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How Can I Feel More Comfortable As A Christian

#1 User is offline   ohcrap12345 

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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:34 PM

i just feel like a hypocrite sometimes .. just going to church without a main purpose .. like all the kids in my church are strong and dedicated christians and i feel like the only one left out. i'm like the only who constantly curses, sucks at math, and smokes sometimes. everyone else is clean and just depends on God for everything. but sometimes I just don't feel like a right person. someone please help me sad.gif
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:39 PM

that cant be helped. everyone flipflops, feel me
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:44 PM

Don't feel bad, they all touch themselves at night.

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sucks at math


LOL, god hates people that can't do their taxes?
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:48 PM

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Dec 25 2008, 10:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Don't feel bad, they all touch themselves at night.



LOL, god hates people that can't do their taxes?


i'm takin this whole thing seriously so if you ain't gonna contribute anything important or helpful, i suggest you gtfo
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#5 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:51 PM

lol, not with that attitude you're not. You've already pointed out your problems in the first post, and you're clearly not doing anything about it.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:54 PM

I really can't help you out.
But I do have a question, what does sucking at math have to do with being a christian? blink.gif
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:55 PM

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Dec 25 2008, 10:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol, not with that attitude you're not. You've already pointed out your problems in the first post, and you're clearly not doing anything about it.


because it's hard. in school, i'm surrounded by hundreds and hundreds of non-christians who do crazy mini cooper and curse all the time, and i'm used to their ways. and when i go to church, i see a bunch of strong-hearted true christians who basically live their life for God while I'm in the church feeling different. and a lot of kids in my school take Christianity as a joke, and it's just hard to defend it and all that. it's hard to explain everything. this is the farthest i can explain ..
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 07:57 PM

damn.... your those kinda ppl who go to church and are hard to brainwash eh.....
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:02 PM

QUOTE (ohcrap12345 @ Dec 25 2008, 10:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
because it's hard. in school, i'm surrounded by hundreds and hundreds of non-christians who do crazy mini cooper and curse all the time, and i'm used to their ways. and when i go to church, i see a bunch of strong-hearted true christians who basically live their life for God while I'm in the church feeling different. and a lot of kids in my school take Christianity as a joke, and it's just hard to defend it and all that. it's hard to explain everything. this is the farthest i can explain ..


Conformity is a sin. Or was it.

Half of those so-called true-hearted christians probably aren't. You can perform effectively, but does that mean when the trial of fire comes, you'll be able to fulfill your duty? No, they'll probably chicken out.

So what if people do stuff and curse all the time? Just cause you see someone punching a kid, doesn't mean you're going to go and punch the kid as well.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:05 PM

You're right. You are a hypocrite and you are showing the whole soompi world by being so. Great job.

What is with this post and your post in the SEXUAL ORIENTATION thread? You obviously know yourself that you're not the most perfect person, but then you go to the SEXUAL ORIENTATION thread and tell gay people to get the f___ out... and that you don't like them? What is wrong with you? This has got to be a joke. God does NOT want us to judge gay people that way. We are no greater than them. We're all the same.



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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:12 PM

QUOTE (FLY HIGHHH @ Dec 25 2008, 11:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You're right. You are a hypocrite and you are showing the whole soompi world by being so. Great job.

What is with this post and your post in the SEXUAL ORIENTATION thread? You obviously know yourself that you're not the most perfect person, but then you go to the SEXUAL ORIENTATION thread and tell gay people to get the f___ out... and that you don't like them? What is wrong with you? This has got to be a joke. God does NOT want us to judge gay people that way. We are no greater than them. We're all the same.


Wow, a lot of you Soompiers really are sensitive and used to catching feelings through the screen .. must be kidding me. You can tell that the poster was obviously joking if you read his other post below, so I was playing along .. I got nothing against gay people. As long as they're not gay on me, then I'm coo. Relax people.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:14 PM

QUOTE (FLY HIGHHH @ Dec 25 2008, 11:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
God does NOT want us to judge gay people that way. We are no greater than them. We're all the same.


Homosexuality is a sin.
But heterosexuality is not.

Based on that alone, we can say that one group is better than the other in one criteria.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:24 PM

don't compare yourself w/ other people. cuz you're different. you shouldn't feel like you're inferior as a christian because of the things you do. just try to feel comfortable about where you are in your relationship w/ God and not worry about other people.
and i used to go to a school where only like 5% of the students were christians.. and sometimes people made being a christian seem like a really bad thing. but i prayed a lot and i decided that God put me in there for a reason. so i asked him to use me and help change the kids at my school. it was very uncomfortable at first and the people around me didn't really change... but i did and i don't care what the people around me do anymore. it doesn't influence how i feel or what i do.. so i think you should tell God how you feel and ask him for help =)
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:35 PM

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Dec 25 2008, 08:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Homosexuality is a sin.
But heterosexuality is not.

Based on that alone, we can say that one group is better than the other in one criteria.


But heretosexual people sin as well.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 08:38 PM

QUOTE (FLY HIGHHH @ Dec 25 2008, 11:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But heretosexual people sin as well.


Yes, but at least heterosexual people don't fail on the "sexuality" category.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 09:24 PM

Don't worry, everyone is a hypocrite. No one is perfect, right?
Hmm..I would suggest hanging out with your friends at church??
Because in school, my friends don't really understand how important my religion is to me..
But with church buddies, we can all just relate =)



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Posted 25 December 2008 - 09:29 PM

Don't worry about yourself compared to the others so much. It's only going to lower your self esteem and make you feel discouraged. Plus, everyone sins so nobody can be the "right" person. You should talk to your pastor and tell him that you want to become a more commited Christian. I guess the best advice to give you is to...well, pray to God. Talk to him about your problems and he WILL help you. Trust me wink.gif Hope I helped lol.


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Posted 25 December 2008 - 09:34 PM

All I can suggest is to pray. And remember that the most important changes happen naturally. I think if you really will yourself and want to change, you will. Pray that God will help make you how you want to be, or how He wants you to be. It's tough though, and it may be a while before it feels like you've made any progress. Oh, and I'm a pastor's daughter, but I've felt out of touch in church compared to other kids, too.
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 09:35 PM

I feel the same with you @__@
All my church friends are so devoted, but I'm totally different from them
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Posted 25 December 2008 - 09:45 PM

it's ok
i know how you feel
im Roman Catholic and we are some of the most orthodox Christans out there
but u know your doing alright if u are just a genuine good person
and u know how they say god dont like ugly
.........some of the most hardcore Christans are some the most ugliest people

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