[korko]

Seriously. It is that hard, very hard to forget someone I have a crush on. Ok so, he lives on the other side of the world. Our time difference is one of the biggy. He seems like he already have someone in mind, but I still like him. I always stay up 2 or 3am (on weekdays) and 5am (on weekends) just to talk to him. Hmm. Maybe it is best to forget about him, but it's so hard to forget him. *sigh*

What do you suggest? :0

[Flicksityy]

Have you met the guy?
It feels as though you're loving him from cyberspace =="

Best thing if you don't want to forget about him is to move to where he lives, of course it's unrealistic therefore you only have the choice to forget about him somehow completely.

I can't help, I can never understand this.

[chrisssa]

If you want to forget them, I suggest you do things to take him off your mind, go out with friends, have fun...

It's always been said, to able to move on, you have to find another

[Joanne <3]

It's always been said, to able to move on, you have to find another

I don't think that is quite true. That sounds more likely to be a rebound crush than anything else, and I honestly believe you can move on without having to have someone else to replace a former lover.

I've been in your situation before (and I'm not very proud to admit it), but I can somewhat understand what you're thinking. I suggest adopting the "out of sight, out of mind" phrase in order to seek yourself some closure from him. That is, you should stop contacting him until you're definitely sure you reserve no more feelings for him.
Instead of spending those late nights talking to him, find something else to do. Immerse yourself in hobbies and give yourself free time to do things to get your mind off him. I'm sure staying up that late to talk to him isn't very good for your health either, so if you really don't have anything else to do, sleeping would be also good option.

Good luck!

[CriticalHit]

If you want to get over him, then you must stop talking to him online. It will be painful
and you'll probably lose your friendship, because it sounds like you'd only talk to him
that late/early because you have feelings for him. But if you want to forget him that's
what you're going to have to do, unless there's another way I haven't thought of.

[dreamagain1327]

have you met him? because me, i once met a guy and we fell for each other. then we had to seperate, and lived with 8 hours time difference.
after all it was him who cut all the ties off. it's been more than 2 years now. i still remember him, and i don't want to forget. because there had to be some great memories, things that made you have a crush on him. you should move on, by trying to live on. forget all the bad moments, times when you were unsure. note it down as a past and just keep the good memories. then it'd make you more happy than miserable ^^ i know it's not easy, but it's possible.
this year i went to his country. i tried to find him, but he cut off everything there was between us. he doesn't contact anyone we both knew (and one guy was his best friend for years). i found out he moved to another place, somehow i managed to get hte adress but the phone number was set to private. i wasn't able to find the place itself though. it was a moment, when i realized how serious was the thing between us.

[RiderKamen]

Well you can't forget but you can definitely move on.

[yamaki_LOVE]

like everyone says stop talking to him online or by phone that's what I did & I would usually be the one who texts him but after me doin` ' not texting ' he texts me instead . . .

& yes! its not easy to forget someone cause I'm crushing on this guy as well but he likes someone else & I think he has fettish for 16yr olds =x L0L

& its something bout him I can't let go even if I've tried . . I can let go of my first ex & this other guy but somehow THIS guy is far different "/

but yeah, find something else to do . . before you know it you probably don't miss him as much as you thought or forgot he even exist =P hehehe

[Slug]

You are too young and you shouldn't be having internet crushes.

[Namine]

Someone used to stay up till 5 am their time to talk to me.
And I never considered it anything weird (Because I was like, ignorant?)
So, when I found out, I was so shocked.
I thought it was just like talking to a normal person.....

Ask him casually like
So I have a crush on someone! What about you
or something
to get the question out and flat.
Maybe then you would know.
You could be like, what is tha girl like?
If he actually talks about it, it wuld proably mean he has someone..

[~Tropical.Mists]

WOWwwwwwwww! Like I can't believe HOW MUCH I can totally relate X_X
I'm not sure of your context...
But I liked this guy for a REALLY long time and after a LONG time of never telling him, he moved to Switzerland =(
We were like UBER tight and since he moved there, (he's like 6 hours ahead?), I talk to him less than once a week... and he's SO BUSY that it's impossible to get the chance to have a REAL convo with him =(

I miss him SO much and it's not the type of miss that most people would think...
Like I ACTUALLY miss him A LOT.
I used to think that it's cuz I still like him... but now I just think it's cuz I miss who I used to be when I was around him. I miss the memories and all that jazz that I don't get when he's not here =( sigh*
It's kinda depressing.

Anyways! I'm not sure how to help you get over it... since I'm pretty much in the same state T_T
It's been a little over a year since he's left, and since then.. he's found a gf, moved in with her, broke up? and has like a bajillion and one things to do =P
Talking about it makes me miss him more lol

--xoxo.
TM

[ShadowMax76]

cyber world . i've had one experience . and it was my decision to 'break' it off. [rofl.. - trust me. i don't know why it was that painful either..]



i never believed people lose feelings for a person they once had strong feelings for once. what ever it was, i called it 'the great wall of denial'.

perhaps that might work. working into your mindset some lame excuses like 'he's not real' just to make it easier for you to let the feelings go.


lol. might not work now that you know how it works. but. -pat- you have my love. i know what it's like . and i can only suggest that you let out the bottled up feelings and move on to meeting new people with intentions of friendship.

[小甜密]

We're human. Time heals us.

Just takes longer for you.

[sweetcream]

Well you said crush, which isn't always something serious.
It comes and goes.
So maybe you should meet new people and hang out before you decide anything with that guy.
If you are more serious than I think, then discuss meeting up and getting to know eachother face to face.
Only if you're old enough of course.

[luxlivin]

Dont sweat it. Try place your mind on something else that can benefit you individually. That will make the transition easier when it comes to breaking him/her off!

[milk-o]

Experienced it. My ex and I met over cyberspace, but we did meet many times. I was the one who broke up with him because he wants to get serious, I don't.

Seriously, you'll get over it. Its normal infatuation... But how to move on? Not so simple because you're too young (I guess), but a fresh view of your own environment would do the trick. You we're so cooped up with the cyberworld or the long-distance thingy that you forgot the people around you.

[melonLi]

if you REALLY do want to forget about him...
the best way is to block all connections with the person.
make sure you can't talk to him anywhere
online-delete his addy and block. phone- delete his number.
then you'll have no reason to stay up so late to talk to him; becos you can;t.
and that will be the first step on moving on. for me at least.

it's hard to forget; bcos it almost turns into a habit.
his's always there in the back of your mind.

[Sleepy213]

lol it's actually easier.
If he lives..like the other side of this world.
DONT STAY UP FOR HIM DUH !

its that simple..find someone around your place.

[spikeyheadedjerk]

keep in contact with him, but go out and meet new ppl.