[Windoffire]

*closed*

thanks to all you guys for your advice, 'preciate it.
Mods can you please close it? kthx ^^

[ChouChou]

living an hour away isn't that bad is it? i wouldn't really class that as a long distance relationship

just explain to her about your situation. tell her the truth, that you really love and care for her but you have education also. tell her you're not putting education over her, just that you might not be able to give her as much of your time as you have done before
but like..tell her you're still going to make an effort and will try and make arrangements to see her whenever possible

definitely don't slack in studies because of a relationship because you're never 100% if it'd work out

erm...i guess you're just going to have to make a plan/timetable lol, allocate time for studying and her
and like..make her involved aswell so she doesn't feel as though she's just another slot on the timetable

[Windoffire]

She's got a tight schedule too.. and unfortunately ours don't coincide that often
Iunno... I can live with it but she doesn't feel that way

[Left_King]

Wow...idk how u guys manage to work every single day... Wont u explode!?!

I'm at my final yr at UNI... and the only days i revised everyday was like...1/2weeks b4 exams...LOL
Never did REVISION thru out the yr XD (i know im a bad example)
But to be honest i wouldnt mind revising every day....cuz most of the stuff we learn are really interesting!!

Goin back to the topic...

Ermmm....1 hr apart is not a LDR...u can easily find her once or twice every 2 weeks...

Ermmm...Just be honest with her...Honesty's the Best... (I always say this) and im sure she'll understand!!
U can always send her txts n stuff to keep it goin (if u dont wanna 'waste' ur time calling)
Maybe go find her on the weekends?

Me personally...i think....if u really love her...than u hv no excuses...
Be organised...Time Management...Prioritise ur schedule, Im sure there's always space for her...

Wish u all the best!!!

[MNLV27]

Yea, one hour distance isn't a long distance relationship.

But what you can do is just tell her that right now school is important and you don't want to mess it up, just tell her that
you need to focus more on school at the moment, and once that's done then she can talk to you as much as she wants. of course
between the time you are doing your school stuff, you should have quick ten minute calls or text her just to show that your
still thinking about her.

She should understand that, if not then she's a selfish girl, that's all I can say.

[sus]

just tell her u need some time to prep for uni
cos its veri important
n set aside times where u talk to her..

i thikn its not the quantity of time but the quality

the way u make her feel... as long as shes satisfied emotionalli... then she would be ok not talkin to u like everyday...

[Fui]

Honestly, your situation isn't that bad. You're only an hour away from her, so you can make time to see her during the weekends to strengthen your relationship.
Secondly setting straight your priorities are quite important as well. Just do what you think you need to get done first. If she has feelings for you/loves you then she will understand and won't get mad, lose interest in you.

[Yashi]

long distance is hard. for those of you guys saying 1 hour isn't that bad, it CAN be bad. sure, you can make plans over the weekend, but let's face it -- you guys are having a hard time FINDING the time, right? i have no idea if you guys drive yet, but if you can't, it sure makes it a lot harder to see each other, right? yeaaah.

i would want to tell you to reassure her about everything, and try to set aside 10 minutes a day to talk to her, but it depends on both of you. find something that works for both of you. plan things.

i don't want to sound so...grim, but the reality is, it's going to be hard. and if only ONE person is investing into the relationship, it won't work out. i'm speaking from experience, btw -- i was (and am) 1.5-2 hours away by car (because of college. ugh.), and it still ended up not working out. we talked every night, i saw him about 2-3 times a month; etc. is your love really that strong? is her love really that strong? it depends on how strong your feelings really are.