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Choosing Between The 2? EDITED! HELP!

#1 User is offline   mentholatum132 

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Posted 27 November 2008 - 07:45 PM

Theres this guy (Guy A) that I really really like. I've liked him for 4+ years. (its on and off though)

I told him i liked him 2 years ago, but back then, he didn't like me and went out with this other girl instead. But now, i think he's interested in me. He calls and texts me and always finds excuses to talk to me. I like him too but I don't know what to do. Around his friends, he acts like we're just friends and sort of ignores me. But when it's only us, he's really nice and caring. I don't know how it will feel if we become a couple. I've known him for a long time but we've never been really close. Also, I dont know how our friends will take it..

I met this other guy recently (Guy cool.gif and i think he likes me. I'm not sure if I like him though cuz i don't know him that well. He's really nice and caring and he's funny too. We've been texting all day and last night, we stayed up really late talking to each other. Guy A knew that I was texting him and all, and he became sort of cold and looked kind of unhappy. Does that mean he's jealous?

Arghh what should I doo? I think i like...both of them, or maybe i just can't tell >__<

Sorry if this is confusing smile.gif

EDIT: i hung out with Guy A last night (along with a bunch of other fds, including his ex), and i realized that he would always sit or stand near me. i wasn't planning to hang out with them because i was really tired. but he was saying how it would be awkward since his ex was there and was trying really hard to get me to go. we definately talked more that night than before and most of the time, his attention was directed at me.
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Posted 27 November 2008 - 08:01 PM

Give it some time.
if you don't know who you like then how could we tell you who you like smile.gif
but it looks like you like guy A more, from your post.


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Posted 27 November 2008 - 08:21 PM

It does seem like you like Guy A more, but if he really does like you back, why does he ignore you in front of his friends? A guy who likes a girl will not mind to show her off to his friends. The guy you just met recently seems very caring too. Go with your instant, follow your heart. We can't make a decision for you because this is your choice. Go with what you think will be right.

Best of luck.

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Posted 27 November 2008 - 09:50 PM

You can only love one person, loving both is impossible really...

Just like what babiiqrlxT said, if "Guy A" really likes you, then he wouldn't mind showing it in front of his friends. If he starts to ignore you like that then he's being a fake.

The second guy, you say you're not sure if you like him? Then..all of a sudden you're thinking twice...~
In my opinion give it time, don't rush your feelings or else it may lead you towards the wrong direction.

Get to know them both really well before deciding.
Inside, outside, strengths, and their weaknesses.

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Posted 28 November 2008 - 02:24 AM

We soompi people are just net goers with nothing to do in life besides sitting by the computer, do you seriously think we people could help you choose the right choice?
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 03:47 AM

QUOTE (Flicksityy @ Nov 28 2008, 04:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We soompi people are just net goers with nothing to do in life besides sitting by the computer, do you seriously think we people could help you choose the right choice?



i'm just asking for opinions...
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 03:47 PM

=.=' i get how girls don't like it when a guy is almost embarrassed to flirt with them he's interested in in front of people

but there's also that thought that he's just doing it to protect her.
>>' sides that, is there much more a point than gossip/showing off to rather have a guy flirt with you in front of people ? [cynical guy thoughts. lol]


_ i never liked these kinds of situations. the fact people get to choose~ but . hey. that's jus' my jealousy talkin .

o_O' i seriously hope you choose one and not both.. it gets all...complicated..
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 08:16 PM

Go out with the second guy and teach Guy A a lesson!
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 08:42 PM

QUOTE (GUESSHOOO @ Nov 28 2008, 09:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Go out with the second guy and teach Guy A a lesson!


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I agree. If the first guy really likes you, he wouldnt ignore you around his friends. Try giving the second guy a chance and see what happens ^^
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 08:48 PM

Go with what your heart tells you, If i were you I'd give person A a chance first.
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