[Javus]

So I have come to you wise soompiers for your knowledge lol.

Anyways, so the story is that me and this girl met a few months ago through mutual friends. At first it was very friendly, no feelings at all, then as we started to hang a bit more and got to know each other I started to develop feelings. Soon after I sorta got the idea that she might like me too, and I guess we started flirting a bit both physically and verbally. So this has been going on for a month or so, and just recently I kinda found out/confirmed from a friend that she is interested/likes me. So you're probably saying, "wth dude just go for it."

The problem is that, I'm transferring out of my school after Spring(so next sem will be my last sem). Now I'll probably be going to a school within the same city, but the thing is is that when school is in session, she really focuses and studies hard so much so that she hardly goes online on AIM or FB, we usually talked in person when we saw each other in school. Even this past semester I only got to see her like once or maybe twice a week, and we are in the same school(I've only recently gotten to hang out more with her due to winter break). So due to these factors I've been hesitating and thinking that going for a relaionship wouldnt be a good idea, and I've heard that she is unsure about a relationship/date too. But despite these facts we still flirt quite a bit.

So the question I'm asking is not whether or not to go for it, because I've decided not to. The real question is whether I should sort of bring it up and sort of confirm that we should just be friends? Because I think the more we flirt, the harder it's gonna be to let go of my feelings, and to say no to a relationship. But I guess it would make it kinda awkward talking about our feelings despite the fact that I'm gonna say I dont want to be in a relationship/date. What should I do guys?

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks for reading guys.

[Shikabane Hime]

Go for it. If you're going to confirm, might as well confirm your relationship.

[l1lvi3tqt]

IF you two really like each other, nothing will stop it.

[smartypantalon]

I think you're too caught up in the bad what-if's if you decide to go through with a relationship.
You shouldn't let these excuses get in your way.

It's unfair to cut off something now that could blossom into something beautiful later.

[ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ]

Couples can make it through long distance if both of them are willing to endure it. I think you should just make it official and make it work. (;

[Miyurin]

Go for it! Nothing more lovely than mutual feelings~

[pacifical]

yeah, relationships aren't just time-committing or hard, they're what you and her want the relationship to be. you guys define it and set the rules

[小甜密]

It's always to nice to tell your crush how you feel. Because what happens if there won't be another chance in the future?