[SHUYI*]

I'm in my first relationship and I don't know how it works lol. My bf commented on his ex's picture saying that she is really..really cute. Honestly I feel a bit insecure cause..compared to her I'm ..let's say not that pretty or even close to it LOL. I'm feel a little bit cause he doesn't call me cute -o-. LOL I feel so childish hahah. So for the girls out there are you ok with your bf calling other girls cute or pretty? Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I being immature?

[EDIT]
ANOTHER CHALLENGE!
I don't want to make a new topic on something similar lol ;x
I know I sound REALLY..stalkerish freaky obsessed but I'm not (at least I don't think I am T_T) I went to his ex's myspace again. I don't mean to check up on them or anything..we sorta know each other cause of work and everything and we have each others myspace and ..I myspace a lot lol ;x. So I was just myspacing and then I just clicked on my bf ex's myspace and I saw him leaving a comment saying "I miss you..." and I was like..ok they're close friends and friends say these things. But I can't help it but feel like . LOL omg I'm a loser hahaha -o-. Is it normal to feel like that?!?! I'm at my first relationship and I'm sooo losttttt omg LOL I'm so sorry I just don't know what a bf supposed to say and not to say, what's the line we shouldn't cross, and I don't want to be like overprotective gf who's like you can't talk to her and her. I want to give him freedom to talk to whoever he wants. And if he misses her then it's understandable they are friends but..at the same time it's like duuude I'm not too comfortable with you saying your ex is cute and you miss your ex and your ex calling you baby and babe -o-. I don't know..lol. I guess I should stop myspacing ;x.

Girls: if you were me what would you do? Is it ok to feel this way or am i being too jealousy/overprotective/inconsiderate?
Guys: Do you say I miss you to your ex???? If you do does that mean you still like her???

I'M SORRY FOR THE..RANT OR..IMMATURE POST.
And thanks for the advice guys! He complimented me a week after I made this topic lol. We were at a dinner and of course we all dressed up..and then out of nowhere he called me cute..it made me happy LOL I'M SUCHA GIRLY LOSER HAHAHA. Gosh I..hate and love him sometimes -o-

[insanelyCRAZY]

wtheck. thats just rude and disrespectful.
tell him straight up that you dont like it when he mentions his ex.

[Yuyu<3]

Seems to me he's being a jerk
I think you should tell him about himself
There must be some attraction if you guys are together
see if you can get it out of him to say so

[VengeanceDoll]

That's such a turn off when people mention their ex to their current s/o
If he keeps it up, you better do something about it.

edit:/ oh my bad then. but that's still really rude imo

[Stolen_waters]

For me, it won't matter if he calls another girl pretty, except for his ex!
I agree with the others. That's just plain rude.

[hishari]

Slap him. The only girl he should be saying is cute is you.

[SHUYI*]

He didn't say it to my face though..just commented her picture on her myspace. Is that rude still? And thanks for the adviceee!!

[Inspector]

I say other girls are pretty, hot, fine all the time. My gf does the same. As long as he wasn't telling you just to say it, then its okay. In your case, he was commenting her picture,... don't look like a problem to me.

[C4Y [[Crazy 4 YeongSaeng]]]

wow ... he sounds like a jerk.
not only is he saying a girl is cute or whatever, it's his ex!
like others said ... thats rude.

YOUR his gf, he should be calling you cute.
and even if you say "you ex is cuter etc etc"
he should say "no your so much better"

i dont care if my bf comments on celebs
and i guess there are girls that i dont mind if he comments that they are pretty.
cuz my bf always says im the best in the end :]

[myxo]

He didn't say it to my face though..just commented her picture on her myspace. Is that rude still? And thanks for the adviceee!!

Not really considering he didn't say it to your face. However, I still wouldn't want to see that crap floating around MS. Let's hope that he made that comment before you and him started going out. I wouldn't mind as much if my s/o (if I had one) said some random girl was pretty/cute, but if it was his ex, I'd be pissed. However, what also ticks me off is if he doesn't ever compliment you but compliments the other pretty girls that walk by.

[Kira_Hyuu]

Honestly i think everyone here is just a bit too sensitive....like hang on a minute, everyday you go out you hear people saying he/she is pretty cute wateva - it's just being polite. So what if it's his ex like hey wats wrong in being nice?

Like think of this carefully if ur too say that your ex is ugly...wat the hell? why did you date them in the first place? was it for money? simply out of spite? like aren't these more of a concern - which begs the question why is he dating you? - Again so what if he says shes cute? I'm sure he calls you cute too? it's simply being nice....

Again i see no problem....your just being immature....

[ilovejaejoong]

Honestly i think everyone here is just a bit too sensitive....like hang on a minute, everyday you go out you hear people saying he/she is pretty cute wateva - it's just being polite. So what if it's his ex like hey wats wrong in being nice?

Like think of this carefully if ur too say that your ex is ugly...wat the hell? why did you date them in the first place? was it for money? simply out of spite? like aren't these more of a concern - which begs the question why is he dating you? - Again so what if he says shes cute? I'm sure he calls you cute too? it's simply being nice....

Again i see no problem....your just being immature....

you have a point but if he never compliments you and yet compliments random girls all the time, wouldn't that piss you off? :\

[ellyphant]

Ohh at myspace comment, he at least comments your pictures right? As long as he says you're the most ___ then I guess it's alright.

[derrek]

That isn't a very nice thing for him to do. I wouldn't tolerate that for too long personally.

[pan•pan]

I'm in my first relationship and I don't know how it works lol. My bf commented on his ex's picture saying that she is really..really cute. Honestly I feel a bit insecure cause..compared to her I'm ..let's say not that pretty or even close to it LOL. I'm feel a little bit cause he doesn't call me cute -o-. LOL I feel so childish hahah. So for the girls out there are you ok with your bf calling other girls cute or pretty? Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I being immature?

I don't mind if my bf calling other girls cute/pretty/sexy/whatever, cause I adore good-looking girls too.
I also do the same thing, I told him when I found some guys are cute/good-looking.

BUT if he commented that his ex was cute/pretty, I'll be so pissed!
If the girl is a stranger or a friend, it's fine, but no ex pls!

[hippiehop]

I don't mind if my bf calling other girls cute/pretty/sexy/whatever, cause I adore good-looking girls too.
I also do the same thing, I told him when I found some guys are cute/good-looking.

BUT if he commented that his ex was cute/pretty, I'll be so pissed!
If the girl is a stranger or a friend, it's fine, but no ex pls!

I agree, if its about a random girl, it's not sooo bad (depending on how he says it, like "OH GOD she's cute" versus "Yeah, she's kinda cute")

... but if its about an ex, that's like a stab in the heart.

[angelcadex]

Its okay to feel jealous about that.
I would be too...I'm in a long-term relationship and if my boyfriend ever said anything like that especially to an ex helllll nooooooo it would not be and would never be okay. That's just our relationship though, we say we shouldn't look at other people.

[Yui.]

Actually think of it this way. If he called his ex a b**ch and what not, you don't know if he'll call you a b**ch too if you become an ex. If he calls her cute, then prob he'll call you cute. I don't know if I'm making sense.

:] I'm pretty sure he thinks you're cute or why else would he date you.
Don't compare yourself to his ex because YOU ARE YOU.

That's what makes YOU special.

Personally, I have no problem for guys who say other girls are cute. They're just be honest, or do you want them to lie?

[Sleepy213]

I would get mad ! Especially to her ex?
I mean if it was some celebrity then I would just be like YEA and name some other celebrity as cute too.
but other then that...NO ESPECIALLY EX.

Tell your S/O to think before he says anything.

[crasher]

I think you should be honest and just confront him, tell him that you don't like it.