[Mikozee]

I suppose I'll make things simple and short for I know you all detest walls of text.

I just moved to Virginia and there was this girl I saw and immediately took a liking of. For the past, eh, good 4 months or so, I attempted to get closer to her. Well I thought it was going pretty well, until I recently added her to facebook (my NEW facebook). (**: Kind of irrelevant but I didn't ask for her facebook, I just looked her up.) It was only then did I realize that all my attempts were feeble and behind the scenes, she was probably having a good laugh at my futile attempts. Just a quick glance-around on her profile and I knew any hopes that I ever had were crushed.

Deep inside, I suppose I've known all along. I knew she was popular (NOT the stereotypical blonde type) but I always ignored that bit of nudging inside me. Now it just busted out like..... well something so big that I can't even put it in metaphorical context.

Climax: I want to stop liking her! I just want to move on with my life! But WHY do I keep thinking of her! WHY do I continually contradict myself every time I purposely try to point out what meager flaws I can see in her? WHY can't I find the same radiation from other girls that I find physically attractive that I get when I'm around her?

I don't know, but at this rate, I think my hearts going to explode from confusion.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

so she's the type of girl who talks to many guys, popular to guys, like that?
amazing. I think you have low self esteem lol no offense.

What makes you think you're gonna lose to the other guy? You never know if you don't try lol.
Don't give up before giving it a go.

[princesspoppy]

So you gave up just because? Could've at least find out if she liked you or not. Oh well.

[BlissfulSimplicity]

Just go for it...
I'm on the same boat as you...
Sometimes you just need to take a huge leap of faith and see what happen...
If things don't work out, then at least you'll know it wasn't meant to be.

GOOD LUCK! : D

[dabombhomiez]

lol dude..usually this problem is for people who just came off a really long term relationship and had a bad break up..
for you to have this problem when you havn't even tried your luck yet is kinda ridiculous..so what if she talks to a lot of guys...does that immediately mean she's going to be impossible to chase? No..try your luck..and the best thing that can happen is you guys get together..the worst is that she rejects you but hey..if that happens you'll naturally forget about her..

The only reason this is happening is because you haven't tried yet.

[Mikozee]

I appreciate the comments guys. I really do.

But there's one thing you guys aren't taking into consideration. A major keypoint.

I just moved to Virginia

These kids.... they knew each other since 5th grade, at the very least, if not further back. They have a certain "history" for each other. They know each other like brothers and sisters. Trying to fit in is not only awkward, but rather at this point (We're in 11th grade BTW) it'll probably be impossible.

I know how they feel. Because I feel the EXACT same way with my friends back in Las Vegas.

[misschika]

The only reason this is happening is because you haven't tried yet.

so give it a try... it'll make u stronger as a person too

[Shikabane Hime]

I appreciate the comments guys. I really do.

But there's one thing you guys aren't taking into consideration. A major keypoint.



These kids.... they knew each other since 5th grade, at the very least, if not further back. They have a certain "history" for each other. They know each other like brothers and sisters. Trying to fit in is not only awkward, but rather at this point (We're in 11th grade BTW) it'll probably be impossible.

I know how they feel. Because I feel the EXACT same way with my friends back in Las Vegas.

Sun Tzu once said the battle is won or lost before it is even fought

I said:

The battle is lost cause you never fought.

[War_Machine]

So... if you like a girl... you give up when you find out other guys might like her too? You deserve to be alone.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Sun Tzu once said the battle is won or lost before it is even fought

Yea honestly I heard that before and I don't get it lol

[Shikabane Hime]

Yea honestly I heard that before and I don't get it lol

Now you do

Only advice I can give is that if you're not going to take risks in life, it's going to get REALLY boring. And sad.

[blackpetals]

if you can't muster the courage and determination to go after her when it's causing you this much trouble, then move on. evidently, she's not worth that much to you.

and before you make another thread asking how long it takes to move on - it may take a while. moving on is no magic.

[hippiehop]

Wait, does she even have a boyfriend?

If she doesn't then what are the chances of it happening with someone she's known since 5th grade??? I have a friend I've known since 3rd grade and there is no way I could ever see him in a romantic way, that's just GROSS.

[~Tropical.Mists]

So wait... she has a bf? >_> Is her fb status "In a relationship"?
If it's not, then I don't see the problem >_> I mean yes, she might have a lot of guy friends and stuff (like me!! I probably have more guy friends than girls -___-') but that doesn't mean anything
I think you should still continue to be her friend and get to know her =)
Back when I started liking my bf, I told him and he kinda rejected me actually... well not really, but he said he'd give me a later reply lol XP
But that didn't mean that I had to stop liking him or stop thinking about him

So if she has no bf, I see no harm in trying to get to know her and going for it ^^ hehe*
You never know right?

--xoxo.
TM

[shudder_V]

hahaha dude it's alright, i'm sure a lot of guys have had this happen to them. Just give it some time and find a new girl or get laid then she'll probably be the last of your worries.