[heejoon]

ok. im gonna be anonymous with these people... theres girl 1 and girl 2.

1 is my best friend.
recently, we went out, broke up because she didnt feel ready for relationship, and im still the only guy she likes right now.
so we're like best friends w/ benefits right now.
she wants me to wait for her for like 3 years.
but at the same time, keep an eye open for other girls since shes not the only girl out there.
i asked her how she would feel if i moved on.
she said she would be deeply hurt... but if the other girl was good for me, she'll let me go, and support me.

now its 2 weeks after we broke up.
at my school, i normally sit with 2 and a several others at lunch.
2 is a girl that goes to 1's church
and theyre really cool with eachother.

i'm starting to grow feelings for 2 now...
and now i'm totally confused now...
i still care a lot for 1 and our friendship.
i told myself i would wait for her...
but now im thinking differently..
i feel like such a hypocrite. and im 100% honest with 1, but i dont know how to explain this to her...

ahhhhhh soo muchh stresssssssss. any advice?

[greenana]

Follow your heart, choose the one you like.
Care about your feelings and see who you like best=).

[Shikabane Hime]

but if the other girl was good for me, she'll let me go, and support me.

I would listen to her and break the news.
But don't feel responsible for what may happen later.

[Longshot]

3 years ??? and if she changes her ways or has different feelings then what happens to you ? all those opportunitys or missed connections that could have been something special are gone down the drain.. look at the big picture.. there is obviously a reason she broke up with you rather than just the " im not ready for a relationship " see even said herself that if you moved on she would be sad but would get over it... so you can do the same... you can still be honest and be friends with her.. she can't really say anything if you go after 2 cause she had her chance with you and didn't like it.. so go for number 2 so you don't have any regrets later in life and im sure it will all work out..

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

3 years?
This is not some drama. unless you guys are getting married, then that's an exception.
if you guys are not, I say go for girl 2.
Simply because it's not worth wasting 3 years of your life waiting for her.
Unless, like I said, you guys are gonna get married or something.

I don't know about you, but I just can't wait for 3 years.
My gf is going back this week till next month, I feel so angry and sad coz I thought we were gonna spend the christmas and new year together. I was gonna break up with her. but no, let's not get into that.
but anywho, point is I can't even wait for 1 month, so I don't think anyone could wait for 3 years,

but its up to you, i seriously prefer girl 2.

[skim_milk]

follow your heart, if u feel for #2, go for #2.

#1 is a betch for asking u to wait 3 YEARS!. that just insane.

[bad boy]

ok. im gonna be anonymous with these people... theres girl 1 and girl 2.

1 is my best friend.
recently, we went out, broke up because she didnt feel ready for relationship, and im still the only guy she likes right now.
so we're like best friends w/ benefits right now.
she wants me to wait for her for like 3 years.
but at the same time, keep an eye open for other girls since shes not the only girl out there.
i asked her how she would feel if i moved on.
she said she would be deeply hurt... but if the other girl was good for me, she'll let me go, and support me.

now its 2 weeks after we broke up.
at my school, i normally sit with 2 and a several others at lunch.
2 is a girl that goes to 1's church
and theyre really cool with eachother.

i'm starting to grow feelings for 2 now...
and now i'm totally confused now...
i still care a lot for 1 and our friendship.
i told myself i would wait for her...
but now im thinking differently..
i feel like such a hypocrite. and im 100% honest with 1, but i dont know how to explain this to her...

ahhhhhh soo muchh stresssssssss. any advice?

so u got a girl to be your best friend with benefit, and allow u to browse your options with other girls

AND u got to sit with 2 girls, ONE good girl that goes to church

oh man, u go it good homie

WTF is this topic about u braggin how good u got it? HUH!?

way to rub it in every guys face..jerk >:(

[heejoon]

so u got a girl to be your best friend with benefit, and allow u to browse your options with other girls

AND u got to sit with 2 girls, ONE good girl that goes to church

oh man, u go it good homie

WTF is this topic about u braggin how good u got it? HUH!?

way to rub it in every guys face..jerk >:(

im not trying to brag about anything...
its just how things are its really bothering me -.-
just thought id get some advice from people here.

[bad boy]

im not trying to brag about anything...
its just how things are its really bothering me -.-
just thought id get some advice from people here.

is the answer not obvious?

u can wait for her, and in the mean time, date the 2nd girl u have grown feelin for... she shall keep u company for those lonely cold nights

and when that girl finally ready to commit, tell her she should wait 3yr for u in return for u to develop those old feeling u once had for her

case solved.

ps. why wait 3yr? chances are it may end up, as she think its better off to be just friends, OR she end up getin a new bf

so might as well get the 2nd girl

u hitin 2 birds with one stone, but in this case 2 girls with 1 stick :]

[7thprincess]

LOL. ^^^^

Go ahead and tell 1, but she won't be too happy about it, esp since 1 and 2 are pretty good friends. Oh well.

[bad boy]

LOL. ^^^^

Go ahead and tell 1, but she won't be too happy about it, esp since 1 and 2 are pretty good friends. Oh well.

or u dont have to tell, and keep it on the down low

but beware, releasing such information may result, from having 2 girl to having none

your move.