[SnTears]

step one. ask
step two. submit
step three. wait

i wont give you vague answers unless your questions are unbelievably stupid or obvious, in which i would point out the obvious. questions can be from guys or girls, the difference? my answers are usually long so prepare yourself. why am i doing this? because i went through a lot of the crappy pee-spots (you know that yellow pee patch you find on ur front lawn) in my journey of finding love alone, and i know that having someone there to answer even the simplest answer goes a long way. pour your guts out on a looooooooooooooooong detail oriented story, trust me ill read it. lol have fun

[axe_pheonix]

does she like it when i send texts saying stuff like "i miss you" ?

we are not datingor anything, we are just friends.

but i like her and i think she knows that.

[toki01]

i don't know what to do about the guy i like =[ some of my friends told me to move on
the thing is i barely get to talk to him and see him. its so hard for me to talk to him like how i talk to other guys and him, he barely talk to girls. i confessed to him and during the time this other girl did before me and he said he doesn't want to hurt anyone. the same day he told the girl they should just be a friend. when i confessed, i never asked for an answer, so i don't know if i will ever get one... like, i just want to talk to him more and see him more
he over heard me and my friend talking before during the summer and found out i like him. he acted like he didnt know the whole time, till i confess. and the week when the other girl confess, we started to talk more then usual. i dont know what else should i tell you >_<
should i just wait for his answer or move on?

[SnTears]

okay this is a proven theory. when you think and feel as if someone likes you the chances are- youre right. well have you dropped hints that youve liked her before? and if so what kind? remember sometimes the hints you view as extreme or reasonable are invisible to her. try texting her in the morning first saying "good morning sleep head" or at night saying goodnight" because youre bascially implying that first thing in the morning you are thinking of her and before you sleep you are also thinking of her. by doing so you are also hinting her importance in your life. you dont have to directly ask her whether she likes you or not. notice her body language after the first couple of days that youve messaged her. does her body face your direction? does she smile more often. do her eyes dart to the side or the floor then to you? does her voice get higher? if so she definitely is attracted to you. remember girls are just as confused and unsure as guys. dont make ur hints too subtle, and dont text "i miss you" because that may seem too sudden

i don't know what to do about the guy i like =[ some of my friends told me to move on
the thing is i barely get to talk to him and see him. its so hard for me to talk to him like how i talk to other guys and him, he barely talk to girls. i confessed to him and during the time this other girl did before me and he said he doesn't want to hurt anyone. the same day he told the girl they should just be a friend. when i confessed, i never asked for an answer, so i don't know if i will ever get one... like, i just want to talk to him more and see him more
he over heard me and my friend talking before during the summer and found out i like him. he acted like he didnt know the whole time, till i confess. and the week when the other girl confess, we started to talk more then usual. i dont know what else should i tell you >_<
should i just wait for his answer or move on?

okay. you said he doesnt usually talk to girls that means hes probably the shy type. the fact that he has talked to you more then usual after your confession means he isnt feeling akward that you like him therefore he might have taken an intreste in you (whether it is a small crush or merely intreste). remember to nudge him towards giving you an answer. when you talk to him see where his eyes are aimed and look as his face is he blushing? if a shy guy becomes more comfertable with you it means he either likes you or youre really close. i advise that you hint that youre getting impatient and ask him casually 'you do know i like you right?' or 'so about that other day, i forgot to ask you for an answer'. truth is guys dont give direct answers however you can tell through his actions. if he likes you he will take more interest in you or talk to you ore even if he doesnt admit it. if he changes and becomes more akward chances are that unfortunately he doesnt. its all in the body language and communication. dont move on until you've recgonised how hes acting. from what you said. he definitely isnt leaving the possibilty of dating you out in the blue, if so he would have told you so or avoided you.

[smartypantalon]

I'm sorry but I don't think we're allowed to post these advice topics

http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=40528

[SnTears]

okay closing okay i guess this will be closed sorry guys~ so did not see that advice column me being oblivious feel free to pm

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

you can just help out in Ask Ladies and ask guys thread

[Harbl]

I don't see why the thread should be closed. The repsonses given so far seem pretty helpful, and no-ones posting stupid questions (I couldn't john teshing think of any). If mods were smart they'd let this thread co-exist with the others.