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#1 User is offline   xblendizzle 

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Posted 09 December 2008 - 09:59 PM

Soooooooooo, i like this guy. but huge age difference? he's a freshman in college and im a freshman in highschool? I really like talking to him cause we have lots in common and hes so cute & chill. should i stop liking him ? or like maybe there;s hope? or is it impossible? =/ cause i mean it is a big difference ?
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Posted 09 December 2008 - 09:59 PM

It only makes a difference if either of you think it's a bad thing.
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Posted 09 December 2008 - 10:03 PM

its not that big of a difference. its just what..4 years? put it this way..when you're 20 hes only going to be 24. doesnt sound that big now right? Just as long as you two have the mental maturity i think it'll be fine. and dear, you can't just stop liking someone by saying so it doesnt work that way happy.gif
Just see how it goes for now.
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Posted 09 December 2008 - 10:06 PM

it could work but it depends on your maturity level. it won't seem as strange when you guys are both adults.
but it will be tough if you guys get together since college takes up a lot of time & you might get tired of not having enough time together.
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Posted 09 December 2008 - 10:07 PM

QUOTE (yujiniffer @ Dec 10 2008, 01:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
its not that big of a difference. its just what..4 years? put it this way..when you're 20 hes only going to be 24. doesnt sound that big now right? Just as long as you two have the mental maturity i think it'll be fine. and dear, you can't just stop liking someone by saying so it doesnt work that way happy.gif
Just see how it goes for now.


Put it this way: what if it were 6 and 10?

It doesn't matter when he was born. I don't see why people must share each others' birthdates when they meet.
Age should just be removed from any official documents, ever.
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#6 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 09 December 2008 - 10:09 PM

I'm thinking about 14 and 18?
Eh that's pretty screwed to be very honest.
I mean, 14 year olds are really young, they should just be starting to have relationships.

Anyways, an 18 year old is pretty bad, since most of them are looking for sex... and you wouldn't want to do it... at the age of 14...

well oops, I forgot to mention something important. Does he even like you? tongue.gif
there's no point talking if he doesn't even like you that way lol tongue.gif
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Posted 09 December 2008 - 10:12 PM

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Dec 9 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Put it this way: what if it were 6 and 10?

It doesn't matter when he was born. I don't see why people must share each others' birthdates when they meet.
Age should just be removed from any official documents, ever.



Well yeah 6 and 10 does sound like a huge difference but at that time, the 2 people are only kids so they have HUGE differences in mental maturity. By 14, i think its possible to be more mature than your age. I know a sophomore who went out with a 23 year old guy and it worked out for them because they were both on the same mental level.
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Posted 10 December 2008 - 05:41 AM

as long as you both like each other and know how to take the responsibility of being in a relationship it will go really well.
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