[Shui]

I have a friend in this situation and she's not allowed to go to her boyfriends house because her parents are overly protective. They don't know his parents. She's allowed to have him over though..

what would YOU do?

if you're a guy would you break up with her?
if you're a girl what would you do to try and persuade the 'rents?

[Meenuh]

I don't think something like that should keep anyone from being together. Give it some time. I'm sure that if the bf has good manners the parents will eventually learn to trust him. I don't go to my bf's house (his mom scares me LOL) and he only comes to mine. No big deal. We don't spend most of the time in my house anyways. We just go out to cafes and stuff. They can always find other things to do than hang around at her house.

[donporkuloin]

Make ways around it. Do more outgoing activities than stay at home ones.

[KaiLien]

How old is she? It really depends on a lot of things.

if you're a guy would you break up with her?

No. If he loves her, he would try to make it work.

if you're a girl what would you do to try and persuade the 'rents?

I would try to convince them...but if they don't budge then there's not much you can do. It's not something to fret about, just find another way. At least she can have him over at her place. Hangout elsewhere! It's not so bad anyhow. Her parents are just looking out for her.

[Torento <3]

Just have sex or whatever you do at the girls house.

I don't see a problem.

I always go to my girlfriends place, she never comes to mine, then again, she lives alone.

[ShadowMax76]

white guys.. . -stabs toronto - rofl



_ i wouldn't be too bothered by it. it's reasonable - the parents are wary of what teens get up to these days. o-O'

i'd probably just wait it out till we get our own place.

[Torento <3]

Who is Toronto?

And why make a reference to my race if you were talking about me?

[MizzprEEETy]

Then he should come and chill at her place=] at least one house is available.

[CitrusFlower]

I wouldn't mind much. We can always go other places and theirs always my place

[precious4e]

How old is your friend?

I don't think the guy should break up with her just because she can't go over to his house. They could hang out elsewhere.

The girl will probably just have to give it time. Maybe the parents will relax a bit once they realize that the relationship is serious.

If it were me i'd probably go to the guy's house without telling my parents LOL....but don't follow my example. My parents give me a lot of leeway.

[CoryAhh]

ya my parents especially my mom doesnt want me dating my gf because she isnt korean. its really annoying

[MaryMagdalin]

well i cant answer this very well
because my parents let me go anywhere i want O_O
so it was never an issue with me

[andersennavy]

Just have sex or whatever you do at the girls house.

I don't see a problem.

I always go to my girlfriends place, she never comes to mine, then again, she lives alone.

LOL i dont think she even hinted that they have sex ... well kinda i guess
but anyways
who cares
im not allowed upstairs in my gf's house cuz well u kno y -.-
but anyways,since now we live in dorms, not too much of a problem XD

[natsurei]

OH. That's like me. Haha.
One time, I ACTUALLY told my Mom, I was going to my boyfriend's house.
I came home and she told me, to never go there again.
I told her, that my boyfriend's dad's home though.

She still didn't like it.
Haha. And my boyfriend is allowed over at my house.

Skay, I just don't tell my mom/parents. o_O;; I tell her, me and him are going out to eat. But I go to his house.
And my parents don't exactly know his. But it's not like they don't completely know how his parents are, so yeah.

But, it's not like I go there everytime we go out. =S And, I think it'd be too shallow and immature of a reason to break up.
I'm sure, there are more other "private" places to do stuff. HAHAHAHA.

[LOLWTF]

...Just say your going and go his house?
Stupid thing to break up over LOL

[gisbiz]

ummm... hello?

that's what windows are for.


anything is possible?

(in case his room is on the 2nd floor, make sure she knows how to climb a tree)

[pockystixx]

i'd just invite him over to my house, or we could always go out to other places.
not the end of the world.. besides, its not like gf not being able to come over to bf's house
is the end of the relationship.

[vikkay]

i'd sit in the corner and cry.. rofl naw jk. i'd find a way around it (:

[Torento <3]

If the relationships isn't even sexual, it's not a problem.

[jaeka]

Ahah, I ain't allowed in my boyfriends house. Even when his mum is in. Eek.
Can they not chill at the girls house? :X Seems the obvious.