[geekchiiq]

okay so i'm planning to confess to a person that i like him,
well maybe not confess, but atleast ask him how he thinks of me

how do i go about doing this?
i want to do it face to face, but when would be the right moment to do it?

or am i thinking way too much right now ?

[azn3dvietboy]

if u got balls then do it

if not
then wait awhile untill u get to know him better and he gets to know u better
then ask him

[FluidEmotion]

As you said, there's always the direct approach to things which i personally think is the best.
This right moment wont come too easily.

I suggest just take initiative and ask.

[geekchiiq]

okay so i think i'm going for the direct approach, but like how do i start?
like what should i say?

[Tarik]

just do it! you're thinking way too much..

do you actually want to confess or do you just want to know how he feels about you?
anyway you definitely should talk to him when you're alone.

and yeah just do it!

[geekchiiq]

lol i know i'm thinking too much

i want to know how he feels about me...
mm okay the next we're meeting up i will talk to him

[insanelyCRAZY]

its not like you're going to propose to him.
just tell him straight up you really like him and you want to be with him (?)
and would he like to go out with you too? xD

[Sleepy213]

Just tell him how you feel, if he doesnt feel the same then just shake it off.
Just tell him it's okay and it shouldnt ruin your frendship with him. smile

[영원한 사랑]

I always ask an outgoing friend who knows the guy I like to talk to him for me....I had a friend find out information for me about him.......i know its bad, b/c i should get to know him myself....but its really bad when your like a really shy person......

[brandonnrawrrr8d]

What i think you should do since you are curious if he likes you is.. just play it cool and wait for that right moment to just ask him
"sooo do you like anyone?" [with a smile] nott too cheesey xD
if he says that he likes someone just be like "does this person you like, like you too?"
or if its vice versa and he asks you then try to give him hints that you like him?
idk if i'm helping much, but i'm sort of brain dead atm xD
hope someone will read this thread and help you even better!

gl with that guy!

[0908]

its not like you're going to propose to him.
just tell him straight up you really like him and you want to be with him (?)
and would he like to go out with you too? xD

Exactly. lol
Just go for it, don't wait and miss your chance.
Good luck!

[Inspector]

So you know him, and you talk to him... don't you at least have a feeling if he likes you or not? Show him that you're interested by OBVIOUS ACTIONS, and if he likes you then he will surely pick up on it and intitate.

[v13tnammer]

Just go up to him when he's alone and say "I like you" and see what happens? if you wanna avoid awkward silences, just walk away, if he likes you back he'll probably go after you =)

[FirstTheWorst]

I understand, sister.

I'm scared mini cooperless to talk to the foo I like. ;(

[ohemffgee]

when yu two are alone ITS A MUST okay
iono start talking normally and seriously look him in the face. ask if he likes you. if you are unsure about his answer being the truth you can leave it or have the guts to say you do.
iono tats wat i did
though i had back up from friends who earlier found out he did like me

[shirotaka]

I always ask an outgoing friend who knows the guy I like to talk to him for me....I had a friend find out information for me about him.......i know its bad, b/c i should get to know him myself....but its really bad when your like a really shy person......

^Oh don't make excuses, take responsibility. Being shy is something you can grow out of and change, asking a friend to do it might even be a turn off for the guy, maybe not a turn off but a discouragement.

As for the topic reader, I don't know really why its so hard to confess haha, I go for a direct approach and if I get shot down I smile and laugh it off. When you say that you're too shy then really you're just beating your own self up. But I know what you mean that you have to find the right time and find the right kind of...aura. But the thing I hate most is when you're all psyched to do it and you're just about to do it when the person you're waiting for isn't there or left haha.

[geekchiiq]

So you know him, and you talk to him... don't you at least have a feeling if he likes you or not? Show him that you're interested by OBVIOUS ACTIONS, and if he likes you then he will surely pick up on it and intitate.

i do have a feeling he likes me, and i already showed him i am interested by obvious actions..
but it's like he doesn't pick up... he doesn't seem like the type to be shy, but maybe he is when it comes to girls?

that's probably the main reason i don't really want to talk to him, bcuz i feel like he should be the one doing it

but i guess if i don't i will never know?
argggh okay okay*tells herself: JUST DO IT*

I understand, sister.

I'm scared mini cooperless to talk to the foo I like. ;(

lol i know how you feel

thanks everyone for your responses

[babiiqrlxT]

It's best if you go for it. Never give up before you even try. Sometimes the consequences might be good, and they might be bad, and even if it's bad it's okay because life is short too stop at life at one spot.

Best of luck!

[lhuang]

for me, it kinda depends on who it is.
if i know them pretty well, i either give them really obvious hints or just tell them straight up?
if not... i give subtle hints.
if they don't get it, ah well, haha.

--and i dont think my post helped at all.
sorry :|

[Inspector]

Sorry to burst your bubble...but maybe hes just not interested? Shy or not, if a guy knows you like him (by obvious actions), and he likes you too, he would make a move. Well most guys I would say...but not all. So don't lose hope. I suppose you can confess to him, it probably makes you feel better. But don't confess hoping that he likes you too....but confess because you want to know if he feels the same or not, so you can move on.