[LaydeeMel]

I was thinking about something that happened awhile back for me. I was having a rough time in my relationship with my bf and I had a kendo tourney coming up too. The 'other girl' a girl whom my bf had feeling for in the past was having a violin concert on the same day.

Long story short he missed my kendo for her violin.

I got really pissed at him and we almost broke up, there were more reason's than just this one incident. This is all past me though.

But I was wondering if your s/o missed your event for someone else's how would you react? What would you do? Would it make you think twice about things?

And for the people who have done it before, why do would you rather go to someone else's event instead of your s/o's?

[Swtess]

Never happened to me before but in a similar way, my bf chose to drive his friend home from work instead of me his gf.
The idiot had a license and could drive but felt like being a nice guy and not drive to work, I on the other hand had no mode of transportation yet bf chose to drive him home.
Not just a one time thing either.
After a couple of times I just blew up at him.

It made me question a lot, especially where I stood with him.
In that situation though, it will need a lot of heart to heart talk and he better have a pretty darn good explanation for choosing his ex crush over his gf

[soongiang]

I get jealous really easily, so if my bf did that, I'd ignore him for a month!!
But yea, you should at least beat him for that haha.
I'd understand if the other person was some relative or good guy friend that needed the support, but its some other girl! Youre obviously way more important than her imo. Beat him =)

[littlesecret]

If I were you, I'd swing my kendo stick at him!
That's probably really immature...and your skills may hurt him really bad but it'll teach him a lesson
I would be mad, angry, FURIOUS...and disappointed, upset. so yea...I'd never invite him to one of my events again....: (

[yellowfishieee]

I would seriously blow up if my boyfriend did that for me. I should definitely have first priority, especially over any girl, and he knows this. I would understand if it were a family member or a really old friend (if it's a girl then it depends....) but not another girl. I would chew him out, beat him down, and reconsider things with him. If he considers another girl (an old crush!) more important than me, then we have serious problems. Of course, there's also the possibility that he was mad at me and wanted to make me mad as well, which is actually better in my opinion because it means that he doesn't really like this girl better......

[RedSunsFC]

Delete.

[carla_gee]

urgh. that sucks

anyway my bf always do that to me too so i get used to it.. i do it to him too anyway but we still love each other very much

i don't know why, but we're practically at ease in that arrangement.

we need each other, but that that doesn't mean we'll die without the other. if he has a valid reason for not attending my event then so be it

[Sleepy213]

Didn't happen to be so far..but I would get mad myself
My memories sck so I MIGHT forget sometimes..
but I wouldn't do it on purpose. XD

[Namine]

i wouldn't get p.oed if it was his MOM or his FAMILY but if it was some CHICK that he had FEELINGS for before, hell yea

[ly*chee]

Family matters are above me, I have no right to get po'd at that.
HOWEVER.
Anything else other than that I would blow up at him for D<
He can expect to be crying until the cows come home.
Because if he thinks some other chick deserves his time over mine u.u then fine.
He can go watch the other chick until his eyes pop out, because I'm not going to waste my time D< with someone who'd rather watch some other girl.

[Cin De]

that never happen to me before
but if it did
i would DUMP HIM PERIOD. HAHAHA

[bad boy]

u kendo? omgawd that is so hot

i wuold love to see u kick ass with that bamboo stick over a girl playin violin anyday :]

then again if that girls is hot, ehh i dont know :]

[cheerydumdum]

that's effed up. no matter how rocky things are in a relationship, people don't go do that. i'd get pretty pissed off too.

[dewdrop]

If he had a good reason for it...it doesn't matter, less pressure anyway.

[Sympathetic]

Yes, family is a first.

But if my s/o missed something important of mine for another GIRL ? Oh dam I'd get pist off

[hishari]

Unless its his family, then I'd be angry. Me first.

[L.FOR.LOVE]

mm honestly
i`d be like grr inside, esp if he dogged me for antoher girl
but like i can't like " make " him chose me al lthe time right ?
plus he has a life otuside of me so yeah
if he CONTSTNALLY did it, i`d like gr him but yeah (;

[duckee]

In your case? I'd be pissed... you should definitely be angry about this. esp because it's a girl he used to have feelings for.

family is okay, thats understandable.
guy friends as long as he tells and explains beforehand.

[Pogichinoy]

Gosh that's really harsh!! I'd be pissed as well.

[EHNerJI]

hm, i'd prolly be pissed haha, it's like them > me >___>;
i mean if it was something suuuper important, then i'd understand.
but if the other person's event was equal or less important than mine.. i'd be like D:::
especially if they just cancelled on me last minute haha.
if they explained to me before hand, it'd be.. better
+ yeah, if we were already having problems,
it'd prolly make me think about where our priorities are lol.