[miika]

General question.

Have you ever liked someone, and that someone likes you back, but you guys didn't make it into a relationship? Why not? Do you regret it?

Share thoughts.

[ShadowMax76]

yeah, she had a boyfriend + distance made it impossible anyways
nah i don't regret it.. _ it was a good experience.. but i eventually found a part of her i hated and couldn't live with anymore..

'sides. it was just puppy love. so one of the excuses i have down say.

[marvinoppa]

General question.

Have you ever liked someone, and that someone likes you back, but you guys didn't make it into a relationship? Why not? Do you regret it?

Share thoughts.

yes.
because locking myself down wasnt something i was interested in at the time.
not really.

[xPnPx]

Yeah, but I don't regret it (much). I would have ended up hurting him anyway, and friendships are sometimes better than relationships.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Never.
No Offense
But they both are dumb or too afraid to make a move if that happens, unless there's a good reason behind why they don't do it.

[boo`--NiCOLE]

Because none of them made a move (chicken) and I don't believe in gender equity I like being asked out and I refuse to budge.

[emceej]

yeah. never really regretted it though.
since we kinda drifted apart and i moved 3 hours away so it wasn't really worth it .___.

[forgottenmemories]

Because his best friend liked me at the time. So we didn't admit to each other that we liked one another until a year later. And by then, we were to good of friends to date, and we didn't wanna ruin our friendship. We're still really good friends now, but sometimes I wonder "What if...?" Bleh. (:

[super piggy]

uh iono. there was another guy & we drifted apart or we stopped talking...

[cheerydumdum]

it was because i didn't know he liked me back and was a dense little middle schooler. and i think he was too shy to say anything to me, or so his friends told me....freakin' three years later. i don't really regret it. i mean, it's middle school. we were immature. and he moved away. but i sure did like him a lot. haha.

[jimsayskabloh]

It's happened multiple times. ):
Either he's older than me&is leaving or he chickens out, doesn't make a move&and we fizzle.
But whatever, what's so bad about being a strong independent woman? ;D

[Sleepy213]

Happened to me once.
I couldnt go out with her because that time..my best friend like me as well.

I didn't want any of them to get hurt..so I didnt choose any of them.

The funny thing is..they never knew I did such things for them.

[Sympathetic]

Yes, but I never regretted it. I couldn't go out that much at the time.
Though, he was a player, he moved on.

[mintchoco]

Yes.

...But he simply loved her more.


I guess heartbreak is what I should have expected.

He met her before me, afterall.


And even though I'm sad and hurt, I don't regret our mutual decision of seperation.

I wished them all the happiness I could.

I don't have the heart to take that from them.

[oubliette]

Yeah, but the week after we confessed - both of us moved to opposite sides of the world (literally).

It was back in sixth grade. We had liked each other for the whole year... only worked up the guts to tell each other after dancing with each other the weekend before school got out. I used to regret not telling him earlier all the time - BUT now, after looking back, I don't regret much Although I still wonder about him from time to time.

[jphase]

Yea, we actually ended up going out for a month and a half before we decided now isn't the best time to have a LDR. She was going to a school 4hrs away from me so visiting was very hard. We still talk to each other and I feel ok about it.. I do regret not being her "BF" anymore i guess but.. you gotta do what makes her happy. Hopefully we'll get back together when we're more "ready". It might sound stupid but I think she's the one x]

[Poop-Shoop-A-Loop]

^ that's cute, lol.

But anyhow --

Yes. He asked me to be his girlfriend but I refused because he's so flighty. And flirty. Even though he claimed that he liked me a lot (which I believed), I'm sure he was more interested in the "girlfriend" idea. He's one of those people who feels that they need a significant other. It really hurt me when right after I said no, he moved onto my friend. Everyone knew we liked each other, but he just kept on moving onto different girls once they broke up with him cause he so desperately "needed" a girlfriend by his side.. He goes into depression mode if he doesn't have someone there next to him. -0-;

But yeah, no regrets! haha.

[GOOMBA]

Mm,
I`ve had that happen.
We knew we wouldn`t be fit enough to be in a relationship.

[Srey Mao]

Yes.

It sucked. I liked him, he was like.. IN LOVE with me. But I just wasn't in the mood to be locked down. I didn't want to settle. But we really did have a little something going on, and everyone knew but when they asked, I'd say it's nothing. I knew it hurt him too. But it really seemed like he didn't take the time to know me, he just wanted a girlfriend.. for the sake of having a girlfriend. He's so dependent. He complains about me never needing him and crap. It didn't work out. As of right now, he still calls me a lot. But I tell him day after day, night after night, we're just friends. Nothing else. I barely see him anymore.. maybe like 2 times a month. It's better, hopefully it'll turn to once a month. Who knows..

I don't regret it. We wouldn't have lasted anyways.

[d a y.b r e a k]

O__O blahh.

a guy likes me. i'm liking him back? .___. iono. but i guess we're getting somewhere. ;]

if someone likes you , why pass up the chance at something good? take risk, life is only so long.