[RedSunsFC]

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[Shikabane Hime]

You should make the move, and by move, I mean make your existence known.

[happiisunshin]

You should make the move, and by move, I mean make your existence known.

This, and with a dash of confidence.

[RedSunsFC]

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[happiisunshin]

Do you girls have bfs already? I want an answer from someone with experience, no offense.

None taken.

And I will soon. Hopefully. Ish.

But even then, experience isn't required. The gist of it is you like a girl who has a boyfriend and you want to talk to her but you're too shy. Just gather up the courage to approach her. You say she appears friendly, so there's a high chance that she'll reciprocate your "Hi!" or whatever phrase/word that comes out of your mouth.

Oh, and to the question "Talking to girls who has a boyfriend already -- is it right?", this depends on your intentions. Do you merely want to be friends with the girl? Or do you want her as a girlfriend? If the latter, then no, it's not right.

[asdfdsdaf]

As long as you don't have any intention of making her break up with her boyfriend or anything. Don't ruin a perfectly good relationship :]

Sure talking and becoming friends is no problem.

Lol this sounds like me and my girlfriend. i'm a year older than her, and she had this younger guy best friend who was 1 year younger. They were REALLY close and the guy best friend liked her but they were still best friends. But recently something happened and they hate each other now :/

Hmm.. my guy friend talks to my girlfriend alot. My girlfriend talks to him on the phone alot at night -.- it sort of bothers me, but whatever. She talks to me more anyways so it's all good, im just a bit jealous not all the time ;] She has no interest in him she just thinks he's funny to talk to cause my friend is mad hyper lmao

so yeah, it's fine.

[Torento <3]

Talking is no problem.

But you should think with your brain, and not your penis.

If the girl is in a good relationship, don't try to break it up, but you can talk as friends.

[RedSunsFC]

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[ramenhero]

"I wanted to go up to her and give her money to buy something because her card didn't work on the machine, but I choked. That would have a been a good chance to talk to her."

could you have asked for a better chance dude? listen from someone who knows from this experience... you really shouldn't try to get at a girl who has a boyfriend. your really just asking for alot of trouble. for now.. just be a friend... and also.. how would you like it if some guy was trying to get at your girlfriend? just try to look at it from his end.. you wouldn't want that ish on you right? just be a friend for now... keep your options open... also.. if you keep a mind set that for now you guys will have to be friends then it'll be easier for you to approach her.

but if the dudes a bad guy and treats her bad then you might have to superman that girl! ;] hahaha

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[happiisunshin]

I want her to know I want her as a gf not as a friend because being friends will make her think i just want her as a friend. the only way past this is to find a girl who can make me feel that way again.

Look, homeboy, you don't want to be the homewrecker in their relationship. Since friendship isn't enough for you, avoid the girl and distract yourself from her by work, friends, hobbies, etc. Don't ever think of that girl from then on and then your romantic feelings for her will decline in time.

[RedSunsFC]

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[applesnbananas]

you never even know if she's truly happy with her bf,
and even if she is, you can be just friends. "for now"? haha. you never know what lays in the future for them two. and there's nothing wrong with being friends!!

[Shikabane Hime]

Do you girls have bfs already? I want an answer from someone with experience, no offense.

If it was just a friend, I wouldn't be worried, but if the new guy had plans of making himself a candidate, then I'd step in.
Which means, you're not in the best position.

[Torento <3]

but what if i get stuck in the friend zone?

If you care for her, that's what you should be aiming for buddy.

[RedSunsFC]

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[happiisunshin]

so harsh, but i guess that's the way to go.

well. now i kinda just want to be her friend since i can't be her gf.

Ehehe, sorry. I don't mean to appear harsh then, but I felt like sugar coating the words was kind of dumb rather than being straight forward.

That's cool that you want to be friends by the way. If you truly like her, you would want her to be happy.

[RedSunsFC]

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[ShadowMax76]

@_@ if you truly loved her.
you wouldN'T ruin what she values most in her life atm.


_ i've always found myself at the point of jealousy, being angry or judgmental of those i had fallen for. all because i was too close.
i never wanted to be their bf. because that's just john teshing evil of me.
i just wanted to be able to express what i felt, and feel some reassurance i exist in their world.

in my experience...
being a guy that will always be surrounded by girls with bfs, [they're just that awesome... rofl~]
I try my best to only ever want to be friends.
shut my heart from ever thinking or wanting something more.
and keeping emotional distance from girls.

...oddly enough.. the first girl that i met after knowing this.. started to have feelings for me.
T _ T

AH yEAH.. you know how that other guy said to think with your brains, not your little john?
You're a young man and sex driven . as much as you deny it, all you want to do with her is do her.

==' you have no idea what she's REALLY like .. .do YOUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu???
rofl.

you can't have honest feelings for someone before eve meeting them. that's just .... o_o' sex...

[RedSunsFC]

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