[YUNMii.]

I've been going out with this guy for about a week now, and he's my very first boyfriend (so to speak).
He was my first kiss, first date, first everything (even the first person to ask me out, how sad is that?).
But I don't want to admit it to him cause well... it's embarrassing :x kinda.
I already asked this in the Ask The Fellas topic but I need more input and more thorough responses.
And I think he wants to make out and I don't know how to and blahh it's just all scary for me.
It's all new to me and I have ZERO experience in the dating field. <-- help? D:

So guys and girls,
How would you feel if you were your s/o's first everything? (As in, first s/o, first kiss, etc)

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

According to your 411, you're only 14. That's still an early age to start dating so it's ok if he's your first.
Wouldn't it be more ridiculous to tell him you had like 3 boyfriends before him?

[lxmikexl]

i'd feel great if i were my S/O's first everything cuz she'd be my first everything.

[YUNMii.]

^ I'm not HIS everything, so...
I just don't want him to like me less because I have no experience :[

According to your 411, you're only 14. That's still an early age to start dating so it's ok if he's your first.
Wouldn't it be more ridiculous to tell him you had like 3 boyfriends before him?

Point in case, my friend, she's had like, literally 10 boyfriends... and she's my age. :x

[Kiribati]

Point in case, my friend, she's had like, literally 10 boyfriends... and she's my age. :x

My sister goes through a boyfriend every two weeks. She's your age! Not saying that you aren't ready for a relationship, but I found that she (and other girls her age) use the term "boyfriend" and "love" very loosely.

As for your "inexperience" with relationships, make sure you have your own say about things in your relationship. I've seen my friends get controlled by their boyfriends (or girlfriends) 'cause they think that they're just doing what makes their S/O happy, when in turn, they're just doing whatever they're told to do, 'cause they don't have any past relationship experience...

[Manyhx3]

^
^people are different from person to person.. you can't really compare!
from what I know, some guys like innocent girls heh

I agree with Sarang HAE that it's still early, but if you're not ready to make out or do anything with him.
tell him that..

[Rainity]

im in the exact same situation as you o.o
LOL
but he knows about it and takes thing slowly with me,
he feels happy about it too

[Poop-Shoop-A-Loop]

Why is it so hard to admit? o - o
I really doubt he'd dump you or like you less because you've had no prior experience. Doesn't make sense to me

[Jeneees]

Haha, my boyfriend right now is also my first,
And it's been four months, so don't worry.
Everything will go fine for you like it is for me.

[sixth.]

you're still young... i wouldn't be too embarrassed with admitting it

[aehs212]

There's nothing for you to be embarrassed about. The first thing you should do is stop worrying bout your lack of experience. Seriously, just stop; it's neither healthy nor constructive. If this boy likes you any less because he's your first kiss, first date, first real boyfriend, etc. then he's not worth your time. Guys don't care about little things like these, at least the good ones don't.

So let's look at a few things you wrote:

He was my first kiss, first date, first everything (even the first person to ask me out, how sad is that?).

It's not sad at all. It sounds kind of sweet.

Point in case, my friend, she's had like, literally 10 boyfriends... and she's my age.

I know this is obvious, but you're not your friend. No good ever comes from comparing yourself to others. So what if she's had 10 boyfriends. So what if she owns 10 dogs and 10 cats. So what if she eats 10 bowls of cereal every morning before school. Is your friend dating this boy? No, of course not. Please, please, please, just be yourself!
By the way, the expression, if I'm not mistaken, is actually 'case in point' not 'point in case.'

And I think he wants to make out and I don't know how to and blahh it's just all scary for me.

Believe me when I tell you that kissing comes naturally and has a lot to do with the chemistry between kissers. There's really no right or wrong way to make out with someone. If you like this boy a lot and there's a connection then everything will go smoothly. If he's a weirdo and kind of creeps you out then making out will probably be pretty icky. But don't worry, if you're nervous there's a good chance he is too!

It's all new to me and I have ZERO experience in the dating field.

The funny thing about dating is that it doesn't necessarily get easier the more you do it. So, just because a person has gone on 100 dates doesn't guarantee that the next one will be any good. What a good date more or less boils down to is whether or not you're attracted to and comfortable around one another. If you've got those things you can have a good time anywhere.

um, I hope this at least was of some help

[YUNMii.]

^ Yeah, it's case in point. My bad.

And thanks for the input everyone. <3

[ILuVTiTTiEZ]

Ah, just wing it! Or you can just tell him. Which still means you're gonna wing it! Fantastic!!! =D

Anywho, CONGRATS!!!

[PoooBear]

Point in case, my friend, she's had like, literally 10 boyfriends... and she's my age. :x

Holy crap.
But I guess I can understand, I wouldn't really call those real relationships though.
I had my first REAL relationship bf when I was 17 (when just turned ^^;; lol)
I told him later that he was my first, erm a lot.
Nothing really embarrassing, if anything I think he'd appreciate it or finding it sweet or something.
omg haha I dunno what I'm saying

[*its`STEPHHY.]

There's nothing for you to be embarrased about. If he really likes you, he'd be fine with that. (=
Afterall, you ARE 13. How will it sound if you told him you have dates plenty of guys before?
I think he will think it's very cute of you, for all of mentioned's was your first time.
I'm sure he'll feel happy that he is your first in most things. ^^

When I was your age though, the relationships that I was in, now don't really strike me as REAL relationships.
Take everything eaaasy (= Don't think so much. Just be yourself.

[ichigo_no_powder]

According to your 411, you're only 14. That's still an early age to start dating so it's ok if he's your first.
Wouldn't it be more ridiculous to tell him you had like 3 boyfriends before him?

I agree. but even if you were twice that age why is it sad? it just means that the right one hasn't come along yet. I started going out with my first bf a bit less than a year ago...i was 19. he wasn't the first guy to ask me out but besides that, everything we did was the first time for me and I like it that way. Why would you want to have lots of dating experiences with different people? It's more special this way. I once read that with every kiss you're giving away bits of your heart and it's true. I'll rather it was all for 1 person. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, if you have had many bfs before already, i think that that's more embarrassing considering your age.

Point in case, my friend, she's had like, literally 10 boyfriends... and she's my age. :x

that's not good.

[happiisunshin]

I'd feel super, super special. What makes it even better is that he (possibly?) will be my first boyfriend too so, happy happy for everyone.

[MNLV27]

What's so embarrassing telling your boyfriend that he's your first at everything? You're only 14 so it's understandable, I mean I didn't get my first boyfriend til I was 18 and I made sure he knew I was still new to everything and he understood and took it slow with me.
You should just tell him, and tell him that your still uncertain so he can guide you on what to do or something.

[princesspoppy]

Don't worry about it, because most likely guys, well people, generally feel special if they are someone's first. Because the first is always unforgettable.

[RITSUKO]

You're 14, what's there to be embarrassed about?
I had my first boyfriend at 17
And don't people begin dating around your age anyway @_@?

Guys usually like the idea of being the girl's first boyfriend. It re-insures them that they don't have to care about a crazy ex and they don't think of you as someone would cheat, etc.