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i know there is a topic on how guys should ask girls out,,
but how about how girls should ask guys out?
[i hope there isnt a topic on this already, if there is..sorry lol]

Personally, i dont think it should just be the boys asking the girls out.
people believe it's like a "rule".. well if it is, screw the rule
hehe

honestly, im not a very patient girl. i cant wait for the guy to make his move..
so, i end up asking the boys out most of the time,
and luckly, i dont get rejected ..often lol

so, GIRLS.. how would you ask a guy out? or how did you ask your guy out?
any creative ideas?

[Shikabane Hime]

That's hot. Ask me out, now.
But you might not be so lucky.

True leaders lead by demonstration. I'm sure 90% of the women out there would like to learn a few tricks so they can grow out of the whole "guys are supposed to make the move" phase.

[HaruNov]

No Myspace /facebook /AIM "will you go out with me?" please.

[shl979]

No Myspace /facebook /AIM "will you go out with me?" please.

then how about a soompi "will you go out with me?"

[HaruNov]

I'm not interested.

sorry

[Apple.Mint]

^ LOLL that made my night =P

[xeilmach]

"No Myspace /facebook /AIM "will you go out with me?" please."

I agree with that. I lost my first confession which was for my sister. And I'm a guy.

Anyway, I think if girls start to do that, things more will get things done.

[^.^]

There's this guy whom I'm with,
but not officially;
We're unofficially official...
Its complicated.

Basically, from the beginning of our friendship,
I told him, straight up, that if he EVER asks me out,
I will tell him "no."
So for eight months,
our friendship was completely platonic.
We talked on the phone multiple times each week
for an average of two hours a day.
(Now we talk twice as much as before.)

I'd see him once a month, twice if I was lucky.

Then just one/two months ago,
I stayed over at his place.

I was supposed to take the train back to LA from SD,
but the train left a minute too soon.
So I called him and he picked me up.
We were chilling on the couch eating this pie he made me,
and he was telling me how he thought he'd end up lonely.
So I told him if he isn't in a relationship by the time he's 28,
I'd give it a shot.
He told me he would date me right now.
Somehow, we ended up cuddling.
When his room mate and his rm's gf came,
he took the car to drove me all the way back home.
As we were driving, I asked why he'd want to date me now.
Then he listed all the reasons why he liked me so.
I responded by telling him everything I liked about him.
As it turns out- we like each other,
and now we're obviously more than just friends...
almost boyfriend/girlfriend-
just without the title.

So I have all the control with when to make it official.
We negotiated that it would be within a year.
This was a negotiation because
I didn't want a bf until after I graduate uni.
And since I have all the power with this,
I can pick ANY day.

So on New Years Eve, I plan to make it finally official.

I'll tell him I got him a present that I'll be dropping off,
and the box will be on the rocks at the beach.
I'll tell him to open it up before sunrise.
When he opens up the present,

I'll stand up
tell him I love him,
and ask him to be my boyfriend.

All the while the sun rises before us.

[masturyan]

"No Myspace /facebook /AIM "will you go out with me?" please."

I agree with that. I lost my first confession which was for my sister. And I'm a guy.

Wait...what???

[eximius]

^ That's what I'd like to know o.o



Creative ways?
If I were close enough with the guy (which I'd hope I would be seeing as I 'like like' him and want to date him and all)... I'd demand he go out with me.
"You, me... date NOW." Something like that.
It'd be different, but only would be worth doing if I knew he liked me too. Can you imagine getting rejected using that line? Ouch < <

[xradiostatic]

Wait...what???

yeah, seriously.

[Makaveli]

No Myspace /facebook /AIM "will you go out with me?" please.

QFT, If a girl has the courage to ask first it's +5 points to her in my book,

and the "^.^" person, your story is intense lol. Good luck. I'm sure he'll accept.

[Left_King]

There's this guy whom I'm with....
... ... ... ... ... ...
...All the while the sun rises before us.

WOW...!!!!
GO FOR IT 'my frd'!!!
sooooooooooooooo Romantic!!!
I bet he'll cry in front of ya when u 'come out of the box' and say those 3 words...!!!

Goin back to the topic...
Face to Face is always best...cuz u can see how much they're willing 'sacrifice'? to be with u...u get to see their emotions...and its a lot more intimate ^^ its more romantic too!!!
Do smth really unique...that comes from ur heart!!!

[donporkuloin]

There's this guy whom I'm with,
but not officially;
We're unofficially official...
Its complicated.

Basically, from the beginning of our friendship,
I told him, straight up, that if he EVER asks me out,
I will tell him "no."
So for eight months,
our friendship was completely platonic.
We talked on the phone multiple times each week
for an average of two hours a day.
(Now we talk twice as much as before.)

I'd see him once a month, twice if I was lucky.

Then just one/two months ago,
I stayed over at his place.

I was supposed to take the train back to LA from SD,
but the train left a minute too soon.
So I called him and he picked me up.
We were chilling on the couch eating this pie he made me,
and he was telling me how he thought he'd end up lonely.
So I told him if he isn't in a relationship by the time he's 28,
I'd give it a shot.
He told me he would date me right now.
Somehow, we ended up cuddling.
When his room mate and his rm's gf came,
he took the car to drove me all the way back home.
As we were driving, I asked why he'd want to date me now.
Then he listed all the reasons why he liked me so.
I responded by telling him everything I liked about him.
As it turns out- we like each other,
and now we're obviously more than just friends...
almost boyfriend/girlfriend-
just without the title.

So I have all the control with when to make it official.
We negotiated that it would be within a year.
This was a negotiation because
I didn't want a bf until after I graduate uni.
And since I have all the power with this,
I can pick ANY day.

So on New Years Eve, I plan to make it finally official.

I'll tell him I got him a present that I'll be dropping off,
and the box will be on the rocks at the beach.
I'll tell him to open it up before sunrise.
When he opens up the present,

I'll stand up
tell him I love him,
and ask him to be my boyfriend.

All the while the sun rises before us.

That's cute, you gave me an idea for my situation, but that's a bit controlling. The girl I'm dating we're unofficially official too. It would be awesome if she just asked me out already. Haha.

[pooface]

its cheap for a girl to ask a guy out.. coz if the guy doesnt want to ask the girl out, then it means shes not worth it!
and thats how the girl end up getting humiliated..

& the guy whos not manly enough to ask the girl out.. mean she isnt worth his courage!

[Shikabane Hime]

its cheap for a girl to ask a guy out.. coz if the guy doesnt want to ask the girl out, then it means shes not worth it!
and thats how the girl end up getting humiliated..

& the guy whos not manly enough to ask the girl out.. mean she isnt worth his courage!

And this is why gender inequality will never be resolved.
Enjoy your 85%-of-a-man's-dollar wage rate

[pooface]

And this is why gender inequality will never be resolved.
Enjoy your 85%-of-a-man's-dollar wage rate

sure, thanks! dont u mean 100% ..

anyways, just coz i said that doesnt mean that i mean 'woman must be housewife' .. must not work etc.. dont need to judge it by that! what i said is true
why are u so against what i said? .. do u really want a girl to confess their love to u with a chocolate and a rose? only sissy boys would want this! coz they weak like a girl.. a girl is weaker than a guy! u must admit! .. guys can be builders, they can do things that are strong! if he isnt goin to have the courage, gut to confess to a girl.. then hes a sissy! Do u perfer it the other way round 85% of-a-womans-doller wage rate??

[Shikabane Hime]

I'd like to live in the 21st century, and maybe press forward as opposed to some conservative walnut that wants to live in the victorian era. Or maybe the 60's for the sake of realism.

Do u perfer it the other way round 85% of-a-womans-doller wage rate??

Why not 1:1 ratio? LOL what a pessimist. Just cause you enjoy the convenience of being a girl when it comes to dating, doesn't mean you get to pick and choose which ones you want.

You're already stepping out of traditional female gender roles by challenging my opinion and talking back. To a guy.
That's completely wrong in your eyes, and therefore you should stop acting like a hypocrite and go back to your dishes.

Guys are sissy cause they can't make the move? Who said that? Century-old sexist dictatorship? If you want equality, you should be putting more effort into it. Otherwise, we'll just continue to think "women don't know what they want, they shouldn't be making decisions for us."

EDIT: actually, you might be a guy, which would completely destroy my post.

[Smiling_TOFU]

It's okay for a girl to ask out a guy. My bro's gf asked him why he never asked her out since they have been friends for a long time, and then it just happened like magic.....yup....sweet...lol...

I'd ask a guy out...but for now I gotta gather enough courage and bottle it up until I have enough....lol.....I'm such a chicken and need enough courage...just in case I'm setting myself for disappointment...lol...yup....but it's okay, I'm a strong independent woman, who can take care of myself...lol...aha...

[Floatii]

i personally am against girls asking guys out.
maybe because i am conservative and i do think that girls should be the ones to play hard to get and get away with it.