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Ever Been Stressed Out To The Maxxxx !?!? How Did You Get Over It ?

#1 User is offline   Longshot 

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Posted 28 November 2008 - 02:22 PM

man am i ever stressed !!! im moving out and having to buy so many things... im having a big ordeal over a girl since ive falling for her hard but is just getting out of a relationship caused by me and don't know where its going to end up... stress like crazy at my job since its the same ol same ol and im frikkin brain dead cause its so repetative.. all the while friends are being ridiculious cause they say i dont' hang out with them enough and think i pick other firends over friends.. ughhhh !!! just way to much !!!!
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 05:12 PM

Homicidal thoughts.

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Posted 28 November 2008 - 05:40 PM

when im feeling very stressed, i write down a list of things to do in order. like making a schedule or something.
i organize what to do. i nap and i think of positive things that will come out of it or anything to brighten things up.
.. even if i know it wont happen.

that always make me happy.
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 06:23 PM

Drink your sorrows away!
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 06:40 AM

I'd just take my pillow and scream into it...
after that I'll cry.......

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Posted 29 November 2008 - 06:48 AM

The last time I was too stressed out, I cried on my mom's shoulder mellow.gif
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 06:55 AM

oh this year has been like that for me, i REALLY felt suicidal and thought about it and even googled on the net. and then i broke down hysterically, and after it felt a LITTLE better.

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Posted 29 November 2008 - 07:36 AM

...... which will happen next week crazy.gif
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 07:45 AM

I know how you feel. Right now I am SO stressed over school and I could scream. Basically I just make a list of things that I need to do, organize them in the best order, and just try to tackle as much as I can.
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 09:23 AM

i personally think that you should
take a step back and breathe.
just sit down and think things through.
for moving out try making a list of things you need to get done
put them in priority order. So getting bathroom stuff.. bedding. kitchen/food.
Other things you can get later.
For the girl, don't stress out about her too much.
Just take it slow, even if you REALLY like her just keep it at a
friendship status to help your case.
And work, just keep your head, remember to put things
in priority and don't freak. If you want to look for a better job,
just kind of search until you find one that seems fit and
interview. i know you want a change NOW. but its not the answer.
its better to have a steady salary now since you're just moving out.

And your friends, they aren't REAL friends if they don't understand
your situation right now.

i hope i helped kinda.



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Posted 30 November 2008 - 02:59 PM

Gosh, the whole past week has just stressed me out like CRAZY! And it was my Thanksgiving break off of school! I had to produce a whole video without the help of my own partner. I had to film, edit (which took so many days), and blah blah all that stuff. Along with that I had school projects. But to help relieve the stress, my best best friend came over to offer her help with anything. It really helped a lot. I also wrote down to-do lists and kept myself organized. I set goals and I also kept thinking of the positive things that would happen after I accomplished everything. Keep yourself motivated.
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Posted 30 November 2008 - 05:11 PM

yeah...school stressed me out..a lot.
Sometimes I feel i'll just like..have a brainfart..and fail everything!!
I'm so use to just pushing myself to the limit and just sucking it up and dealing with it..but it really gets so overwhelming sometimes.


Really..I believe there are some things in life that really will stress you out terribly, and you can never just necessarily 'put it aside'..it'll always be at the back of your mind that you have to get this project done, or prepare for this final or blah blah blah

but what always helps me..is i look back on all the other things i've stressed about in my lifetime..and realize, each time, i came out successfully in the end. Yeah it was a bumpy ride, but i'm still here aren't i? i survived and i'll for sure survive this one.

Don't ponder so much on the possibly outcomes or what needs to get done and how it's so much in so little time, just take it on bit by bit, day by day, and b4 you know it..you're through it. And you can relax once again biggrin.gif

And then you realize.."i stressed over this for nothin'!", cause' it was easy sailin' like you never imagined it would be : )

And prayer always gives me peace of mind, strength, assurance~
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Posted 30 November 2008 - 05:38 PM

actually i've never been SUPER stresssed unlesss wen i have to work for like 7 hrs on a project/paper like 3x.
and i was like mad stressed cuz i thought i was gonna like break down
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Posted 30 November 2008 - 08:10 PM

just go for a run, it works all the time
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Posted 01 December 2008 - 08:17 PM

Yes, there were times when I was totally stressed out to the point where I wanted to die. If I didn't believe in God, I would probably be dead by now. But now I know that suicide is a sin to God, so I prayed for His help. I recited God's words and they really helped me overcome those tough times.
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Posted 01 December 2008 - 08:22 PM

for me crying helps.
I just cry cry cry.. by myself in my room.
somewhere where you feel comfort.

Or i sit there and think things out.
why am i stressed, how do i feel...
Yeah just spend a few hours to yourself.
do what makes you happy.
I just listen to my fav music and lay in bed.
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Posted 01 December 2008 - 09:29 PM

STRESSED TO THE MAXED YEAH!!!!! well, at first I thought stress was causing my bundle of white hair that decided to grow out, of only the left side of my head!, then my lil bro said white hair was genetic.......lol...now it's just funny....but ppl. notice it and decide to point it out to me every so often. Then, don't get me started off school.....SCHOOL is soooo hard....I QUIT....would be the first words that come out of my mouth, but darn it's only high school.....what am i going to do in college???when homework doubles....triple.....yup...... CALCULUS suxs!!!!! Rawr!!! it's gonna mess up my GPA.........*sniff* I should have never taken it. I used to love math....until calculus....just failed my test....my teacher is disappointed. T__T. And English....I hate it...no matter how I write it's never good enough...i guess it's my fault I suck at writing....but how am I suppose to improve when all she does is yell at the class when we turn in bad papers??? She should at least tell us what we did wrong (she does sometimes) and how to improve our papers.

I was sooo sure I knew what I wanted to major in college, but NO....not anymore, I'm more confused and scared, what if i don't get into college?...I've filled out for five colleges and haven't received any acceptance letters...maybe because i sent everything out like three...two??? weeks ago....darn. I need to receive something...i know I' not all that important for colleges to stop everything and just review my paper...but darn....it is too much to ask for???? (I guess the answer is yes..lol)

Then, scholarships.....I need money! I go to a public school and have no more....only rich in potential...i hope....lol....yup. I hardly have time to look for scholarships...i don't get home from school until 6:30 pm, then I have to eat dinner, and do the homework and essays that the teachers pack on day after day...well I could just not eat but i can't just not eat...I'm human.....

Then somehow even though i feel like i have no time , I make time for dramas and movies and time to enjoy life, but these little set aside time are hardly enough to live my life.....argh...........then it just gets too depressing with dramas and how their life have soo many awesome unexpected turns of love and all the good stuff....why can't life be like that......but truth is it can't...so I got over it.... the Twilight movie was awesome...maybe because i didn't read the book, but Edward is totally hot...i might sound crazy but sooo sad he's only a character...lol....but it was fun living vicariously through the characters of the movies and dramas...yup.

Then I have many friends who are in running for top in my class and I have to keep yup my grades, but i'm soo lazy, and i'm angry, at myself and at them, when i think about the classes they're taking, they're my friends and I love them, but they're taking some easy classes.....but it's my fault for taking hard classes...darn.....argh!!!! But one isn't taking easy classes and she's way smart, she's even taking one extra class than me, and i'm trying darn hard to stay up with her.....I love her, and I try to help her anyway possible in my classes, but when i comes to me, I guess it's not the same. I'm just a bit disappointed. T___T...then i sometimes i have anger problems for some reason, not at anyone, but at myself, because i can't bring myself to be the person i want myself to be.....yup...harsh harsh.....people say I'm too hard on myself, but I need high standards to live!!!!

IDK anymore.

oh yeah, in your most depressing and sad moments in life.....suicide my have crossed your mind like train tracks as it did mine, but it is totally not the way....trust me...I thought jumping off the bridge at school....nope...i'd be an ugly scene and I'm too scared to jump off...i hate heights...lol...then i though die in my sleep, but i'm too scared, what if I don't know I'm dead when i am dead..lol.....I guess I'm too chicken to die, but then when it comes to life, the real challenge is to live it.....yup.

yup thought about it, but I will not, cannot because I am me, and i don't quit, because despite how cliche the phrase "life is precious" is, it rings true. Life is precious and we only get to live once...yup.

my teacher said, "If you're going through hell, keep going." LOL......we eventually find relief.......yup.....sometimes just stop and pause and don't do anything you are suppose to do, rest, get your time to yourself, just yourself, and think, or just sit there and do nothing......that's what i do. If there's too much to do I just don't do anything, then there's no stress...lol
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Posted 01 December 2008 - 09:45 PM

Yes, but it happened to me like few months ago. I just went partying to forget all about it. I danced and drank and got drunk and danced some more. It was fun and definitely made me feel a whole lot better the next day. biggrin.gif
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Posted 01 December 2008 - 09:52 PM

I feel you. A lil way too much.

I had the most horrible break up with my bestfriends...or so I thought.

My mother is freakin a lunatic.

I started to get stalked online. Led everyone to believe I did it to myself (WTF?!!!).

I hung out with friends from HS on Sat. and we had a lot of drama that was brought up after 3 1/2 years!! And that was very stressful cause I was half drunk and so were the rest of everyone there.

I seriously need another job.

School is the last thing on my mind...cause I took a semester off fortunately. My stress got that BAD that I had to take a semester off from school when im almost done.

Im just seriously done. I just want to run away...but then I think ...im 21...people go through much worse. Life goes on.

So I go to work...chill with the friends I still do have...and try to keep myself busy at home away from my family. smile.gif
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Posted 02 December 2008 - 12:30 AM

write down and plan the things you need to do. it gives you a better, clearer perspective and enables you to organise your time better.


things will get better!! smile.gif
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