[terence]

So yesterday my gf, after dating for a half year ,who is 16 told me that I wasn't the first person she ever kissed.
She said the person she first kissed was some random guy in a club, because she felt like kissing.
This kinda pissed me off so bad that I kinda don't want to talk or be close with her anymore.
Is it just me or would you guys mind also?

Edit:
I don't mean first kiss as in just a kiss on the cheek or something simple like that.
When I say first kiss it means kiss as in making out, with a random guy in a club just because she felt like it.
I don't think I'm overreacting since I'm worrying about the fact that she does this so easily .. why would you do that?

[ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ]

Well my boyfriend kissed his girlfriends before me and I've never kissed anyone before him. I didn't really mind because I knew that he had feelings for them too. I don't think people should mind. If it's some random person at a club, then yeah that would be terrible. But if it's someone they genuinely liked before I feel like you should give him/her some leeway. I guess you have a right to be upset but a kiss is just a kiss. Be thankful she didn't go off and do naughty things with him.

ANDD you should be thankful that she even confronted you and told you about it. Of course, if she did lie to you saying you were the first one that she kissed you have a right to be upset. But think about it, she had the balls to come up and tell you. You obviously mean something to her if she feels the need to confess to you. Give her a break, be rational.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

if everyone in the whole world cares about small things like that then I think anyone over the age of 20 will not have any bf/gf.
I'm saying, it's only a kiss, first kiss or 100th kiss it's still a kiss.
First kiss is only special because people think it's special

and 16 can go to clubs? like a disco club? Amusing. Wish we can do that here.

[Humilious]

My boyfriend had kissed his previous girlfriends before me. He was my first kiss. I don't mind too much.

But in your case, it was some random guy at a club. :/ It makes you wonder what other reckless behaviour she could get herself into. You should trust her though.

[Harbl]

First kiss is only special because people think it's special.

Ditto, most first kisses end up anything but special, all awkward and lots of headbutting/face clashes.

[小甜密]

Kissing isn't a big deal, to me at least. Losing virginity is more important. FYI, the older you get, the more people you meet are bound to have more experiences. So good luck finding a girl that has never been kissed before. I suggest looking at the chicks in church. Plenty of virgin mouths.

[Harbl]

I suggest looking at the chicks in church. Plenty of virgin mouths.

Everywhere, there's reminders I need to get my ass down to a church.

[iyseal]

Honey, most people have their first kiss when they are like 12 years old, stupid, and curious, so no, I wouldn't be offended if I was not their official "first." It would be a first between US and that's what matters to me.

[EHNerJI]

lol. no, i wouldn't care cuz it'd be hypocritical o.o;
but, i'd probably prefer it more if it was with someone they actually liked.. haha.
rather than some random person X_X;
but, it would be kinda cute if i was their first........ kindaaaaa x.x;

[eximius]

Overreacting much?
It's not like she gave away her virginity to a random guy at a club because she felt like getting some, right? ._.


Anyway, I don't mind.

[hishari]

You're waaaay overreacting. It's just a kiss.
Virginity though, is a different story.

[cwizwizz]

No of course i wouldn't mind.
Dont over reacttt. It's just a kiss.

She goes clubbing at the age of 16? o.o

[Wendyyy]

Unless she lied to you about it before, then I don't think it's a big deal.
Finding an s/o past the age of like 15 who has never been kissed before nowadays is pretty rare, I think.
So I think you should just accept it and if it upsets you that much, talk it out with her.
Don't ignore her, just makes things worse and later on, more awkwarddddd lol.

[asdfdsdaf]

lol it feels kinda strange that someone has done it with them before and yu get kinda jealous but other than that it's fine.

it'd be nice if i was her first too, but no :/ oh well i'll have to deal with it haha.

[mintcracker]

haha you're so innocent it's cute.

kissing is no biggy.

[JASON;]

what? why does it matter? o_O
That is too much overreaction homie

[kimchi hana]

It's not as if she told you that you were her first kiss or something.

[onewhite lie]

Why would I mind? Being upset and thinking about it won't change anything. It can't be helped that he was in other relationships before me. But if he kissed girls while in a relationship with me, then that's different.

[heheimawesome]

I think people will only mind if you haven't had your first kiss yet, and your SO kissed someone else. Because you're giving them something special, your first. but they aren't.

[rOothx33]

^ Mm. I agree. To someone that has kissed before it doesn't really seem like a big deal, but for someone who has yet to have their first kiss, they want it to be special and for it to be special for the other person too.