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High Maintenance Boyfriend? what should i do?

#1 User is offline   aAa M aAa N D aAa 

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Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:31 AM

my boyfriend is really clingy and expects me to be around him 24/7. and he always wants me to lavish him with gifts. but whenever i do, he never appreciates them. as much as i love him, there is only so much space i can breathe and so much i can take!

what is high maintenance? would he fall under the "high maintenance" category? what should i do?! what would YOU do?


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#2 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:43 AM

Who cares what category he falls under. If you have so much time to label him, why don't you think about how to best deal with the situation?

If I were the guy, I'd keep it up cause I know the girl isn't going to stop giving me stuff, cause she loves me cool.gif
He's spoiled, say "no" next time he asks for a gift and see how he reacts.

"WTH, YOU'RE MY GIRL!!!"

Break up then.

PS: has anyone noticed the irony behind the situation?
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 08:35 AM

^hahaha yes.

What kind man expects his gf to shower him with gifts?
You need to get some time away from him.
Doesn't he have his own life that he needs to live?
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 09:11 AM

LOL.

If you don't want to be with him anymore then leave him.
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 09:33 AM

He sounds like a handful.
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 10:04 AM

he sounds like the type who will hook up with a rich cougar.

what would I do? I would ask him to buy me gifts too, and pretend that I don't satisfy with them. Win-win situation see.
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 10:28 AM

I'd like to meet this guy

and...


High five him XD
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 11:04 AM

Talk to him about how you feel about the situation. =]


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Posted 18 December 2008 - 11:25 AM

QUOTE (Kawakji @ Dec 18 2008, 12:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'd like to meet this guy

and...


High five him XD


w00t.gif Heck yes!

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Posted 18 December 2008 - 01:42 PM

yeah I think if you leave him he will be "oh no, pleaseeeeeeeeeeee don't leave me I beg you. noooooooooooooo"
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:15 PM

Wow... that must be really annoying... ask him to buy YOU stuff =.=; lols talk to him about it and see what he says~
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:21 PM

QUOTE (aAa M aAa N D aAa @ Dec 18 2008, 02:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
my boyfriend is really clingy and expects me to be around him 24/7. and he always wants me to lavish him with gifts. but whenever i do, he never appreciates them. as much as i love him, there is only so much space i can breathe and so much i can take!

what is high maintenance? would he fall under the "high maintenance" category? what should i do?! what would YOU do?


stop with the girfts and see how he reacts when you tellhim your hanging out wiht another guy. The tables should turn
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:35 PM

.________________.;;;
Woooooow.
I think I know who's wearing the pants in this relationship.

What would I do? Demand him to buy me things and demand he NOT be around me 24/7.
If he can't deal? Bye bye. > >
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 02:39 PM

UGHHH I really dislike guys like that!

I wouldn't be able to stand being with a guy like that.

I've never really heard of a dude requiring his girlfriend to spoil him with gifts before... I thought that that was usually something girls wanted from guys... blink.gif
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Posted 18 December 2008 - 04:18 PM

Seems clingy rather than high maintenance.
Just tell him that you need your own personal space. Communication is the key to all relationships, tell him that you feel as though he doesn't appreicate the things you do to him...


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Posted 18 December 2008 - 05:05 PM

There's a big difference between 'high-maintenance' and 'loser'. (No Offence)
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Well, communication is essential, and relationships are supposed to be two-sided, not one. So you have the right to speak up your mind.

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Posted 18 December 2008 - 05:11 PM

what kind of guy begs for gifts from his girlfriend? laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif tell him to grow a pair
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