[axe_pheonix]

So yea there are many times when you like person A, but person A doesnt like you back.
But a few times, ive had to dealt with a similar but different situation.

And it goes like this...

I like a girl, and it genuinely seems as though she likes me back. Just seems like she doesnt act the same around other guys, etc.

Then I finally feel that i'm ready to tell her how i feel, and perhaps start a serious relationship.

Its then that she reveals to me... she doesnt like me in that way.

Has anyone ever experienced this? I just dont get it... why act like it if you dont feel that way?

[Shikabane Hime]

Maybe you're just taking it the wrong way. Just a thought.

[PandaKiss]

That happened to me too.
But I guess its our fault for misunderstanding.
'Cause they probably act like that around every guy/girl. :/

[wingwong]

So yea there are many times when you like person A, but person A doesnt like you back.
But a few times, ive had to dealt with a similar but different situation.

And it goes like this...

I like a girl, and it genuinely seems as though she likes me back. Just seems like she doesnt act the same around other guys, etc.

Then I finally feel that i'm ready to tell her how i feel, and perhaps start a serious relationship.

Its then that she reveals to me... she doesnt like me in that way.

Has anyone ever experienced this? I just dont get it... why act like it if you dont feel that way?

You think that she doesn't act the same way, because you like her.
This makes you think she is different around guys.
Also it could be that she is just more comfortable around you.

You should also never confess.
If you both like each other than it should progress naturally.

[L.FOR.LOVE]

^ yeah,
like maybe she does taht toeveryone, but beacuse you like her, you thin kshe`s only doing it to you and that your more special
hmm i suppose i`ve been i nthat situation ..

[shudder_V]

EEhhh....I've had this happen to be a few times as well, you're friends with a girl, shes flirting with you and you're flirting back, you guys hit it off and when you pop the question, she only wants to be friends or only thinks of you as friends...

ahhh girls...you're so confusing...don't give mixed signals and guys should learn how to read them...

[Shikabane Hime]

You should also never confess.
If you both like each other than it should progress naturally.

Things don't happen NATURALLY. Someone has to take initiative.

[wingwong]

Things don't happen NATURALLY. Someone has to take initiative.

Things do happen naturally if both parties like each other.
Of course both parties will have to flirt with each other and all to get somewhere.
It just happens.

[starry]

What did u say to her? o_0
You must've said something...

[hippiehop]

The problem I have with this is that I'm usually the girl having to reject the guy. I'm really nice and friendly to everyone, so it really boggles my mind when they think I'm interested... since I think I just treat everyone the same.... and that I'm wayyyyyyyyyyy obvious when I actually do like a guy.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

you took her signs wrongly. That's all I can say.

[RYUUSEi]

Either she was just being friendly and you took it the wrong way, or she sensed that you were about to confess and realized she was only in it for the chase.

[supa'Wanki]

haha that happens all the time, its part of life. better get used to it

[daulism]

This has happened to me to. Based on my experience: You're misunderstanding.
I say give up now while you still can or forever leave yourself confused.

[Fui]

I usually catch the guy's vibe before I talk to him about starting a relationship.
But that has happened to me before, but in terms of I like someone and I get them to like me but then I don't like them anymore knowing that they like me back.
It's weird.

[`Koko]

It's mostly just a misunderstanding.
You only feel like she likes you because you like her.
You think she doesn't act like she does around you with other guys,
but that's not true. I'm pretty sure you're not there monitoring her twenty four / seven,
so how do you really know that? : )
You don't always hear her conversations with other guys,
or see her actions with other guys,
and online you probably don't see or read her conversations.

[snooky7o2]

Sounds like a misunderstanding. It happens a lot. Maybe you just saw what you wanted to see and heard what you wanted to hear. Sometimes when we like someone, something as simple as going out to lunch and hanging out can be make people think "Oh she must like me back."

I'm not saying she never liked you either. She could have had. But felt like there was no chemistry and decided you guys would be better off as friends. Next time when you like someone, let them know upfront so you don't get put in the "just friends" category.

[damyoungji]

Similar situations have happened to me. It is all part of human nature to misunderstand others and to have false hope every once in awhile.

The worst case is when a guy knew I liked him and he treated me differently than the majority of girls.
He will defend me wherever I go, to the point if he can't even find me, he will hunt down other guys as if they will know T.T
Then he will do cutesy stuff like a couple will do (we were friends, but it definitely felt a bit more than that).

Eventually, I find out on the last day of high school he had a girlfriend from another school. Pffttt, I rather be rejected on the spot than be led on.

[mcsn]

Similar situations have happened to me. It is all part of human nature to misunderstand others and to have false hope every once in awhile.

The worst case is when a guy knew I liked him and he treated me differently than the majority of girls.
He will defend me wherever I go, to the point if he can't even find me, he will hunt down other guys as if they will know T.T
Then he will do cutesy stuff like a couple will do (we were friends, but it definitely felt a bit more than that).

Eventually, I find out on the last day of high school he had a girlfriend from another school. Pffttt, I rather be rejected on the spot than be led on.

omg..this is what's happening to me right now... it sucks...
we rarely speak with each other but when he knew i like him... he started talking to me..going to where i work..asking me about my life.. he even knows my work schedule.. etc..but he didn't do anything more than that..i mean..he never really say that he likes me back( why not right? i mean..he knows a like him..duh!) but yeah.. i'm just waiting for him to ask me out..but he never did..
i think it's karma though..cuz ive been through this situation except im the one who rejects the guy who tought that i was interested in him but i was just being friendly.. (this always has been the case..but now.. T.T)

i saw him today..he was really nice to this new girl at work... (and she's pretty too..and she's white..and he's white... anyways..maybe he doesn't like asian girls.. T.T) it sucks! im soooo down right now.. help me!!

ANYWAYS....THIS IS SOOO RIGHT!! "I rather be rejected on the spot than be led on".

[mintcracker]

^ yah cos that uncertain feeling sucks

and you're always wondering and dwelling on it. The feeling of being left hanging is the worst T_T.