Great Guys Are Always Taken

#1 choot

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 01:15 PM

I've been wondering about myself.....I'm always running into guys who are taken. About a couple months ago, I met this guy in my Chinese class. He's Chinese....but he speaks Mandarin as if it was English ~_____~ . he speaks very well, and he's definately different from all of my guy friends. all of my guy friends love to pretend that they love each other and sleep over at each other's house and watch porn together ~________~ This guy would be the first one to talk to me in class, and he would always bother me since....he sits behind me afterall. He's in a rock band, and they perform at different places in Orange County. I AM VERYYY DIFFERENT FROM THAT. I hardly even listen to rock music. wait scratch that...i dont. lol. and he doesn't like to any pop, or over-played r&b songs. we're opposite from each other, but for some strange reason, im attracted to that. He had a performance yesterday and I told him I went to "experience" the AMERICAN MUSIC. but really....i just went there to support him and his band. It was DEFINATELY intense.....and when it was over....my very pop song...."big bang's sunset glow" ringtone went on. He was the drummer....and he could hear it ALLL THE WAY BACK THERE.....and he GLARED AT ME. i saw him and dropped my cell. lol.

During class, I found out that he has a girlfriend about a month ago and I wasn't heartbroken or anything like that....i was just disappointed. I've decided to just get over it since if i was his girlfriend, i wouldn't like it if my own boyfriend was seeing a girl that I don't know about it. I just want to know how. For the past two days....i've been trying to get over it...and i ended up having dreams about me renting out some room and he was my roomate =O and then the next day was even worst ~________~ I stopped texting him, but there's still that wanting to text him back kind of feeling. how would you go to get over it?

EDIT: thanks for some of the comments u guys. some made me laugh. some made me sad. while the rest were really helpful. and no....he's not ALL THAT GOOD LOOKING. lol. I guess I'll just let time set the rest and I agree.....I think im really tired of immature boys who aren't serious about anything and "HE" has something he's dedicated to. So i guess I like that mature side of him? =/

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#2 한스 ㅋㅋ

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 01:23 PM

You can't avoid him since he's in your class.
So Find another guy so you'll forget about him.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 01:28 PM

^ what she/he said definitely the best way to get over any guy

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#4 xxiaoMEI

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 02:41 PM

Lol, I agree, greats guys are always taken..

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#5 Namine

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 02:45 PM

it takes time.
in some cases
a lot of time.

p.s.
uh your ring tone must be m-fing loud because if he could hear it with the rock band going on .. dude...............

#6 masturyan

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 02:48 PM

Hook up with the guitar player.

#7 choot

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:04 PM

thanks guysss <3 LMAO TO THE REPLY ABOVE. well u know......TAT GUY WAS BANGIN. lol

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#8 Tuxedomask

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:01 PM

Great guys aren't always taken.

I'm single. Haha...(jk)

Anyways, you'll find someone soon just be patient and keep an open mind. Seems like you're on the right path by not dating guys that like the same thing as you.

Hope you find him soon

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:13 PM

QUOTE (Tuxedomask @ Nov 23 2008, 07:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

HAHAHA that made me laugh i dont kno why but that was my highlight. yeah just start looking for other guys

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#10 borkborkbork

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:36 PM

great girls are always taken...

#11 Aice 29

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:44 PM

^ no they're not!... I'm proof. lol.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 05:59 PM

QUOTE (Tuxedomask @ Nov 23 2008, 07:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

QUOTE (Aice 29 @ Nov 23 2008, 07:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

^ no they're not!... I'm proof. lol.

Maybe you two just aren't that great. Haha j/k. Eh it may take time but the world's impatient.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 06:17 PM

QUOTE (choot @ Nov 23 2008, 04:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

all of my guy friends love to pretend that they love each other and sleep over at each other's house and watch porn together[/size]

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#14 vegtansamtof

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 06:23 PM

Yep, I have a good man by my side.

Proud to say I took him off the market. :x

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#15 princextammy

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 06:27 PM

sighhhh
tis very true

either that
or they're mansluts

but
theres nothing wrong with being friends!
i mean, he's not completely off limits until he's married

je ne sais pas.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 06:28 PM

and theyre either GAY TOOOO~ <3

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#17 woei

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 06:48 PM

yeah..i agree...great guys are always taken

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 06:54 PM

Oh thanks everybody

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#19 choot

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 07:00 PM

LMAO. some of u guys are just HILARIOUSSS. but im falling towards princextammy's advice more.....as being friends but to a limit.

WOW....IM THINKING THE "SINGLE GUY"....SHOULD HOOK UP WIT THE "GREAT GIRL" lol.

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