[chocobb]

The past week, it has snowed and my boyfriend kept saying to me "lets go snowboarding, I want to go snowboarding!" Today, its snowing a bunch and my friend from highschool asked me to go with them. (I rarely see them now since we're all in different schools now). Anyways, it turns out it would be 3 of my guy friends going, one of them hes seen before and when I asked my boyfriend, hes told me "no thanks you can go yourself." Because no girls are going......Well, not that many of my girl friends know how to and one has to go to a funeral....

So the point was, he didn't want to go cause its all guys. And I'm thinking..would it really matter??? at least im wanting to bring him along with me since he kept asking me to go. I understand that he might not be that close to them, but atleast everyone can speak english and they can still talk.

then he brings up how I wouldnt want to go out with him if hes going out with just girls..it would be true, because none of his female friends would be speaking english and theyre all so annoyingly clingy. geez

I'm a bit mad because I feel that hes just being stubborn....its not like hes a shy person either.
Maybe I'm sounding bossy about trying to make him go with me??? but he DID want to go...
What are your opinions on this? How would you feel about this.

[xlila]

Maybe he's just upset because he wanted to go with you ALONE, not with a bunch of your guy friends, but instead you will be going with them.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Assume that his girl-friends can speak english, I think you would consider it as well.
He's just a little bit jealous. Everyone is like that.
Just swap those guys with girls who can speak english, I think you'll say no as well.

I'm not saying you guys got trust issues. But jealousy is a normal part of life.

and what ^ said is quite true as well.

[Shikabane Hime]

You'd rather go with your friends than with him.
I would be hurt as well lol

[pillowcase]

If i was him I would insist on going =_= if he was jealous he should think of protecting you! 3 guys and one girl? and he doesnt want to go keep a watch on you? roar (im not saying that you need to be watched, just what i would ido if i was a guy)

[Apple.Mint]

he's probably hurt and is jealous
he kept begging you to go with him yet you said no
now you suddenly wants to go with guys friend and you asked him to come along
yeah that hurtt

[Torento <3]

then he brings up how I wouldnt want to go out with him if hes going out with just girls..it would be true, because none of his female friends would be speaking english and theyre all so annoyingly clingy. geez

You rude girl.

Who cares if they can speak English or not? Can you speak a second language?

[xlila]

You rude girl.

Who cares if they can speak English or not? Can you speak a second language?

Well, I think in this case, she was just saying that it'd be pointless to hang out with those girls because they speak a different language that she does not understand/speak. So to her it'd be "pointless" to tag along if she can't even communicate with them. Calling them "annoyingly clingy" is rude though.

[~Tropical.Mists]

Well in that situation, I don't consider him being stubborn >_>
Cuz if my bf rather go say shopping with other girls than with me (when I kept saying I wanna go shopping), I'd be angry too >_<
With that said... I don't understand why he wouldn't want to hang out with your guy friends and you won't hang out with his female friends? My bf and I basically have the same group of guy friends, so whenever we hang out together, I might end up being the only girl and there's nothing wrong with that... on the other hand, my bf hates being the only guy in a group of girls lol O_o

--xoxo.
TM

[RYUUSEi]

How touched would you be if you asked to spend some time with your bf, and he said "Sure, let's go on a trip with my female friends and we're all set!". Instead of "Is He Being Stubborn?" we'd be seeing a topic that would be -> "My boyfriend hella pissed me off today."

[supa'Wanki]

You're so clueless, it's not even funny.