[cielle]

So there is this guy I've known for a while.
He's one of my guy friend's roommates and although I've known him for several years I still don't like him...
I just basically tolerate his existence.

All my girlfriends dislike him and I tried to be nice and civil to him although he gets on my nerves sometimes.
So my guy friend was joking about making me carry all my stuff back to my apartment after going grocery shopping. I went over to his apartment after grocery shopping to eat some of his chicken. Anyhoo I didn't know he was joking so I was like
"you can't make me walk back home in the dark!!geezzz" (I live in LA it's kinda shady)

and his roommate was like "Maybe you should stop being a pinkberry"
or something along that line. And I was like. o_O WTF.

So i was like "never mind, I'll just go home now" blah blah.
and they were like what's wrong?

And I'm like "well you called me a pinkberry! and honestly i can't tell when you are joking so maybe you should watch your mouth blah blah" and sorta went on just like "you piss me off sometimes, etc"
and he's like "well everybody else can tell, and you sometimes call your friends a pinkberry too so what's the problem etc etc"

I should've been pissed off right? I mean first of all, he's not my friend so I thought it was hella rude. And 2nd of all, I only call people a pinkberry like when it's super obvious that I'm joking. I don't call my girl friends a pinkberry like ever, I just think it's rude. I told off one of my other guy friends for calling me a pinkberry too like wtf?

Did I overreact? Do your friends call you by these kind of things that often? I think I would be just pissed off

[vikkay]

smack him then call him a pinkberry. lets see how he likes that! rofl

[ShadowMax76]

girls call guys jerks, asses, john teshing idiots and the lot. and they mean it _ so i see it.

guys call girls whatever, typically, jokingly. cuz it's our language. _ typically. [but i 'spose if you can't tell.

oddly enough. there's that another social stigma i found in actors [..wanabes] have about putting a serious tone on whilst joking. i hate them. _ >>' especially if one's gullible.

_ but that aside.

guys slip up in their words. sometimes we feel too comfortable.
perhaps inappropriately testing the waters at times.

_ well iunno. i 'spose it's the first time he swore to you?
i'd love it if people swore at me. it's like they john teshING STOPPED ACTING NICE TO ME. =_='

[a o i c h a n a o i]

I think you reacted just the way you should...
I mean, in no way, can the word "pinkberry"
ever mean something in a good way right....and
it's worse if you don't seem like you're joking...

[cielle]

girls call guys jerks, asses, john teshing idiots and the lot. and they mean it _ so i see it.

guys call girls whatever, typically, jokingly. cuz it's our language. _ typically. [but i 'spose if you can't tell.

oddly enough. there's that another social stigma i found in actors [..wanabes] have about putting a serious tone on whilst joking. i hate them. _ >>' especially if one's gullible.

_ but that aside.

guys slip up in their words. sometimes we feel too comfortable.
perhaps inappropriately testing the waters at times.

_ well iunno. i 'spose it's the first time he swore to you?
i'd love it if people swore at me. it's like they john teshING STOPPED ACTING NICE TO ME. =_='

I guess its the first time he swore but he's always been a jerk . He told us to get out of my guyfriend's apartment once (he didn't live there then) because it was late or whatever although the guy who lived there didn't mind. Then another time (now my guy friend was living with him) when me and my girl friend was over... we were bothering our guy friends who were also there because they wanted to play video games all night after they told us we would go out. The annoying guy was like "yeah can you please take them out or something because they are really annoying" and we were like.. right there. going wtf.

[ShadowMax76]

I think you reacted just the way you should...
I mean, in no way, can the word "pinkberry"
ever mean something in a good way right....and
it's worse if you don't seem like you're joking...

.... -sighs-.. girls...

i think girls are traumatised by backstabbers and whatnot that use the words rainbow.slut.pinkberry. etc.

In the guy world. yeah, we know it's a bad word. it's rare for me to see it used on a girl. mostly because the culture around here isn't that hardcore "ghetto' . >>' rofl... [you can watch movies though. eddie murphy. LOl]

very common amongst young men as a way of acting tough, cool or simply as our homophobic/masculine language. always used towards each other affectionately, jokingly or w/e.. _ yes. offensively. but i'm sure men don't bish fight with name calling... LOL

_ um... meh. i used to hate intolerant people... ironic it be.
because hate, being annoyed or irritated is simply not understanding a person. _ beliefs of the opp. sex .. included.

the best advice to calm nerves of people like ya.. "don't take annoying guys seriously. they just either want to play a little push with ya [like meee], they can't help it , or they just feel close enough to annoy ya"

[Reagan1986]

can someone please tell me what pinkberry is?

[Amanda Plz]

^ What rhymes with witch?

Most of my friends are guys but I'm usually the one calling them pinkberryes and whores. Just don't take him seriously.

[burberry88]

I know this is dumb.. but what is a pinkberry and john teshing? this must be american slang? lol..

[Morphiex]

i think you did what you had to do.

but on a slighty different topic, if girls dont like being called bit,ch s,lut etc etc , maby you should stop calling each other that in the first place.
ocasionally i meet these "lightheaded" girls who are in groups who end up calling each other those words jokingly ofcourse, but they say it out loud enough so the people standing next to them can hear.
when i see these girls, my respect for them just drops by a huuge margin.

[cielle]

I DON'T call any of my girl friends biatches/sl.uts/etc. If I do, it's very rare and in an obvious joking manner. And I would only call my close friends those things. Not a guy i'm not friendly with/even hate. like I'm not your friend, don't expect me to you understand your jokes and just move on I sort of dislike you so you calling me a pinkberry is just pushing the line...

[!Lei]

Sort of offtopic, but what does pinkberry mean as an insult? ^^;;; Just wondering..

[Morphiex]

^ ooh its really dirty word ,pink-berry actually is very very VERY hurtful to everyone.

il school you one some more dirty words slang;

cuddlemuffin - damn this one guy i know called this girl this and she slapped him into tuesday.

Snuglepuff , girl called another girl this and they ended up bareknuckle fistfighting right there and then on the street.

Bubblebloo - this is what people call those crack addicts.

Jigganim - kinda like the n word but for jews! O..o

Ruffleree - Another word for those lame parents , doh!

Shaggyshoo - those wanna be models girls , you know ( if you dont then your prob one of em)

hogglemuch - fat chicks

thats all i know... damn ... but beware these words are really hurtfull, and really bad to say in public... its like calling a woman a c... to her face O..o

youve been warned!

[sea.jk]

nah, you didnt overreact. it WAS rude and insulting. i would have done the same thing. good job.

[bad boy]

what exactly did he call u?

i think the name pinkberry is cute :]

[Emerald Snow]

I know this is dumb.. but what is a pinkberry and john teshing? this must be american slang? lol..

what exactly did he call u?

i think the name pinkberry is cute :]

Pinkberry is actually the word that rhymes with "witch," but because of Soompi's censoring, all you see is a color and a fruit. And no, it's not a new American slang or anything....imagine calling people different fruits.

[bad boy]

Pinkberry is actually the word that rhymes with "witch," but because of Soompi's censoring, all you see is a color and a fruit. And no, it's not a new American slang or anything....imagine calling people different fruits.

oo yea, there nothing wrong with tellin that guy off

guys should never degrade or cuss at a girl

girls only deserve compliments :]

[colloquy]

Is he trying to be gay? Because usually I think of gay guys calling girls 'pinkberryes' jokingly... but from what I read, I think he was just being rude and he deserved to be told off.

[fabrications.]

Well, I'd be pissed off too. I mean, I take it very seriously when anyone calls me a b-tch.
I don't know why, but calling me a pinkberry would be the worst mistake anyone would make.
There's just something that sets off my system when someone calls me that.


ROFLMFAO @ everyone who didn't know what pinkberry meant! LOLLLL
OMFG! HAHAHAHAHHA
On soompi, they censor words so if you uses curse word, it will go thrp\ough a filter and the word will get changed.

B*tch = pinkberry
F*ck = john teshing
Sh*t = mini cooper
Wh*re = rainbow

ETC. Isn't it funny how soompi uses such colorful words? LOL

[miika]

If I were you I'd make him wish he never said that.

I can't stand guys that swear at girls.