Okay, so me and my girlfriend has just broken up like few days ago. For reason that I don't want to say but, today she came to my house and this other friend of ours gave us a present and she said we had to open it together. So she came to my house and I was surprised.. Then I opened the door for her and let her in, then I started reading the card that my other friend wrote for us. It was nice. Then I opened the gift, and it was 2 scarfs and a beanie. Then right then my girl asked for a second chance, and I just said yeah sure.. right away like it was nothing. Did I do the right thing? I just said yes without even thinking about it.. I don't know if I made the right choice, but what else would I have said no? and then make it all awkward.. I really don't know.
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Was It Right To Do So?
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Posted 26 December 2008 - 04:05 PM
Take the chance you have now to think things through, obviously you weren't thinking at the time.
Then let her know whats heappening, don't take pity on her or lead her on just because. If you don't want to be with her than there's no need to be, but it's imperative that whatever decision you come to, you tell her quicktime before she gets pissed.
Then let her know whats heappening, don't take pity on her or lead her on just because. If you don't want to be with her than there's no need to be, but it's imperative that whatever decision you come to, you tell her quicktime before she gets pissed.
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Posted 26 December 2008 - 04:36 PM
It doesn't matter if you did the right thing then. What matters is you are reflecting on it, see if you can do the right thing now; think it through, be honest, and tell her how you really feel.
Don't fret on the past; it won't change now. Think of the future, which you can actively change.
Don't fret on the past; it won't change now. Think of the future, which you can actively change.
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Posted 26 December 2008 - 05:56 PM
Okay so I just told her the truth and I ended it.. I didn't want to lead her on or anything.. Thanks for your help Harbl and PoppinBC
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Posted 29 December 2008 - 09:31 PM
do what ever makes you happy, if being with her but having no feelings, then you should break it off
or if you truly feel that you have no more feelings then just break it off
or if you truly feel that you have no more feelings then just break it off
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Posted 29 December 2008 - 09:34 PM
You accepted the gifts. Your problem now. Good thing you finished it appropriately, like a real man.
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Posted 29 December 2008 - 09:58 PM
what was the reason why you broke up.
i think your girl still likes you, why else would she get her friend(im assuming) to do this for you guys. but if you dont like her it was the right thing to do cause its not good to lead people on when you have no feelings
i think your girl still likes you, why else would she get her friend(im assuming) to do this for you guys. but if you dont like her it was the right thing to do cause its not good to lead people on when you have no feelings
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