[asdfdsdaf]

Back here again, guy with his first gf

there was a point where i thought she was getting bored of me, but i was totally wrong.

so she mentioned it again today saying she wonders why i thought that cause she doesn't know what she did to make me think that.

i told her not to worry about it since i know now that she loves me very much and i feel the same.

then she told me that sometimes she feels that way too.

and i asked her why, am i doing something to make you feel that way?

she said no, you're so good to me and i'm so happy to have you. but i know that one day you'll stop liking me, and that makes me sad.

i just didn't know how to react.

i know we're still teens, so that's a perfectly logical statement to make. but that really made my heart drop knowing that she had such a morbid view on our future. how can i assure her i won't get bored of her?

and we were BEST FRIENDS before we started going out, and i know that we will stay bestfriends, lovers or not, forever. i've known her for so long and have been through so much together.

help?

[princesspoppy]

Look into her eyes. Kiss her passionately, and then say in a deep Boyz II Men voice: Baby, I will never leave you.

LOL!

[War_Machine]

Look into her eyes. Kiss her passionately, and then say in a deep Boyz II Men voice: Baby, I will never leave you.

LOL!

Legendary

[vanEIK]

^LOL!!

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[Shikabane Hime]

Enjoy the moment while you can, cause all good things come to an end.
Pointing it out only calls for master-of-the-obvious pix.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

I think you shouldn't bring it up anymore
I mean, you wrote this is probably because she asked you that. And if she asked you it, I'm sure you've already answered her lol.
so just don't bring it up anymore.

if she did brings it up again, I think that's a bad news.

[hippiehop]

Look into her eyes. Kiss her passionately, and then say in a deep Boyz II Men voice: Baby, I will never leave you.

LOL!

LOVE THIS HAHA..



But I agree with you... you shouldn't be in a relationship if you see it as doomed, that's just not healthy and you never truly let go if you think that way. She's probably scared to get her heart broken.

[rachilde]

A year ago, all of my friends told me my relationship with my boyfriend wouldn't last--and I believed them. I thought about breaking up with him. Then I thought about the analogy of a relationship: it's basically like stealing a car and trying to drive to Mexico without being caught by the police. Generally speaking, most people get caught--but a few lucky people don't. Some people get it a lot harder (like stealing a car from Maine as opposed to Texas) and some people have no chance at all (stealing a car from Hawaii). So let's say that I've had the lack of foresight to steal a car in Hawaii. I can't drive to Mexico with it. And I'm going to get caught. The question then is: should I turn myself in or should I drive until I get caught.

I decided I preferred to drive until I got caught. And I haven't been caught yet

[marasshi]

how can i assure her i won't get bored of her?

You can't. Just enjoy the relationship you have with her now, because what's important is right now.

[Shikabane Hime]

But I agree with you... you shouldn't be in a relationship if you see it as doomed, that's just not healthy and you never truly let go if you think that way. She's probably scared to get her heart broken.

Almost every high school student believes their relationship won't last forever, or at least until marriage. That means almost all high school students are stupid.

[linny]

I told my boyfriend that I didn't expect us to last forever, that one day he'd get bored and want to leave me. He told me, "I know what I want, and that's you. If anyone leaves, it's going to be you. I'm never going to leave you."

It sounds a little rough around the edges, but every time I've asked something similar, he's said that. It's super comforting.

[Kiribati]

You can't. Just enjoy the relationship you have with her now, because what's important is right now.

Yep. If you don't live for today, you'll never enjoy tomorrow.

[ching22194]

in my opinion the love between you two is not that strong.
coz i myself told my boyfriend if you dont like me anymore just tell and i'll let you go.
feel like im getting bored or him getting bored with me and it gets so tiring to think...
ofcourse it hurts when it ends but you can easily get over it coz ure expecting it.

conversation is the key and always make her feel you really love her.

[supa'Wanki]

i know we're still teens, so that's a perfectly logical statement to make. but that really made my heart drop knowing that she had such a morbid view on our future. how can i assure her i won't get bored of her?

thats what you shouldve said to her. You guys need to start telling your girlfriend how you really feel instead of making a huge deal out of it. you have the answer in your heart, always, be genuine.

[aymei]

Look into her eyes. Kiss her passionately, and then say in a deep Boyz II Men voice: Baby, I will never leave you.

LOL!

MMM yeah thats a sexy voice right there LOL.

But in all seriousness, I think you should just tell her that she shouldn't need to worry about things like that now. Trusting that the relationship will go far will only make it stronger.

[hippiehop]

Almost every high school student believes their relationship won't last forever, or at least until marriage. That means almost all high school students are stupid.

Well I never said high schoolers were stupid, I just said that it isn't a healthy way to maintain a relationship. Not being in high school myself, it's hard for me to remember how it was back then (relationship-wise). And I actually know a handful of friends whose parents were high school sweethearts so, yes it can happen.... if you are lucky... but most of us aren't.

[PhuongNguyen]

I said that to my boyfriend at the beginning of our relationship also. I think it's because I didn't believe that I could SERIOUSLY be with someone at 15 years old, nor would someone want to be with me "forever" when we were so young. Plus, the fact that I had a horrible characteristic of jumping from guys to guys didn't help either. I thought that I would eventually get tire of him, and wanted to find someone new. But its been 4 years and I was wrong.

I know that in the perfect world, people will never doubt their relationship, but we don't live in that world. I think it's fine if the thought "we won't last" comes up once in a while. Although it's not comforting to know that your girlfriend think you guys don't have a future, don't take it into heart. I said the same thing to my boyfriend, but he totally changed my mind. Just change hers.

[derrek]

Or sing "Freak Me" by Silk, "Cause tonight BABY, I'm gonna get FREAKY with youuuuu!"

... ok no, maybe not.

[Prot]

It's called having confidence and faith, and working out your relationship. There are no guarantees in life but you make the best of what you can do.

[insanelyCRAZY]

where is the faith, trust and confidence?
you two should go out and do something spontaneous.
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