[hong863]

my ex and i broke up a month ago, but i miss him ike crazy and i still have hope being with him again

so my question is

would you consider going out with ur ex's againn?

how would to return being a couple again?

edited:

aww thanks for the replies,
i still talk to him once in a while for a few minutes , but it seems like im only putting the effort T___T
i have a feeling i should quit, but my heart says to wait. is that normal?

[chocolate*]

I wouldn't. I have before and totally regret it, so I wouldn't do it again. Reason is you broke up in the first place due to something... and likely it'll come up again after you get back together = breakup again -_-

[TotalCamwhore]

Most will say...get over it and move on.

Hard to do though.
So if you're asking how...
try Google, i'm sure millions of pages will come through

If he hasn't gotten a new girlfriend yet, and you wanna have a slight chance with him again...
Date another guy. He'll come back.

[hippiehop]

No, I will never date my exes again. Give yourself more time, you'll see it too.

[Prot]

Then when you get back into it you realize all the flaws of the relationship are still there because certain aspects of people do not change and generally those aspects were probably what split you apart in the first place.

[chinobingo]

very hard question. a question im still struggling after 6 months and after my ex dated two guys...

it depends on you. what do you feel? does your ex still like/love you? if its still there, maybe after awhile its possible.

i never gave up hope even though she told me personally and many times frustratingly that she wanted me to move on.
i tried again twice but failed miserably and ended up being really sad again for many nights, weeks, and months.

right now, im in a neutral state. i just do whatever and hope for the best.

its hard but most of the time, you have to move on. its tough to say...

[han.yung]

right now, i would definitely consider it. but i wouldnt definitely get back together with him.
a month ago, i would have said yes straight away without even thinking.
but now, i dunno. i've changed so much, and so has he. even tho its only been two months.
i feel like its truly over, even tho there are still feelings, i feel like thats it.
i havent seen him in so long, and even if we did get back together, long distance will be hard.
it'd really depend on whether i was over him or not when the opportunity came up.

[JJ no Baka]

I believe there are chances but most of the time, the chances of it working out is if the two people move on with their lives and somehow they come back to each other coincidentally later on in life. Because time do changes things and people, so if a couple breaks up and get back together, the same problems might rise again. I don't know. I wish I was still with him and actually try to work it out.

[Misao]

there are times when i miss my ex, but i will never ever ever get back with him. -___- there are reasons why we broke up.

[L.FOR.LOVE]

right after a break up, you'd give anything to be wit them again usually
it`s been a month so yeah
see how it goes maybe
with my ex i wanted to get back together, bt i realsied that yeah we shouldn't

[azurette]

Well, I've broken up with guys after less than a month of dating and got back with them. It lasted a bit longer afterwards.
Right now I'm actually at the point that I forgive mine and we're working on the relationship again.
It's possible as long as both parties put in the effort...

[&love?]

it's been 4 years since i broke up with my ex..
and i TOTALLY regreted it. even now...
i always tell myself how stupid i was to do that..
but honestly, there's no way back for me..
we dont even speak to each other -___-
aiiishh...

[celinewalksin10]

i wouldn't.. we're friends now, and i'm fine with that..
it takes time until you get knocked on the head
and realize you won't date the same guy anymore..

[It4cH1]

exes are best to be put away
for they are the ones that always betray
giving your all only to be let go
remembering that time once long ago
where pain was a lifestyle and not a feeling
you tried your best to keep on healing
only to be left with that one little scar
that little damn scar that changed who you are

-me

[Left_King]

Im kinda in the same situation....However im not sure if i want to get back together with her...!!
Well half of me still misses her...since we dated for 7yrs...think it's normal to feel this way...is it not?
But my other part says that's enough.... :S
And i kinda hv a crush on a girl i met online... I do know what love's about and i dont think this is stupid....maybe its just a phase ppl go thru...but tbh...i dont really care...if feel what i feel...what other ppl say...doesnt affect me...!!

Getting back with an EX....isnt easy, but its not hard either....it just depends...
If both still feel smth for each other...maybe u can work things out... If u couldnt work it out b4, it doesnt mean u cant work it out now...
Ppl change and learn from mistakes...
Ppl 'move on'....

...so it really does depend...
If u still love ur EX....i'd tell him/her....but u gotta find the best timing....

Wish u all the best...!!!

[CKalvin]

nope

i dont touch ex's regardless of the circumstances

its too messy =P

[abviolinplayer]

A week after we broke up I would have said definitely; now I know that would be an incredibly stupid thing to do. I can't stand him anymore, anyway

[k1nkychinky]

ive been in a situation where i kept gonig back to my ex but now were not together and i would never go back to him cos weve been thru it a thousand times. theres no reason to go back to him because you know its not going to work out.

[-bebeh0n3y.]

well im currently dating my ex. we broke up about two years ago, and during these two years, we've both been dating other people. once i started talking to him again, we got closer and closer. started too talk to each other almost every night. then we were offical. i think we both have changed and are more mature about things. we treat each other better, and learn from our mistakes.

[limelight]

I've never experienced this but two of my closest friends have.
They were both fighting over the same guy, and he went back to both of them, twice.
They both gave him a second chance, and he messed up both times.
This caused a bunch of drama because when he was with girl A he was flirting with girl B
and when he was with girl B he was flirting with girl A.

If you think he's worth it, it doesn't hurt to give it a second chance.
But if he's stupid enough to mess it up again, then it's not meant to be.