[bukatko]

This girl at school is super friendly to me, she would approach me and talk and joke with me. But she is friendly only in one situation , when there are other poeple around us, with her friends, or my friends or in the public.

When we're alone, e.g in the car, (yes, she wants me to drive her home every day ) she wouldnt start any conversation. Its always me doing all the work, making all the topics up. it been like this for over half a year. Im to this point, i would give up and let the awkward silence to take place.

On msn she used to start some conversation but only when she needs me, like we had a party and ask me to accompany her . When i msn her, its only me doing all the work again. She would just answer yes, haha, ic.

I dont like her or anything. I treat her like a friend. I drove her home cuz its on the way and I talk to her at school and on msn, because thats how i treat all my friends.

She really does seems like a different person when we're alone vs in the public. don't know this is kinda confusing. I haven't met friends like this before, so im confused if someone flat out using some else exist or not.When she is friendly she really does seem like she is genuinely friendly and treat me like a real friend? I Im getting kinda fooled? cuz when she wants to be friendly she is VERY friendly and VERY real. So im not sure if im seeing things or not.

[imKRAZY]

dat girl's a faker.
she just wants to look good in front of people.
but it wouldn't matter if you're alone with her.
so. ditch her.
she's not worth your time, dude.

[小甜密]

You're getting fool...and for such a long period of time.

[`Koko]

Over half a year?!
You have a lot of patience and genuine qualities,
because if I were you, I would've stopped talking to her a long time ago.
She's definitely using you. If she were a real friend,
she would talk to you a lot, whether it's just you and her alone, or in public.
She's not a real friend, she only wants to use you and I suggest you stop talking to her.
She's not worth your time, and definitely not worth your money to be paying gas
and driving her home.

[baybeii_tee]

^ dittto!

seriously shes not worth it, your better off!

[myxo]

You've been driving the girl to and from school for so long now that she's simply taking you (and your friendship) for granted. Sucks that it's expected of you to drive her around instead of her being grateful for it. Personally, you've taken her crap for over half a year now, and you'll probably continue to take it unless you talk to her about it. Ask her if she acknowledges the fact that she's two completely different people under different circumstances, and tell her how it's bothering you. I mean, if you still value her as a friend, don't be accusatory. Just tell her how you feel about it and what you would like to change.

[ShadowMax76]

people use each other. x_X' just use her back. then you can call it friendship.

[Shikabane Hime]

so im confused if someone flat out using some else exist or not.

She's been standing in front of you for months, no?

[Ver]

wow, this situation reminds me myself when i was younger ... I am not proud of it. =__=

I "used" him when i needed. He was really kind and he did whatever i said.
I was full of myself so i didn't see how good he is. I just call him when i needed it.
He spent with me a lot of his free time and so on. Maybe in this time i started to see him as a friend.

Once i said i needed him to do something for me, but he started to shouted that he isn't my slave.
It was the first time i saw him so pissed so i stayed quit
The next day i went to him and apologied. I realized i like him as a friend.

And from that day we became very good friends.
I cook for him every weekend and it is always me who start conversation on MSN.
(wow, i start to feel like his slave now )

[daulism]

Ah, golddigger. Drift away from her slowly -- cuz that ain't cool.

[MythnoonA]

have you ever said no to her? Anything like that?

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

You know, you'll realise later that this is the case with most girls. (assuming she's not interested to you at all)
When they need you, they talk to you. Then try this, you come and talk to her, I bet she would just say "uh huh, yeah, ok" like you said.
Because she just wants to talk to you when she's bored, or when she needs you.

I wouldn't give her anymore rides if I were you.
If she msn/aim/txt/phone you, i wouldn't reply to it.
Unless it's in real life, then you gotta reply.
Coz honestly she doesn't respect you.

[insanelyCRAZY]

dont give her a ride anymore.
deng. how fake can a person get? horrible. ><

[shudder_V]

damnnn shes harsh using you, who needs friends like that?

HONESTLY! unless you are getting a little something something *cough extra cough* on the side, I think you should just stop letting her use you...

[ILuVTiTTiEZ]

Aw, you're too cute! And naive.....but now you know!

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

There isnt really much to think about. Just drop her. :/

Maybe after she sees that youre gone, she will feel bad about it and try apologize.

[bukatko]

So I began ignoring her. I think she noticed it that I wasn’t as friendly as before to her.

She talked to me more, and actually started to msn me. One time she asked me 'what wrong, you’re kinda different.” Of course I said nothing is wrong.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

^
prove that Humans don't realise something is precious until it's gone

[supa'Wanki]

dude talk to her about it man. Don't just whine about it on soompi.

[sunstori]

Srsly, just kick her out the car and let her role down a cliff. People like her deserve it anyway. Maybe she'll get eaten by a dingo on the way?

Hmm on a more serious note, as much as I would hate her, I suppose you should take this a little more rationally. Or, maybe you should just tell her that it is no longer convenient to take her home. So she can gtfo your car...