I Made It Akward And Now I Feel Like I Screwed Up

I Made It Akward And Now I Feel Like I Screwed Up Sooo Stresssed, Can't Even Do Anything..

#1 Longshot

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 09:27 AM

well some of you know my situation but for those that don't heres a quick refresher.. i liked a girl with a boyfriend for awhile, we started hanging out more and being close.. kissed a couple times.. now she broke up with her boyfriend and me and her got a lot closer and intimate and know we like each other...

but last night when we were together for a small portion i made it akward.. my conversation with her and just the way i was acting was soo wierd.. it just was horrible and she even asked why i was being wierd... i could tell she didn't like it.... last night after she left i felt like mini cooper, i feel like mini cooper right now even having anxiety about the whole thing cause i really like her so much and feel as though i screwed everything up..

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 09:46 AM

Help... i still have the rest of the day to go and don't know what to do..

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 09:51 AM

just talk to her.
talk things out. -0-;

it'll be less awkward

just try to explain to her why
you were acting that way?
i dont know.
to me talking is a way to get out of things.

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 09:55 AM

well after she left she text me saying " why are you being wierd "

and i said " tired "

and said a few more things like " i wanted to kiss and hug you but didn't know if i should infront of a friend " but i know she still thinks it was wierd and akward..

this is really ripping me apart cause im falling for her hard and i don't know how to make it better

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 10:33 AM

should i text her or phone her or just not do anything for a bit..

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 11:07 AM

dont think its the end of hte world. just try not to be awkward next time, and she will think u were just tired that day.

Oh and dont text her too much, ull seem needy

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 11:19 AM

yah but now there is gunna be these wierd void since it was so akward next time.. i guess the only thing to do is just act normal next time and have some fun.... it really rattles me cause i know what she is thinking about right now and its not good for me when im trying to win her over and show her how much i care..... soooo stressed out about it and really worried.

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 12:02 PM

i can't handle this right now.. ! im really breaking down... i care about her so much and she is what i think about and look forward to each and everyday.. why woudl she wanna hang out with me agian.. its wierd and akward,, thats not something to look forward too.. ive never been so stressed, worried, hurt before... am i haveing an axiety attack right nwo ?

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 12:14 PM

so what i got so far is that you liked a girl who had a bf, then you guys end up getting together and already got close and intimate as you say....so why were you acting weird when you wanted to kiss her if you guys had before? but basically all you can do since that happened already is to just act normal again, because if you keep trying to show her that you were sorry about acting weird and whatnot then that would just probably make it worst.

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 12:23 PM

i dunno why i was acting weird.. i was really really tired and sometimes not making sense.. we don't really show in public yet cause of co-workers not even knowing the who situation with her now ex.. so i dunno when to show it or not you know ? i didn't know to hug her. kiss her or do anything it was so akward. and its sucks cause i care about her so much that its confuses me sometime and i dont' wanna lose her and or her to lose interest in me becuase of this wierdness which was last night.. and i dont' wanna come off needy eigther by asking her to hang out here or there and texting her.... what should i do besides just act normal the next time we see each other cause we do work together

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:04 PM

anyone ? i just really don't know what to do

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:10 PM

You're thinking too much. She probably forgot already. Just act cool next time.

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:12 PM

QUOTE (Longshot @ Dec 4 2008, 01:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

anyone ? i just really don't know what to do

Stop bumping the topic, people will answer just wait patiently.

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:22 PM

maybe your acting weird because she doesn't have the boyfriend anymore? no boyfriend = no chase?

but other than that... i think you shouldn't think about it so much... it was an off night for you. everyone has them... just next time you see her jus go about how you guys use to hang out... wait.. are you guys together yet? or still in the transition of getting together?

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:23 PM

i apologize, im just having a really difficult time with this and its really taking a toll on me right now.. and i should be patient and wait until i hear some advice.. i don't wanna go home i don't wanna see anyone im so distraught !

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:24 PM

You should be patient and wait until you two meet up again. The best advice would be to not dwell on it and move on. Chances are, she's not taking it as seriously as you.

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Posted 04 December 2008 - 01:28 PM

QUOTE (ramenhero @ Dec 4 2008, 03:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

no now that she doesn't have the bf weve become more open about it to each other and hang out more intimatly.. its better now that she doesn't have a boyfriend.. i don't care about the chase i care about her..

we are not officially together... i think were seeing if there is actaully something there you know ? we talked about how much we like each other and what not... but after last night who knows cause dam it was akward... we work together tommorow, but that's work.

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Dec 4 2008, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

You should be patient and wait until you two meet up again. The best advice would be to not dwell on it and move on. Chances are, she's not taking it as seriously as you.

your right i shouldn't, and i hope just hope that it doesn't effect the way she thinks about me cause of the akwardness.. she even text me right after she left asking " why are you being wierd " that's what rattled me even more !