Posted 29 December 2008 - 06:38 AM
Recently I've been teased to an guy. I used to hate his guts but then when the teasing started, we just sort of let it go with the flow until he asked me out to watch a movie with him. At first I said that I'd think about it and then he said that I'll just text him if I have decided. When office hours was over, he sent me a message that he's already in the movie house and I felt bad if I wouldn't come but there was something in my guts that's been nagging me that made me scared so I asked a friend to come along with me.
When we arrived at the movie house, I introduced my friend and he paid for my ticket. He looked dumbfounded when he saw my friend and then we went inside the movie house. To my absolute surprise, the whole department he was working for was with him. I was shocked as we sat in the group.
At the end of the movie, he introduced me to a girl (one of the group) and he jokingly referred to the girl as "his girlfriend" and I was like "wait a minute!"
A week later he confronted me by making a sarcastic remark about my dating habits -bringing a friend to a date. I retaliated by saying at least I only brought one unlike him when he brought the rest of his officemates. He said that we were gonna seperate from the group if I hadn't bring my friend.
Two days ago, I found out that he is madly inlove with the girl he jokingly introduced as his "girlfriend" but the girl already has a boyfriend and is leaving the company. He confessed it to a person in front of me. I was like "WTF?"- did this guy used me to make that girl jealous?
What was the use of my presence in that situation? I know he's not into me for reasons like he doesn't give extra effort to contact me, he only asks me out if he'd see me.
Did he use me? what do you guys think? If so, do you think I should get even with him? How?
UPDATE
Now I know he used me whether or not he did it consciously but that's not enough, he now starts to follow me around wherever I go and invites himself to gatherings I go to (whenever he finds out I'm going), texts "take care" messages and the worst part is he kept on ranting about how heartbroken he was and actually said that the girl got jealous of me and realized that she likes him back too but she chose not to get into the complications of being involve with him.
I've been trying to keep my cool because I'm scared that if I tell him to shut up and leave me alone he might guess I kinda like him---what to do??? I wanted to confront him but I'm scared that if I do then he would know.
