Trust Issues do you have them?
#1
Posted 04 December 2008 - 09:38 PM
or something of the sort.
i'm usually the last to find out about stuff but i feel like i'm really close with a lot of people and i'm really trustworthy. maybe its just me?
so one of my closest friends told me "i think they're scared of you. not literally but out of respect kinda scared."
and i'm like "O_O" i don't particularly think its true...but i don't know. haha. maybe they have insecurities with me.
i personally DON'T have trusting issues. but sometimes thats a bad thing. lol. i shouldn't be so trusting.
ahh~ okay so my story was confusing to many people ahha ^^'' sorry. but the whole point was that i found out about a secret about someone through someone else. which is no fun.
so do you have trust issues?
if so, is it to the point where you don't tell anyone anything?
had any bad experience to cause trusting issues?
what about those who don't have trusting issues? what do you guys do?

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#2
Posted 04 December 2008 - 09:41 PM
I trust my girlfriend, but she doesn't trust me completely. Because of my past with girls, especially Japanese ones.
#3
Posted 05 December 2008 - 01:36 AM
so do you have trust issues?
o_O' um. don't think so? in certain cases i don't say things.
if so, is it to the point where you don't tell anyone anything?
...uhhhhhhhhh.... sure. o-o' no one wants a life story.
when people do try to pry the coffin open, i just jump up and down on it like a maniac and point over to an invisible pony.
had any bad experience to cause trusting issues?
eh. i remember this guy , one of those 'first friends' you make in highschool. ==' typically he was the one who leaked that i thought this chick in my year was my cousin. LOl. -sighs-
what about those who don't have trusting issues? what do you guys do?
i let them be. o-O' it's not my business.
unless, of course, i feel it's something they need to share eventually.
#4
Posted 06 December 2008 - 05:10 PM
as for me, i have trust issues. I trust very few people and most of the time, even if i want to tell someone something, i usually keep it to myself because i don't trust anyone enough anymore to tell them anything. but then again, that's my problem, not theirs. it's like once you've been burned, you don't wanna get burned again.
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#5
Posted 06 December 2008 - 05:15 PM
My friends feel "intimidated" by me because I am sorta more mature than them.
I AM usually the last to know everything, and when I do find out, I hear it from someone else.
I guess they are kind of scared of your opinion, or that you will say something that would make them unhappy.
Maybe if you speak your mind with no intention of hurting them?
If that's what you mean, I know exactly how you feel.
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So do you have trust issues?
Only to a bf. I get jealous easily.
If so, is it to the point where you don't tell anyone anything?
Nope, when I get jealous... I rant on and on about it.
I think it gets pretty annoying when I do it, I notice it myself.
That's how bad it is.
Had any bad experience to cause trusting issues?
Not really, just jealousy.
#6
Posted 06 December 2008 - 05:19 PM
Its not to the point where i dont tell anyone anything o.o
i don't mind telling people things honestly, if its not important
but then again, there are a lot of things i just don't consider important like 'oh this person likes that person' kind of thing
Actually I have had bad experiences with trust xD but not all of them involved me
But I think there's a line when it comes to trust,
it really depends on what's being said and who it's being said to
#7
Posted 06 December 2008 - 07:22 PM
The reason it's hard is because of the people around me. My dad did a lot of stupid things which make it hard for me to trust anyone in general. I've been with liars and disrespectful people (friend laughed at a situation I was telling her), and that's why I can't be an open book to anyone.
#8
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:03 PM
if so, is it to the point where you don't tell anyone anything? ahmmm. Not really.
had any bad experience to cause trusting issues?
I dated this one guy for like 2 years right?
He's 18 now and we started dating when he was 16 and I was 14.
Everything was good. At this point, I thought wow...he's like the best boyfriend ever.
He did everything I said. He got everything I asked for.
& then not long ago actually,
his "girl" best friend, who was also my best friend, told me that she's pregnant.
It was his baby. Before we broke up I asked him to tell me the truth so that I'd at least have the courage to forgive them,
and he told me that they both went behind my back during the time I was gone to cali. for like a month?
It wasn't a serious thing. I guess they both got bored or something maybe?
& he said he had wanted to tell me everything when I got back,
but he was afraid that I'd break up with him.
& he didn't want that to happen.
So they both hid it from me for...ever!
& I guess she fell for him and then IDK, maybe drugged him to have an unprotected sex with her so that she can get pregnant?
Butttt...yeah,
we broke up.
&& we haven't talked since forever.
It's because of him that now, it's extremely hard for me to trust anyone.
#9
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:10 PM
抱著過去不放手不表示就是永遠的擁有
最終就算你想忘記它, 亦先要有勇氣去面對它
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#10
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:12 PM
#11
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:26 PM
#12
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:38 PM
no it's not to the point where i don't tell anyone. i at least tell someone.
i've never really had a bad experience. they were more like so-so experiences.
#13
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:42 PM
You say you're close with people, but maybe not really.
I don't have trusting issues. My friends just never ask me about my secrets.
But then again, if someone asked, I wouldn't just straight out tell them.
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#14
Posted 06 December 2008 - 08:49 PM
its not like i dont tell anyone anything .. i tell my bestfriend a lot of stuff .. but not EVERYTHiNG.
im usually a very carefree and optimistic person but ..
a lot of my past boyfriends have told me that i always have a wall around me .. and i guess its true ..
its to protect myself from getting completely hurt yah know?
especially recently since my bf just broke up w/ me ...
w/ him .. i let down some of my guards and in the end i got hurt.
i feel deceived and lied to.
he told me he loved me and all these other stuff ..
then.. the very next day .. he broke up w/ me.
i cant believe a lot of people now.
when people say things.. i feel like theres some other meaning to it. is it a test? are you lying?
i have to be very careful w/ what i say and how i say it.
i dont like this feeling ...
i mean.. who does right??
#15
Posted 07 December 2008 - 12:56 AM
And even if we do hang out unless I feel I could really trust that person I won't talk about anything in my personal life including family issues and well girls I like.
#16
Posted 07 December 2008 - 02:29 AM
People well i'm always sort of reserved like i'll always think before i say and i don't really reveal any deep dark secrets if u get wat i mean...
Bad experinces? Not really? but i've seen and honestly it's not something i want to go into..
#17
Posted 07 December 2008 - 07:40 AM
apparently i do, I'm wayy too scary for my own good. >.>
if so, is it to the point where you don't tell anyone anything?
sometimes.
not a big extent
had any bad experience to cause trusting issues?
my ex cheated on me with my friend.
but i wasn't really too bothered. i was getting bored at that time already. I cant even remember what he looks like. XD
#18
Posted 07 December 2008 - 07:45 AM
in the past, i didn't know how to control myself with people. resulting really bad consequences.
now, im really careful who i tell my secrets too. sometimes i just keep it to myself because it's not
worth the trouble the other person is giving me. "OH I PROMISE I WON'T TELL ANYONE" right. that's straight up BS.
i heard that many many times and it ends up the opposite direction.
#19
Posted 07 December 2008 - 12:08 PM
I've never truly confided to one single person in my whole life.
I don't think I want to either since others have the ability to back stab me ;D

#20
Posted 07 December 2008 - 12:29 PM
Yea :[
if so, is it to the point where you don't tell anyone anything?
Nope, I can't keep my mouth shut
had any bad experience to cause trusting issues?
I'm not sure. I'm a pretty jealous girl. I hate it when my bf talks about his exes, or any girls at all. I don't know if I can ever trust anyone.





























