There's this guy I've been crushing on since about Mid-October. I'm a sophomore, and he's a freshman--there's pretty much a lot of reasons why I like him and all, but that's not the point right now lol. So, I honestly feel like telling him that I liked him, but I feel like I lost that chance while I had it. Back in October (it was Halloween) my my friend had took my phone away from me and texted him "Hey!" I got reaaaally embarrassed, but I wasn't mad. He texted back asking who I was, and then a little while later another text came from him asking if I was the girl that liked him. Then another came saying, "Never mind, I think I just confused you." But yeah, I replied, saying who I was...and then he replied asking me if I was the girl that (my other-other friend) said that liked him.
This is where I kinda regretted the most: my friend took back my phone, and she replied for me, "of course I don't like you because you're a freshman". I kinda laughed at it but I replied to him "Waitwait~ Ignore the last text!" But...I don't know what he thought after that. So I kinda continued texting him later on, but then he told me that he didn't have a texting plan so we didn't text at all after that point on.
Now that I thought back about it, I could've like, given him a 'rope to tug'. I could've took back my phone from my friend and instead replied, "maybe! XD" or something like that! It just makes me feel really stupid and all depressed to what I could've done.
My question was, do you guys think that I STILL have a chance? Even before back in October we just started talking, but maybe it would've had a positive outcome if I replied with that maybe. Right now we only have one class with each other, and I sit next to him which is a plus. Thing is, he's really shy but gets talkative and whatever once you get to know him--sort of like me. So I tried teasing him and all, but it ends up him teasing me more than I do. I still can't get to talk to him which pisses myself off (because then I can't get to know him more )x). I honestly just don't know how to talk to him!
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#2
Posted 30 November 2008 - 02:47 AM
Do you have an inability to talk? If so, I can perfectly understand why you have so much difficulty in starting a convo with him. If not, start chatting! It's not that hard talking to a normal teenage boy. Oh while you're at it, confront him before you start kicking yourself again for not saying the things you want to say. Even if you might end up getting rejected, it will not be the end of your life. Time will eventually heal you and move the heck on.
#3
Posted 30 November 2008 - 12:27 PM
Hmmm. OK, so you're too shy to talk to in him in class?
Maybe you can start text messaging him again?
Text message him "Hey [insert name], how are you?" and then with it a question about what you had in class together.
Pretending you don't know what the teacher said or something...
And from then on try to text message more. And maybe he will start a conversation with you in class.
Or you just force yourself to say something to him in class.
Maybe just start with a simple "hi" and "how are you".
You don't have to confess right away, start bit by bit showing interest in him.
Maybe you can start text messaging him again?
Text message him "Hey [insert name], how are you?" and then with it a question about what you had in class together.
Pretending you don't know what the teacher said or something...
And from then on try to text message more. And maybe he will start a conversation with you in class.
Or you just force yourself to say something to him in class.
Maybe just start with a simple "hi" and "how are you".
You don't have to confess right away, start bit by bit showing interest in him.
#4
Posted 30 November 2008 - 12:31 PM
You spelled out lose wrong. It's lose not loose. Loose is when something is not tightened.
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#5
Posted 30 November 2008 - 12:56 PM
uh... I don't think the first bit is relevant.
You don't even know if he likes you or not, chances are not, so the thing that your friend did doesn't even matter >.> It's not offensive anyway, so nothign wrong with that.
the thing that I don't get, whats your problem? I mean, you've been talking to him... so... what's the matter? lol
Anyways, first bit is not relevant. Whether he likes you or not, it won't change his mind. So don't need to worry about that.
You don't even know if he likes you or not, chances are not, so the thing that your friend did doesn't even matter >.> It's not offensive anyway, so nothign wrong with that.
the thing that I don't get, whats your problem? I mean, you've been talking to him... so... what's the matter? lol
Anyways, first bit is not relevant. Whether he likes you or not, it won't change his mind. So don't need to worry about that.
#7
Posted 30 November 2008 - 05:05 PM
you said wait wait! ignore the last text.
maybe he's waiting now.
and atleast he's teasing you back. it shows he isnt totally turned off.
just talk to him more. ask him if he wants to go somewhere.
maybe he's waiting now.
and atleast he's teasing you back. it shows he isnt totally turned off.
just talk to him more. ask him if he wants to go somewhere.
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