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How To Express Affection To Someone Without Going Overboard? Any ideas? Thank you

#1 User is offline   mikasaranghae 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 06:21 AM

Well, I really like this friend of mine. We knew each other for 3 years now. But we were just best friends. I however really like him more than that. I am so happy because he said he likes me more than friend yesterday. I want to tell him so much I like him too. But I worry I would say too much that scare him; he is a very humble and traditional Korean guy.

How do we express love affection without going overboard that scare people off?

Please help. I don't want to lose him...I really like him, actually, I think I am falling in love with him rolleyes.gif ...But if I say "falling in love" words, he might be scared.


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#2 User is offline   Left_King 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 07:01 AM

XD Thats sweet!!!
U should def grab this chance...
Go on and thell him ur feelings...
If u think that "I'm falling in love" is too much....then just say smth like..."I feel the same"...I'm sure he'll get it XD
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#3 User is offline   mikasaranghae 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 07:08 AM

QUOTE (Left_King @ Dec 30 2008, 09:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
XD Thats sweet!!!
U should def grab this chance...
Go on and thell him ur feelings...
If u think that "I'm falling in love" is too much....then just say smth like..."I feel the same"...I'm sure he'll get it XD


Thank you very much for helping. I'll say that then. "I feel the same" sounded very sweet.
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#4 User is offline   Kira_Hyuu 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 07:14 AM

how about a long long hug....i'm sure he'll understand.....
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#5 User is offline   tontamoo 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 08:25 AM

Why don't you just say that you like him more than just a friend too? Just use his exact words?
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#6 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 08:37 AM

Tell him to make the move already since he wants to be the man

This mission, if you wish to accept, is outlined below.
The objectives are to:

A: convey your interests in a subtle manner
B: Create a scenario such that both parties are in a win-win situation
C: If all fails, escape with minimal casualties.

Call him up to arrange a meeting place. Make sure no one is around, that is a critical step.
when you two have met up at 1530 hours, start up a little conversation and slowly proceed towards your trump card.
At 1540 hours, deliver the finishing blow by telling him to man up and make the move already. If all goes according to plan, you will have reached your objectives. The time and place are not fixed and may be changed accordingly.

End briefing.
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#7 User is offline   A-Jaey 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 09:21 AM

Just write a short note? Or like draft a really short comic like just ( 3 - 6 boxes) ahahah even if you do suck at drawing?
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#8 User is offline   smartypantalon 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 10:37 AM

No need to over-complicate.

Just simply say,

"I like you too" + BIG SMILE + HUG

can't go wrong there :]
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#9 User is offline   MNLV27 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 01:38 PM

Just say, "I feel the same towards you."

12.29.2010: Once upon a time, there was a princess and a prince who fell in LOVE.....
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#10 User is offline   mimii 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 01:43 PM

A hug and say, "I like you."
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#11 User is offline   ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ 

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 04:53 PM

I would just say

I really like you too. As corny as it sounds, let your heart speak. :3
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