[lea11]

Beautiful people are always judged by their looks.
Looking at one may make you think, 'He/She is so gorgeous, I bet they have tons of friends - in fact, if I talk to them, they'd look at me funny.'
But one does not realize how lonely they are inside,
because people always assume the same things.
Curt hellos and polite questions is really all the conversations they have in one day.
Because when they come home they spend hours with their heads buried,
Sleeping to forget or to let their tears comfort them,
because that is the only thing that is actually true.
What will take for them to realize that beauty deceives everything?
That it does not matter at all when they start feeling suicidal?
They always seem popular, happy.... perfect....
But you'd be surprised how true that may be.
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EDIT: I just realized - some might think this should be in the 'beauty' section - but this isn't really advice-wise, just something philosophical to think about .. rather this is also deep. Well IMO, I think so at least. ^^'

[miss_vicky]

i absolute agree with you on this... well most of them are like that and others are not. but thank you for sharing it all. did you write it yourself?

[kirstie_s]

haha i totally agree. although what you wrote may be a tad bit extreme.
people usually think im shallow and very judgmental just based on how i look.
you never really get a 'chance' to be anything else

[miika]

Umm, frankly a lot of beautiful people are able to lead great lives if they have an outgoing personality. And I'm sure the opposite sex are not as intimidated by 'beautiful people'.

It goes for both beautiful and ugly people if they do not have the personality to be social.

Umm yeah, happiness does not depend on what a person looks like.

[ElectroHime]

i agree.
no to brag but a lot of people tell me im pretty & i must be popular, i must have a lot of guys chasing me
but im not popular at all, i dont even have a boyfriend right now , and recently i lost almost all my friends (kept those that stuck with me thick&thin)
and im quite lonely -__- LOL im not all emotional though because when there are plenty of things im thankful for,
and there are many wonderful reasons for me to be happy
thanks for sharing !

[banditkiller015]

Wow that's kinda hard to believe and I must be the only guy that disagrees. I mean yeah I just disagree.

[airedust]

i asssume a lot of girls think this way bc if someone looks at you in the streets, your prolly like oh he thinks im pretty. but i dont think its true.. because there are a lot of pretty girls in my school and they get to pick their friends. if theyre really extremely pretty, they tend to hang out with the prettier section of the school, and guys flock around them. i dont think guys would leave any pretty girl alone. and some girls might be intimadated to talk to them, hence, the pretty girls pick their own girlfriends. depending on their status, looks, and such. i dont think pretty ppl have any problem finding friends because there are people that would be friends with you only if your pretty.

a real convo:
pretty girl: hey, do you know who ___ is?
normal girl: yeah shes in my class
PG: i wanna be friends with her
NG: why?
PG: cause shes pretty.

-__- this is a real convo, i swear.

[pocketsoul]

I don't think that's necessarily true for all the gorgeous people in this world. I think there are plenty of them that take their beauty in stride and realize that there's more to life then hearing how physically attractive they are.

[supplayarr]

Ugly people are always judged by their looks.
Looking at one may make you think, 'He/She is so ugly, I bet they have no friends - in fact, if I talk to them, they'd look at me funny.'
And one does realize how lonely they are inside,
because people always assume the same things.
Curt hellos and polite questions is really all the conversations they have in one day.
Because when they come home they spend hours with their heads buried,
Sleeping to forget or to let their tears comfort them,
because that is the only thing that is actually true.
What will take for them to realize that beauty deceives everything?
That it does not matter at all when they start feeling suicidal?
They always seem unpopular, unhappy.... not at all perfect....
And you'd be surprised how true that may be.
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aka. you cant generalize gorgeous people like me. its a big no no.

[babiiqrlxT]

It's not always true for every "pretty/beautiful" girl out there, but I do agree there are some out there that's feeling this way. It's kind of sad because no one really knows how they're really feeling. Basically they are putting a show everyday for people to see.

[PoppinBC]

well... I'm the "handsome" guy, and I'm sure as hell lonely =/

People put expectations on you based on looks (I don't even feel like I'm that attractive, but people tell me I am), they pre-judge your character before they even know you. I've compensated by keeping myself monstrously busy with 4 student groups, 18 hours of classes, tutoring students every week, piano, guitar, cooking, and so on... But sometimes it gets lonely, your confidence takes a hit, simply because you feel like you have to be something, not just yourself.

[Dreamss]

wow, i agreee 100%. just because someones beautiful doesnt mean you can judge them right away.
i mean a beautiful person might come on as a talkative and having a ton of friends, but they
can sometimes be a lonely person that can really socialize as well as others.

[aval-zo]

that's why it's better to be "average" hahas. Be kinda a plain jane with an outstanding personality.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

I disagree as well.
If you're pretty you obviously have tons of friends. Especially the opposite sex.
talking about pretty girls here. Not guys, guys are different really.
But girls, if you're pretty, i'm gonna bet you have heaps of guy friends and obviously a girl friends as well.

You're gonna go to many dates.
Even if you don't have dates, you got your friends to hang out with.
If your friends don't wanna hang out, you're gonna have something else to do, lessons, church.
Have you seen a pretty girl that looks lonely? no, they're constantly busy the way I see it.
Every one of those things increase your socializing skills.
have you seen a pretty girl that is not good at socialising?
I sure don't, I see pretty girls are ignorant bunch, setting high standards, thinking they are queens.

All I can say is, if you're not like what I said above, high chance that you're not even pretty. You got that word from the wrong people.

and no I'm not including guys as well, realise that guys are different? a cool guy does not mean he's good looking. He got this certain aura *cough*confidence*cough* that makes people perceive him as a cool guy. So really can't be compared to girls.

Plus, I've got to agree that pretty girls tend to be more suicidal thinking. Mainly because they're all dumb, they think their life is so drama-ish. They realise that life is not a drama, but since they are pretty they think they're an exception, that their life could be drama-ish, when in fact it can't.

[Overclocked]

I come from Vancouver, and here 'gorgeous' girls are judged, but mostly on a the demographics of the location. The target market is most likely to " ... [...]" and will usually like
"... [...]" The 'gorgeous girls' in Vancouver, especially, in Downtown, think they are the hottest mini cooper that ever graced god's green earth. Me, my friends, my acquaintances, and all the other people i have interviewed speak of the same thing. We have to practice peripheral vision, or just give a blank stare forward, never straying our eyes just once, because we will get the "piss off, i'm too hot for you, i'm too damn pretty to acknowledge you"

If they are lonely, it's because they choose to shoo people away. If they are beautiful, actual, or imaginary, they will in a way to be anti-social, strangely, the accepted norm is for beautiful people to act this way, if they weren't than it would be considered weird, not normal, out of the norm. I only used Vancouver as a life experience example, because i do not want to comment on the entire earth's population of 'beautiful people' because I have no experience there.

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I think this post about beautiful people is just a way of saying "hey, it's not their fault" just like those stereotypical kid films about the bullys treating the main character like mini cooper (so the viewer can relate to them, of course) and than the next scene, the bully comes home to a abusive dad, and than we get the "ohhh, that's why the bully is a bully" thing.

On another note, for those computer anime watchers, often times 'geeky', you are the Target Market. Every wonder why you say 'oh i enjoyed that so much, i wonder why' it's because the anime was catered specifically for you. The main character in animes aren't the 'down on their luck', and 'bad with woman' by accident. They are designed so the main audience, the target market, will be able to relate to the main character. A big boob chested girl, who is the hottest girl in the class, who just so happened to confess their feelings for you, the underdog, most likely isn't going to happen in real life. This relates to the above example.

stereotypical main character traits:

- computer programmer (onegai twins)
- college student, lack of social network, gets hot chick (chobits)
- uni hopeful (love hina)
- just happens to get married to a hot chick because he knows she's a alien, just so happens to be forced to share a bed, and also the main character is a student (onegai teacher)

to tie this in with the beautiful people example, this little poem here was made so we go 'ohh, that's why those girls act the way they do, it's okay, i will not judge them from now on, it's not their fault their so bitter!'

for those 'pretty people' please do not ruin the image equity of those innocent 'pretty people' who do not act in such a stuck up pinkberry manner, who do not act in such a 'i'm the hottest mini cooper ever, i am above the mere mortals' thing, because we (vancouver residents) have a reputation of poor social quality girls, just like how Surrey is becoming the next Sussex of England.

ahhh, feels good to rant, i've been meaning to get this off my chest for a while.

Just Google "Vancouver Girls" first search result.

[Pogichinoy]

Its different for everyone, both beautiful and ugly people alike.

[axel1238]

Wow that's kinda hard to believe and I must be the only guy that disagrees. I mean yeah I just disagree.

I agree with you. I have friends that are very pretty and they're personalities aren't fake. They don't go crying at home nor become emo and think they are only treated very well because of their looks. My friends that are very pretty, most of them are very nice and don't take other peoples feelings for granted. They've earned my respect because they truly respect others.

----- The girls that cry at home and think they are only liked because of their looks are the ones that use their looks to their advantage.

If you are very pretty and nice and happy, why should you let strangers make you feel sad? Be happy with the friends you have and that they are true to you. But I'm not saying to dislike those types of strangers, respect them also because the more you respect the more you'll be liked by more people.

[leaves]

Is that why I don't have any friends?
AHAHAH ~ JUST KIDDING X]

LOL~ Which reminds me, I have a friend who looks.. a certain way and another girl always say why she's looking at her that way.
Her eyes just always look mad. XD AHAH ~
Poor her. D:
I don't completely agree with this also, there are a lot of beautiful girls that are not like that.

[Flicksityy]

How can you determine a girl is pretty or not? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

And I believe most of this apply to anyone who look strong but are somewhat emotionally insecure, not only beautiful people.

[★jace★]

confident and secure doesnt necessarily mean you are outgoing and have that charismatic thing going, no?

the thing i've noticed about how some people treat beautiful girls is that they consider them an object to be admired. not someone to be close to, just for admiration purposes. which really sucks, imo.

also, there are guys out there who, when they see a beautiful girl, go after her to be their girlfriend, basically to see if they can get lucky. but once its a no-no, they move on. they just dont see the girl as friend material, but rather, girlfriend material.

just thoughts based on my own life experiences and views.