[drainpainlikerain]

Were you ever one of those people that were influenced to like, love or date someone?

for example, you never really noticed/liked this person until a friend or someone mentions that you and him/her would make a good couple? or that you should date him/her because of something? and strangely you begin to like this person? has that ever happen to you?



what do you think of this? ye or ne? good or bad?



i seem to be in this position. i'm being influenced by friends and cousin to date this guy. and truthfully, i never really noticed him until all this talk about us began, and shoot! he's such a sweet heart. i mean, all of you that have been through this, was it good or bad? I NEED YOUR OPINION SOOMPIERS.

[aznxbabiii]

Hell yeah. I never like guys until a friend says OMG ____ LIKES YOU. And then I start liking them a few days later...if he's cute LOL

[Shui]

haha yes
my ex was that, i liked him very much.
*sigh
too bad it didn't work out longer haha.

My friend was like he sooo likes you and then i was like WOAH he's such a sweetie and off it went

[clear_blue_rain]

i usually end up liking the guy if my friends say that he likes me or if they think he likes me
or... if the guy treats me like a girl more than a friend haha... like my current situation

[boo`--NiCOLE]

I guess that happens all the time, eh?
I caught him staring at me the whole night (I'd like to think so at least )when we ate dinner together at camp, and whooosh.

I really don't know what I'm going to get him for our 100 days.

[ueboprincess]

honestly i was in a position like that in H.S. and my classmates were trying to hook us up...but that never happened because i never saw him that way.....maybe ur feelings are mixed up......

hes a sweet heart in friend sense or sweet heart in liking him......u gotta go with what ur heart tells u...sometimes friends can pressure someone to like/love/ someone and then it can mess up a friend based relationship and then it can go sour from there....

then hes gonna go all mad that u didnt accept his feelings and who knows ur friends might end up hating u for it.......i dont wanna scare u but it has happened and ive been there

[MNLV27]

That has happened to me a few times in high school but I never really gave those friends trying to hook you up with a guy a try because I was either too afraid of getting into a relationship or I just didn't see him that way.
I almost fell into their pressure to go out with a guy friend of ours, eventually I thought I had liked him, but in the end I knew that the like I thought I had for him was just because I felt like I should like him because of the pressure from my friends. So I decided to back out and make it clear that I didn't like him that way.

[angelicXD]

friends and family usually have a big impact on who you are dating sometimes. Like if a friend said, he's a good guy for you, you should appreciate him then you'll start to appreciate him. But if your friends doesn't like him and keep saying he's a jerk, he's treating you like this and that, then you'll start seeing his flaws.

[0908]

Hell yeah. I never like guys until a friend says OMG ____ LIKES YOU. And then I start liking them a few days later...if he's cute LOL

LOL.
Usually, if my friends say that someone likes me, I'd go.."Ah..is that so?" using a dead tone of voice~ It's because many of the people that like me are like total strangers, scary part is some of them even know my name.
When they wave at me, I wave back even though I don't know them ahaha. Their effort is cute. :]

But yeah I don't start liking them back or something, unless I had a very strong bond with someone. ^^

[GOOMBA]

I never notice the nice guys until my friend says "___ likes you."
Then maybe a glance or two will come from me.
But if I didn`t notice him at first, chances are I won`t date him.
I`d get bored

[choochootrang]

I haaave.

My friend J and I were in a youth group together. She introduced me to her guy-friend from choir one Wednesday ( youth days ) and said we would be a great match for each other. We went out and, looking back on it, we were both really awkward due to lack of dating experience. We ended up breaking up because we weren't really interested in each other. I don't regret it though; It was fun while it lasted. Now I can't see him as anything more than a friend - even more so now that he's sucking face with one of my middle school besties haha.

But, to the OP, if you've noticed him now and are beginning to like him, go for it! Just because you didn't think of him that way before doesn't mean you guys can't be awesome together and last. c:

[joogrlpekaun]

Well, I didn't end up really liking him much in the end, but I did date a guy mostly because friends kept telling us we should try going out. One day we got teased and pushed together that last time that became the straw that broke the camel's back. We just looked at each other and he was like "**** this! I can't take it anymore. What do you say we just do it?" and I said "Uh...OK?" And then we went out for about two months, but we shouldn't have. There wasn't really much chemistry between us, it was just our friends being weird and imagining things. We weren't that compatible actually. I guess we had some good times, though, and I got some experience, so maybe it wasn't a total loss.

So no, I haven't fallen in love that way, but I've dated someone after lots of peer pressure made me consider him when I didn't really notice him like that before. I decided never to date someone unless I was convinced he was the guy for me from then on.

[Malice X Innocence]

lol my friend was like "Oh i think ___ will go good together" And then at first i was just like "ohh is that soo.... idk man but i doubt she likes me =/" cause like being single for 2 years and then getting rejected more then 5 times in one year really sucked. And then a few days later it was like me and her were hanging out together with a bunch of friends and we kept poking each other.. then hours later she had to leave so i decided to bring her to the train station. By the time we reached the station we hugged each other but then I felt a huge liking for her then i kissed her. After that i sortof felt ill cause idk if what i did was right so i texted her saying Sorry if things felt awkward and weird. And she replied saying "it's okay i was just surprised xD". And yea from that day on we just fell in love xD.

[manlytoe]

HAHAH! this topic just killed me with laughter because i've been through this more than once. hahah!

every single guy that my friends and cousins have talked about to me, and tried to hook me up with didn't work out. i mean, i guess if i didn't know them really well, i don't think it woulda worked out. plus, i mean they were usually guys that just didn't peak my interest, not only that, but they were usually creeps. sigh. sometimes, i wonder why it has to be that way. but eh.

all i gotta say is if you like this guy, go for it. it's always worth a try. it's just that with guys that my friends, and cousins have tried to hook me up with never worked out because they weren't ever sweethearts to me. GOOD LUCK!

[Inspector]

Somewhat. I didn't notice this girl much, and she seemed to ignore me too...but her friend told me she liked me (We had some common friends) and so I guess I noticed her more. Like everytime she passed or something, I would look at her because I knew she liked me...and so I would always catch her glancing. I guess I started to like her then too...so I approached her instead.