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When Is The Right Time... to ask someone out?

#1 User is offline   z_any 

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Post icon  Posted 20 November 2008 - 07:55 AM

So i've met this guy...and we kinda hooked up lol

the first night we just shared a bed after watch a movie, which wasn't that big of a deal to me...but then the second night we really got it on. The morning after we went for breakfast before he left!

we're both at different university at the moment... so i didn't really expect for him to keep his words to call me (well, he texted instead), so i was kinda surprised...
He continued to text me for like the next few days. and talks to me every night (late at night) on msn

so i was wondering like... would it be weird to like confess to him now?

how long does it take for you to pursue someone? do you usually wait for a few months and get to know them first? or do you go right off the bat and ask the person out after like...2 days after meeting them?

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does it make a difference if i mentioned that he is a ladies' man? I talked to my guy friend about him, and he told me that all the things that this guys has been doing shows that he's really interested in me....
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Posted 20 November 2008 - 02:38 PM

.O' woo. uni love.

um..


if i think about it, there's many other possibilities from the reason he's interested is that he likes you.

but. it's always best to tell a person sooner than later that you like them... x-x' most people would say to 'not rush' things .


o-O' you sound new at this...heheh..
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Posted 20 November 2008 - 02:40 PM

I'm assuming you're Asian. Just watch out, many guys (especially in uni) try to smooth talk especially Asian girls because they think that they are 'easy' to get in bed with. I don't know if this guy follows this characteristic, just watch out dear.

Even if you're not Asian, guys still do it.
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Posted 20 November 2008 - 04:49 PM

QUOTE (Torento <3 @ Nov 21 2008, 09:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm assuming you're Asian. Just watch out, many guys (especially in uni) try to smooth talk especially Asian girls because they think that they are 'easy' to get in bed with. I don't know if this guy follows this characteristic, just watch out dear.

Even if you're not Asian, guys still do it.


not talking about yourself now are ya? :]
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Posted 20 November 2008 - 04:52 PM

Well, seeing as I only graduated from high school last night, that leaves me out of the 'especially' part tongue.gif

Furthermore, I have a girlfriend and I am happy with her.
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