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#1 User is offline   starperson 

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Post icon  Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:03 PM

Hello^^ This is due for a project on Korea and I was looking up what the age was that you can have consensual sex/relationship,
and it said... 13. I was like, OMG!! In US most eveyone knows it is 18. But I never trust the internet for this stuff, so
could someone tell me??

Tell me if you think this is ok, 17 year old(or older) date a 23 to 24(24 to 25 in korean years)??
I think a six/seven year difference is not bad, you?

Thank you^^~~
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:15 PM

Is it really 18 in America? You can't have sex until 18? That's crazy.

16 here in Australia

18 for anal
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:19 PM

QUOTE (Torento <3 @ Nov 28 2008, 11:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
18 for anal



lol. i find this really funny.
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:20 PM

Yes, but you know for sure people have sex anyways. Like if your 16/17 you cant date someone who is 20, its only 3 years, it is the
same if your 15 and the other is 17! it is lame~
Lol!! Wow, they put a law on anal, its like thay have to know what goes on in the bedroom? wowww...
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:24 PM

^ i feel dumb but LOL@anal

yeah... 18 just feels like a good age to me? probably just cause all of those 'you must be 18 or older to call' commercials i saw my whole life haha and here in the states 18 is 'legal' adult but everyone knows you can't do anything fun until you're 21. huh.gif
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:24 PM

QUOTE (Torento <3 @ Nov 29 2008, 06:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Is it really 18 in America? You can't have sex until 18? That's crazy.

16 here in Australia

18 for anal


in other words.

straight couples + lesbians at 16
gays are at 18. it's something to do with the male's maturity to decide their sexuality.

_ .hm... 'spose at 16 kids do get rather ..sexual... =.=' as disturbing an image as that may be..
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:29 PM

I think it's because of the further risk attached with anal penetration (not just anal sex).

Sorry, by anal sex I meant penetration sexually, in general. Including toys and other body parts or whatever....

Sorry if I made the topic crude, but it is the law we are discussing.
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:31 PM

Haha, not crude, but no one is answering my question?? laugh.gif

haha an answer would help? thank you~~
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:35 PM

It states that Korea is 13, for all aspects of sex.


http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm

I heard in America the age of consent is 16, but if you are under 18 it's illegal to have sex with someone who is over 18. I hope that's not the same case in Australia, or the girls I've been with have been breaking some serious laws. Not that I would say anything.

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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:41 PM

In California it is 18.

Oh my gosh, so it is 13??
WoW~

So in Korea a 13 year old can date a, say 19 year old?
And a 17 can date a 23? Is this right?

Oh thank you much Torento!!~
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:43 PM

it was 14 in canada, but it got raised to 16
i feel like 18 is a right age also
woah 13 in korea? that's wack O____O
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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:52 PM

dangg, from that page ^ so many countries male/male female/female sex is illegal

& spain's is 13 too... and phillipines even go to 12. crazy..
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 12:03 AM

WOW. That's very surprising to know. O_O
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 01:37 AM

I lost my virginity just after I turned 15. I mean, but 13 is just, crazy....
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 05:39 AM

erm no. age of consent is 20 lunar, which is college age.
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 07:57 AM

lol, I find it amazing about the ages and sex. Truthfully, who follows the law? ;O

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Posted 29 November 2008 - 08:14 AM

And I thought that the swedish rule at 15 was low, but 12 & 13, that's just quite weird. Generally I think 18 is a good age, but not that many follows the rules anyway^^
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 09:31 AM

It's not 18 everywhere in the US. It depends on the state.
In NY, it's 17. Then there's this age difference thing between two partners. (I think 15/17 is acceptable? Or something along those lines.)
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Posted 29 November 2008 - 09:37 AM

QUOTE (onewaylove @ Nov 29 2008, 03:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
phillipines even go to 12. crazy..

It's crazy, considering how most Filipinos are Catholic/Christian and therefore, they "don't believe in having pre-marital sex". O_O So why the heck is the age of consent 12 if you are dictated by religion to not have sex until after you're married?

Not that most people follow that "no sex before marriage" rule though. I know tons of Catholics who've had sex before they were married. x_x;;

I'm Filipino btw, and I didn't even know 12 was the age of consent here. T_T;;;

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Posted 29 November 2008 - 12:04 PM

QUOTE (Torento <3 @ Nov 28 2008, 11:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It states that Korea is 13, for all aspects of sex.


http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm

I heard in America the age of consent is 16, but if you are under 18 it's illegal to have sex with someone who is over 18. I hope that's not the same case in Australia, or the girls I've been with have been breaking some serious laws. Not that I would say anything.


Yeah. If you have sex with someone 18+ and your under that it's consider some sort of rape.
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