[xSuicidal Lovex]

Would you be bothered if your boyfriend went to a
strip club with the boys and drank?

Do you feel as if you can trust him enough?


My boyfriend popped this question up last night
about if he were to go to one with his boys if i
would be upset, i don't know how to reply to him
so i gave him an i don't know reply. And it's a long
distance relationship.

How do you girls feel about this?

-Edit- on page 3.
im thankful for what everyone has to say.
Thanks for the advice.

he has made it known to me that he doesn't
want to go to a strip club because he has me.
And that he would put me first anyways.
He's been there done that before we were
together. So Thanks everyone i appreciate
it.

[ponga]

I will be extremely sad and ask him the question all around again!...What will you do or feel if I go to the strip clubs with guys striping instead of girls! with my girlfriends!?

That will get him thinking that if he goes to strip club it will be wrong

[MaryMagdalin]

um i am uncomfortable with it
but i think i would let him decide whether he wants to go and upset me or not.

[yellowfishieee]

I'd be really bothered. It's not a matter of trust, since I don't think going to a strip club would necessarily lead to him cheating on me, but I still don't want him looking at naked/half-naked girls.

I wouldn't forbid him from going though, I'd just tell him how much it bothered me and hopefully he respects that enough to decide against it himself.

[jyxlove]

i would get mad if my boyfriend just even ASKED me that question
first off, my boyfriend wouldn't be a manwhore.

[eximius]

^ I can understand getting mad for the question even coming up...
but manwhore? It's not like everyone who's in the strip club gets to get it on with the strippers...

I'd be bothered.
In my mind, strip clubs are for single guys.
I wouldn't forbid him from going, but he better be ready to deal with an irritated girlfriend for the next few days.

[xSuicidal Lovex]

What you all just posted is exactly how
i feel. But he already took it from my P.O.V
and said he would be bothered if i were
to go with the girls to a male strip club.
But he said that then again he trusts me
and junk.

-Edit-
He just called me and told me he asked
me that question not because he's planning
or ever wanting to go to a strip club but
more like when it's an ocassion like when
his boy is about to get married so they're
going to go out for a bachleor party and
head to a strip club.

But i wouldn't want him getting any lap dances
from the strippers... i wouldn't even want to hug
or kiss him if he were to get a lap dance..

[Gucci Mama]

Would you be bothered if your boyfriend went to a
strip club with the boys and drank?

Do you feel as if you can trust him enough?


My boyfriend popped this question up last night
about if he were to go to one with his boys if i
would be upset, i don't know how to reply to him
so i gave him an i don't know reply. And it's a long
distance relationship.

How do you girls feel about this?

trust is a big issue with relationships... i trust my bf

so if he told me that he was going, that's totally fine.

I know that he's not coming home with herpes

(he's not sleeping with the stripper)

It's totally fine if he enjoys the scene, because guys watch porn anyways

it's just a matter of where his heart is

[beana*]

i made a topic about this long time ago but i'll give my input.
i'm not bothered at all (well not anymore) that he goes especially with his friends they just want to hang out and have fun. hell my bf insists that we should go together one day but anywho i trust my bf a lot and i know he knows better. i just want him to have fun with his friends and thankfully he's been through that stage where he already had a lapdance long before i was in the picture so yeah strip clubs are no biggie because i know he's coming back home to me!

[Tuxedomask]

What you all just posted is exactly how
i feel. But he already took it from my P.O.V
and said he would be bothered if i were
to go with the girls to a male strip club.
But he said that then again he trusts me
and junk.

-Edit-
He just called me and told me he asked
me that question not because he's planning
or ever wanting to go to a strip club but
more like when it's an ocassion like when
his boy is about to get married so they're
going to go out for a bachleor party and
head to a strip club.

But i wouldn't want him getting any lap dances
from the strippers... i wouldn't even want to hug
or kiss him if he were to get a lap dance..

Okay...I know the subtitle says "For Girls." But I had to add this...EXACT same situation happened to me.
I had a close friend who was about to get married and we had a sausage fest Bachelor party for him. We rented a coach bus for the bachelor and all 35 guys hopped on and none of us had a clue of what was happening SINCE IT WAS THE BACHELOR HIMSELF THAT PLANNED IT. haha.
Anyways I had no clue where we were going but as soon as I found out that it was a strip club, I called my girlfriend to tell her the plans. She wasn't okay with it but I had no choice. I couldn't really hop off the bus because it was special to him that we all made it. She eventually got over it but it's always good to let her know first hand.

You should be proud that your boyfriend is planning ahead. =)
Most of my friends don't even tell their girlfriends where they're going. I'm 22 right now and single and I've been to a strip club TWICE and the other time I was there all my friends turned off their cell phones so they wouldn't have to answer to their girlfriends. lol

Your bf is a good guy.

Side note: I don't know who said the manwhore comment but I don't think that's fair of you too say. You shouldn't generalize everything. In fact...I'm actually close friends with stripper who is extremly smart and is on her Masters Degree...IRONICALLY it's a stripper from the club I went to.

[matango88]

lap dances lead to sex and cheating

lap dances = women rubbing her privates on your bf's privates

it's better if he doesnt get addicted to strip clubs

[sodaniechea]

Hrm, I won't be comfortable if my bf looking at half-naked/naked girls, and he doesn't like it when I look at guys in general. But if he were to go and was unaware of it if his friends were treating him out, I'd be worried all night but I'll get over it. But if he want to willingly go then I'd question our relationship, because he's not the type who would spend money easily [except for gas and food] so spending it on strippers instead? Definitely not cool :l

[dropdeadbarbi]

He better bring me with!

[jaeka]

*thinks* Strip clubs. It's usually "for your eyes only" and no personal contact goes on, right? I wouldn't be bothered. :X Well, I'd lay a strict rule of LOOK WITH YOUR EYES NOT YOUR HANDS and be like Have fun! (:

[Jamila]

for me it would plainly be...
No, no, and oh wait..NO

why pay to look at other women naked dancing around when I'd do it for free? lol

again...Hell no

[CoryAhh]

You should go to a strip club with him if you can

[xSuicidal Lovex]

You should go to a strip club with him if you can

i would never go to a strip club... i think it's
somewhat degrading to females... =x=
well to me at least.

[ichigo_no_powder]

i'll be ... at him for even having considered

I'd be really bothered. It's not a matter of trust, since I don't think going to a strip club would necessarily lead to him cheating on me, but I still don't want him looking at naked/half-naked girls.

agreed

[iyseal]

I know I should be "trusting" him or whatever, but I would NOT like him going to a strip club at all.
I can handle him watching porn, but I would never accept him going to a strip club. Call me insecure or whatever, but that just sounds disrespectful to me.

[xSuicidal Lovex]

I know I should be "trusting" him or whatever, but I would NOT like him going to a strip club at all.
I can handle him watching porn, but I would never accept him going to a strip club. Call me insecure or whatever, but that just sounds disrespectful to me.

I agree with you.
Porn thing... he said he doesn't watch any(but i bet he does lol)
but see i don't care about that because it's on a computer
screen/TV. But at a strip club you never know what the
girls may be thinking or what they would like to do with
your man, you know?

Thinking about this aggrivates me >.< i thought
about this since last night.