[foxytoe]

edited Feb 11th 2009

i don't know who brought this old thread back but might as well do an update then..

No, i'm not good looking nor am i rich; actually the complete opposite.. i just happen to hit her soft spot, that's all.

We've had our close calls with breaking up. Like anyone who posted on this thread, both hers and my friends all had one common opnion on the outcome of our relationship: a month or two of fooling around followed by a dramatic end of me playing her and leave her unnoticed. It's been 38 days, her attitude hasn't changed at all (we get into fight everytime i talk to another girl; everytime i talks about another girl; even when i mention my mom) but the current state of our relationship has far exceeded the run of the mills.

i work in City "O" right now and she works in City "T" and there is a 5 hour driving dictance between us. Together, we already spent about $400 just on greyhound tickets alone, disconserning the spending on presents and outings. We would travel to each other's place on friday after work and then return at 3 on monday mornings; infact, i'm going over again this valuntine's to see her, although i don't really have any gift ideas. Her phone bill came back couple of days ago with 8000 minutes, and god knows how many minutes is on my bill. My mind is telling me that it's a terriblly unnecessary use of time and money; that i'm all too overwhelmed by this insanity of a relationship.. yet i cannot find anything better i want to do other than waste my life around her..

couple of days ago, we had our 18+ moment. i don't know whether i can discuss my physical perspective on here.. but i can difinitely say we are very natural in front of each another; nothing to hide..

Yes, i don't really care what anyone else thinks because I enjoy being overtly loved and I know exactly what i want.. a crazy girl who would do too much for me

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This is not meant to be a story or a complaint. I am merely asking for opnions on this praticular matter.

I turned 19 five days ago and I managed to find my first girlfriend (i'm also her first) who was a friend of mine for less than 4 month. Although i know how sad it is when someone say they confess over the internet; well, it worked for me and it was over an MSN convo..

until now, my gf and I had over 60 hours of phone time (in 5 days) and she is obsessed with me.. she is starting to isolate herself from everyone around her, whether friends or parents. She says she doesn't trust me but she love me and wants to marry me; and if i ever leave her, she will hire someone to kill me..

I don't want to leave her; but she is making herself a slave, not to me, but to her own emotions and obsession..

any thoughts?

[aubrei]

i hope this isnt a joke...

because...be very careful.
that sounds very psychotic (whether shes joking or not), no offense.
theres absolutely no way you truly love someone if you're so obsessive/possessive.
you have to ask yourself if she loves herself or loves you.
if she really did love you, she'd do anything for your happiness whether its with or without her.

then also, if theres no trust, you only love the idea of having the other person. it also isnt love.
i can guarantee you this wont end nicely.
you should end it now before it gets any worse.

you may feel like you're the only person who can help but in fact you're making it the situation worse.

[jaked]

OOOH. wow. I'd be scared.

[Meenuh]

Lol. She's going to hire someone to kill you? I'd be pretty weirded out to be with someone like that. Who knows when she'll lose it.

[derrek]

People say ridiculous things when their emotions are running. I'd tell her flat out that she's saying some pretty creepy stuff and she needs to relax a bit.

[Azngel]

well now you know the reason why shes been single this entire time.

[ILuVTiTTiEZ]

Yay! Congratulations!!! Your first Crazy B*tch!!! Well, now you know! =D

[foxytoe]

the thing is that she knows she is being crazy and obsessive. She said i turned her into the very type of people who she used to make fun of..

[aznxbabiii]

That chick. SHES A CRAZY BIIIIAAAATTCHHHH

[miirage]

any thoughts?

Tell her she should really ought to get out more.

Yes, there is life outside your computer. LOL

[pooface]

dont worry.. she get bored sooner or later... its probably like that in the beginning that they are obsessed with u, later.. when time go past.. she probably go back to normal. . . i hope.

[*its`STEPHHY.]

Honestly when I first read this, I thought you were joking around.
This is ridiculous. She practically threatened you.
Like it or not, I don't think you should.. Marry her. ><
That's just crazy. For one, you don't know who she really is yet,
over 60 hours of phone time does not necessarily prove that.

She really does sound "psychotic".
If she truly loves you, she'd trust you.
If she truly loves you, she wouldn't try to get you killed if you were to leave her.


Be careful. ><

[gisbiz]

well depends if she was being sarcastic?
tell her how you feel.
you might need to take some time away from her
let her feelings and emotions cool down.
(so she doesn't embarrass herself too much when she returns to reality.)

[Azngel]

the thing is that she knows she is being crazy and obsessive. She said i turned her into the very type of people who she used to make fun of..

the fact that she thinks that you are making her do all this crap makes her even more crazy...


dump her ass before you die...

[aubrei]

the fact that she thinks that you are making her do all this crap makes her even more crazy...


dump her ass before you die...

definitely.
she did it to herself. nobody else.

[CatGoesMeow]

This is not meant to be a story or a complaint. I am merely asking for opnions on this praticular matter.

I turned 19 five days ago and I managed to find my first girlfriend (i'm also her first) who was a friend of mine for less than 4 month. Although i know how sad it is when someone say they confess over the internet; well, it worked for me and it was over an MSN convo..

until now, my gf and I had over 60 hours of phone time (in 5 days) and she is obsessed with me.. she is starting to isolate herself from everyone around her, whether friends or parents. She says she doesn't trust me but she love me and wants to marry me; and if i ever leave her, she will hire someone to kill me..

I don't want to leave her; but she is making herself a slave, not to me, but to her own emotions and obsession..

any thoughts?

DTB....

and move on

[SKINNY_GENES]

she's not in love. she's obsessed.

you're her first bf, so all of those emotions she's feeling right now is a bit new to her. she's just confused and emotional, not psychotic.

if you really like her and care for her, tell her that she needs to get her act together because at this rate, things can REALLY get out of control.

[Mz-Descamento86]

Im sorry but I was dying laughing at your story.
OMG hahahaha shes crazy leave get away far away ASAP!
Hire someone to kill you? I hope your joking

lmfaoooo

[Clix]

Get out while you still can.

[ShadowFoX]

She doesn't trust you.. but she loves you.

If she really said that, then she doesn't understand that true love is built on trust.

She's a psycho killer