[delicate_sweetie]

my ex boyfriend decided to end things on me a couple of days ago.. and obviously i was a lot more than crushed i was really hurt..
he said something about wanting more experience because i was his first relationship/girlfriend
that's a stupid enough reason already.. at least what i think.. but it was his decision so what could i have done?
so anyway, since i'm a "free spirit" now.. and single i didn't want to be all alone at home and everything mopping around feeling sorry for myself..
so i did what i thought would be best for me.. i tried to avoid his calls when he tries to call me and not respond to his txt msgs either because it hurts me everytime i talk to him.. and i started recently chatting more with this guy that i knew has a bit of a crush on me.. i mentioned to my ex one time that i was going to go the library with tht guy to study and he got all mad at me for "moving on" so fast when i dont even like the guy that way!

what is going on inside his lil head!? he's the one who decided to dump me.. why does he care so much about who i spend my time with and why i haven't picked up his calls? he's always asking me where i am, what i'm doing

and i have tried asking him to rethink about his decision but he's made it very clear to me that he doesn't want to be with me.. WHAT'S THE DEAL!?!

help

[mysticsprinkle]

To me it sounds like he still has feelings for you.
He doesn't want to see you with anyone else. =/
Jealous~

But boys are like that.
You're right, he's the one who ended things with you so~
He'll probably try coming back to you.. even though he's trying to be all macho and say he doesn't want to be with you. Boys are dumb.

[Torento <3]

Yeah, so many men try to go back to the women that they push away.

Be careful.

[Windoffire]

Aww he's just being a jerk
If I were you I'd excommunicate him
It's not worth being with a guy who'll screw around with you like that

[I.like.foood]

Hahahahahah. He's jealous. I dislike guys like that. They push you away and when you do too, they want you back. Tsk.

[mintcracker]

he just wants to keep you as a back up
you know to boost that ego


stay away from him. You're only gna be more hurt if you get with him again or keep in close contact with him.

[elicasis]

He's being a selfish jerk, he doesn't want to see you with somebody else.

My best friend is in the same situation right now, just move on and hang out with more guys, but don't do it to spite him, do it for yourself

[4ever_sweet]

maybe him breaking up with you is just to see if you really love him. "Moving on" so fast hurts him because it shows him you didn't love him all that much. Just my opinion.

But I just wanted to say, please do not use the other guy, the one you know likes you.

[l1lvi3tqt]

just ignored. continuing what you are doing.

let him regret it and learn his lesson. this boy is freaking childish. even if you still want him back, let him learn his lesson first.

[ramenhero]

he just wants to keep you as a back up
you know to boost that ego

it was his decision to not want to be together... so he doesn't have any right to say anything to you anymore.. so just do what ever you want.. move on.. you don't want anyone so fickle.. so selfish.

[g-yo]

He just wants to see you mope around so he feels superior like you can't do anything without him.
Ask him straight up why he's being such a jerk after he broke up with you because he's obviously not over you (or at least, he wants you not to be over him).

[Shikabane Hime]

He thinks you'll be waiting for him forever, so even if he goes around playing with a dozen girls getting all that needed experience points, he can come back to you whenever he wants and you'll be there with open arms.

Tell him to man up, whatever that's supposed to mean.

[M!ke]

He's the one that broke it off with you, so he'll have to live it it.

If you like this other guy and he likes you, then go for it. I bet your ex would do the same if he was in the same situation.

If you don't, you're not doing yourself a favour by living in the past.. You need to get on with your life.

[Torento <3]

Hahahahahah. He's jealous. I dislike guys like that. They push you away and when you do too, they want you back. Tsk.

Keep in mind though that this was his first girlfriend.

These feelings would be new to him.

[kRaZiExLaDiE]

some guys like the feeling of someone still liking them so..
so once they see you moving on .. they pull you back in
but when you ask them about it .. they deny it. =.=;;
yes .. boys are dumb.

[bad boy]

you both are so darn silly

he dumped u, get over him

why do u still care what he thinks!

he hurt u, might as well take the bullet and kiss that guy u dont like infront of your ex

that gotta hurt mwhahah!

pay back is so pleasurable!

[Windoffire]

you both are so darn silly

he dumped u, get over him

why do u still care what he thinks!

he hurt u, might as well take the bullet and kiss that guy u dont like infront of your ex

that gotta hurt mwhahah!

pay back is so pleasurable!

I can't even begin to describe how utterly heartless and callous that comment is.

[Javus]

He probably does still have some feelings for you, especially if you were his first GF. But if he's decided to break up with you, then there's nothing you can really do about it but move on. And please don't go out with the new guy to make your ex jealous, go out with him because you like him.

[bad boy]

I can't even begin to describe how utterly heartless and callous that comment is.

oh yea man, giving a quick peck another guy on the lips,

OMG the world gonna end!

[Flicksityy]

Advice: If he comes back to you, throw a piece of another guy's poop at him.

Another guy referring to a better boyfriend. Such a guy with such curiosity is not worth your time.