[xserizangelx]

argh ok so there's this guy. I met him through a friend's brother when we went out of state for vacation. We were both interested in each other but we were both too shy to even speak to each other. however, my friend could tell that I liked him so she called up some people when we got back and somehow he got my phone number and started contacting me. to be very honest, I could've cared less if we never saw each other again. but he started calling and texting me every single day. eventually, it got to the point where we were talking like we were dating. he promised he would come visit me during christmas. and that was the one event that I was looking forward to. it's all we ever talked about in our conversations. AND THEN one unexpected day he calls me and says that things didn't work out and that we should just stay friends because he didn't know when we could ever see each other again. so that was that. I had such a hard time trying to get over him. however, I eventually managed to get a hold of myself. until christmas came along....I started getting texts from people wishing me a merry christmas. so I thought, "hey, why don't I just text him too?" so I did. all I was expecting was a text back. however, he called me and we ended up being in the same place. he came down for vacation with some other friends and he asked if we could meet. I KNEW I shouldn't have accepted his invitation but I did anyway for the sake of not regretting later on. so...I drove about 2 hours back and forth to see him. we went out to see a movie. during the movie he was apologizing for what he did and was saying that he had no choice. he started holding my hand and started getting closer and closer to me. Although I didn't stop him from doing that, I couldn't give him the same kind of attention back. I felt like that would make me even more attached to him. I couldn't trust that he would stay with him after what he did to me a month earlier. so after the movie I drove him back and he kept stressing about what to do about our relationship. I told him I didn't know. then I drove back home. MADLY DEPRESSED. ; I couldn't sleep because I kept thinking about him. he texted me the next morning to check and see if I had gotten home safely. me and my friend had planned on visiting where he lived again the next day. he called me later in the night and asked when we were coming up. he happened to be going back the same day. however, out of nowhere he starts making up all these excuses as to why he couldn't see me when I was up there. and then he starts saying that he's gonna move out of the country because he hates it in the states. and then he's like "I just don't think we're meant to be. you should find a better guy than me." wtf??? so I after that I have basically been crying my eyes out every night and and now 10 times worse than I was before. every time I tell someone about this situation they keep calling him a jackass and that I should totally forget about him. but the thing is...I KNOW this and I STILL stress over him. I keep regretting the fact that I didn't kiss him back and blah blah. I feel like that was what made him turn away from me. I'm contemplating on whether or not I should try to get him back. I feel like he's already moved on but it's driving me insane. ughhhhhh what should I do? I wanna forget about him but I simply CAN'T! my feelings for him only grow over time.

[bubble]

i suggest just deleting everything of his... ie phone numbers, msges emails .. basically whatever reminds you of him and if he wants to meet up again.... DONT!!

[mal3ficum]

well its either he's a jerk, or hes playing hard to get.
but its probs best for you to get over him yeah? like be with a guy who lives around your area.
keep yourself busy. go out with friends, cook, movies, anythign! and delete stuff from him like the above poster said.

jsut keep your distance. dont ponder over what you shouldve done or 'what if'.

[A-Jaey]

well things have already happened and you can't really change it,
and well you'll eventually bump into some other guy,
who'd be like 10 times better than THAT jerk, jackass watev.

To be honest, if that was me...
I'd probably still be crazy over them like you, no matter how much they take me for granted, you can't really help it if you like someone right?
I would feel pretty mini cooper, about the 'what if's ' as well, i'm a worrywart and i think too much as well (not a good combination) like send him a final text, and after that just move on. like:
"Have a nice day" or whatever.
I know it could be a waste of 25c, but that's jsut for your own peace of mind.
Then.. try and move on. Just make a pact to yourself, and like mal3ficum said, just keep yourself busy? Hang out with friends, and just go party, get trashed, make a goal complete it?
* Try and vacuum the entire house in less than an hour?
Like each day keep yourself a personal journal (if you're not keeping one), and your goal?
Well, write if you've thought about him at all, and if you go a couple of days without thinking about him you're on the right track!

Good Luck.
OH New Year's is coming up (Y) New Years RESOLUTION =] as well as partayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

[Shikabane Hime]

Send some pix and we'll work something out

[wees2dee]

it will be very hard for you to get over him, its not easy but you have to do it. if he doesnt want to see you again for some reason or another then he's not worth crying over.