is she on like 24/7 PMS? I'd say either confront her with rage about this ongoing abuse or don't even bother socialising with her

[YUNICA]

i don't think you should leave the group just because of her. if only if the whole group, the 6 of them
aren't as berries as her. she doesn't worth you to do so.

and as in the first case, maybe she's really afraid. so yeah. she said something out of ordinary. idk.

[HtyPotter]

seems like you have an issue with this girl. I don't think you need to leave all your friends because of one person.

[GOJIN]

Gah....don't let your friends push you around.
If you think they get a kick out of it, they ain't you friends, playa.



And that girl....you're a guy....assert yourself.

[CriticalHit]

First of all, CONFRONT HER lol don't just leave because shes intimidating you. Girls like that,
you need to talk to them. Next time she does something rude like that just ask her what is her
problem. Just ask that and see what she says, and then after that, f you're close to anyone else
in that group ask them if they know what's up with her.

[Babii3x]

er i can kinda relate i guess. some take advantage of me ... saying things u've just wrote.
but i dont know how it got better, we got close =\ for some reason ... lots of us have gone seperate ways anyways.
if it carries on, do something ... stand up. cos when i got tired of it, i told her and she kinda backed off and we're dead close now.

good luck anyways.

[Pol2ns7al2]

She got scared and I made a joke saying at the end of the hall there is a ghost and I see eyes looking at me.

She responds saying "Shut the f**k up, or i'll f**ken punch you in the face, seriously."

that was a really lame joke, so you kinda deserved it that time lol

Another long story short, I was really depressed one time and all 5 of us are at Chinatown,
having dinner.
I had my head down since I didn't have an appetite.
(same girl) She goes What the f**k is wrong with him?<--- said it really mean, unfriendly.
Her friend answers, i guess he just doesn't feel too good...

when you're depressed, you're a party pooper (and she noticed)-- if you're not in the mood to socialize, don't do it, otherwise you're just a wheel
and if you haven't noticed, you're a bit too docile-- she didn't even bother addressing you in an appropriate manner because she knew you wouldn't say or do anything against her in retort

If it was a guy friend who said that to me, i would of stuffed my fist in his mouth so he never says anything like that again.

violence creates more contempt, so just chill out before you resort to it
scream at or beat up an inanimate object and they'll get the point
if you wouldn't hit a bean pie woman, don't hit a bean pie man either (afraid of being labeled as misogynistic much?)
if you really want to hurt somebody, tell them they're ugly

So based on my short story, What should i do?

stand up for yourself, or ask your other close friends why she might be treating you like trash (unless they do the same)
if they were oblivious to it, then they're now aware that she's a pinkberry-- she might get kicked out of your circle because of it
(though just taking random mean comments actually got people to like me by the end of jhs)
i'm a bit of a wimp myself, but i hang out and go to school with mindful and mature people
find new friends if the ones right now be treating you bad k

[Daikirai]

Stay with the group and ditch the girl.
Be all up in her face and yell "WASS YO PROBLEM?!"
And then hand out with us instead. Ahaha.

[precious4e]

eW. You should tell her to relax. If you feel offended by how she said things just ask her "Why did you have to say it like that for?" usually when people get called out like that they feel stupid and think about what they did. If she gets mad at you for confronting her then she really is a B-word and you should just not hang out with her anymore.

[dropdeadbarbi]

Tell her that she needs to change her tampon.

[WildSevenGirl]

^LMFAO!

I'd be up all in her face already and ldsafjdsalkfjsalkd. And if I was a guy, I'd punch the crap out of her anyway. >_>;

But wao, wtf is her problem. ==;

[rawr_sheila]

Was she always like this? What kind of person is she?
You've known her for 5 years now, you must be pretty close to her.
Do you know if she had any problems in her life?
Did you talk to her about it? Tell her exactly how you feel.
I don't think she's taking advantage of you. She must be having a hard time in life.
Ask her about school and life.

[Emyli]

I am in a similar situation. What I suggest is to remind yourself not to consider her your friend any longer. Your real friends would not treat you that way and make you feel bad. Acknowledge her but treat her as someone you don't know so well. Speak and reply to her when she asks you a question, but don't go out of your way to seek her attention or engage her in conversation. She is undeserving of your time and efforts.