[xjarvi]

So today I went to a Thanksgiving luncheon thing with close family friends. It's pretty much a tradition to go every Thanksgiving. Anyway, my boyfriend had gone to his family's Thanksgiving lunch-- so we spent Thanksgiving day doing our own family thing.

Well, at the end of my luncheon my brother went to go meet up with his friend to play some video games. This friend of his is also the care-taker's son. ( The care-taker works for the family that hosts the Thanksgiving luncheon every year). I was going to head out to go pick up my brother from his friends place but realized that it had gotten dark outside and I didn't know which way to go. So I came back to the main house and told the guy I was talking to that I wasn't sure which way to go. By the way, this guy I was talking to is the son my late godmother. Meaning... he's pretty much like a god-brother to me. Anyway, he decides he is going to walk me to my brother's friend's place. As we were walking-- he quickly put his arm around my waist and attempted to kiss me but I turned away so he planted his lips on my cheek instead. I pushed him away as he was giving me the kiss and told him that he shouldn't do that. I didn't get mad because he was kind of drunk and acted irrationally-- but yeah, I guess you can say I was a bit startled.


So my whole thing is.. should I tell my boyfriend. I know I didn't cheat on him but I feel like I've been put in an awkward position. Also, I feel that I would want to know if something like this happened to him. But the problem is my boyfriend is very territorial. So if any guy lays a hand on me in any way, he will get a little fussy.

Any suggestions?

[vikkay]

if you want your bf to go after this guy, let him know (:
but it really doesnt matter if you tell him or not because nothing happened.

[kimchee1]

This happened to me! I told my boyfriend and he was upset at first, but realized everything was okay cause i only love him and i don't even care about that guy.

[NangTienUt]

mm. i think you have nothing to fear because you did nothing wrong. but if he's fussy as you say, it really depends on you. my bf got mad at me for a day because i went to see a movie alone with another guy. lol, but he got over it.

[Inspector]

Tell your bf. If he is infact "fussy", and he finds out you didnt tell him it would be worst. Hes going to get over it... not like you did anything.

[eximius]

Tell him. He's going to think that you have an different reason for keeping it from him if you don't.

[cheerydumdum]

teeeell. if he finds out some other way, he'll be more than just fussy.

[tofuni]

Tell him. Why wouldn't you? You didn't do anything wrong...
It's best to not keep secrets because they might erupt into something big and end badly. ):

[marvinoppa]

telling your boyfriend about the situation sounds like you have a small sense of guilt. if it really was nothing and you didnt do anything to provoke the situation, then its not at all your fault, and there's no point in telling him. do you get the inference im making here?

[Daaarian]

Its better than him finding out later on his own, if he ever does.

[natsurei]

O_O. Matters like these. I asked myself too if I should tell my boyfriend.
And I decided I wouldn't, 'cause no harm was done. Unless I see the boy again.
Ah but in the end, it just killed me, so I ended up telling him.
Because I was acting weird. Lol. and he noticed that I wanted to say something, o__O; but didn't want to.
I told him in a casual way though. Like "oh, one day, so and so and so"
Haha.

He got angry yeah. o_o; But then he was ohkay with it after. He just told me I should tell him sooner.
And said that the guy was an idiot. LMFAO.

[angelcadex]

I would tell my boyfriend that he TRIED to do that to me because then my boyfriend knows I'm faithful to him.
Mine in particular would be a little irritated at first but ehh.
I would appreciate it if he'd tell me if some girl tried to do that to him.

[beana*]

in my opinion it would be better to tell him because it shows you have nothing to hide you know? if you didn't tell him and he somehow found out, things could get twisted. however if he heard it from you he should know that you're telling the truth.
i had a similar situation to yours. i was at a party with my close friend and one of her friend's friend tried to kiss me because i touched his pin. what i did was pushed him off and said "what the hell are you doing" his lame excuse was "i have to kiss a girl who touches it because i'm pledging for a fraternity" bull crap because there were no fraternity boys there. anywho, i instantly texted my bf told him what happen and everything was cool :] so don't sweat it tell your man!

[PhuongNguyen]

It's not like you're making a confession or something. You're just telling him what happened. Something like that happened to me before and I just told my boyfriend just for the sake of telling him. I'm sure you would want to know if some chick was trying to kiss your boyfriend right? Unless he's the crazy type that would go and beat up and kill the guy... then that's a different story.

[xjarvi]

telling your boyfriend about the situation sounds like you have a small sense of guilt. if it really was nothing and you didnt do anything to provoke the situation, then its not at all your fault, and there's no point in telling him. do you get the inference im making here?

I definitely understand. But I did feel a sense of guilt. Kind of like how victims feel it's their fault in the case of rape, etc. (I know that scenario is a complete extreme but just take it as an example)

I ended up telling him because I would want to know if something like this happened with him and another girl. Also, because I don't have anything to hide. I wouldn't want this to come up in future times and for him to wonder why my god-brother and I act awkward around each other. When I told him, he got pretty mad until he put things into perspective. Funny thing is, ever since I told him-- he's been acting a lot more affectionate. I think it was a mini wake-up call if you get my jift ladies.

Thank you guys for all the input.