[starperson]

So I need help. If this is an idle topic, by all means delet it.


I want to talk to this guy. But the problem is we go to a school where you have no other contact with anyone.
It is not like a boot camp, dont get me wrong. We go to a type of self study school. You go there and do what you
need to do and leave in an hour or so. You do not chat with people or anything. Not even a hi. Nothing.
It is a pretty anti social school. It is not like you CANT talk to people, but you are there for yourself and thats it.
But I want to talk to this guy I see everytime I have a class to attend. Twice a week. He passes by me and looks at me all shy and
stuff. The whole normal "im interested in you thing". I think it is awkward to just say hi when we dont talk, dont know each others names,
nothing at all. And we see each other for only a second as we walk by. I dont know what to do. I mean I think about it
and it just seems like a really awkward situation. And im leaving from school in about a month or so to another near by "normal" school. LOL
And it is not during class either, after. Oh gosh I guess im too shy!

So you think I should just say hi, or I dunno.

I know there is more info but I cant think, so if you have a question im open.

[rachilde]

So my best friend fell in total lust with this guy she's seen around campus--mostly on the bus or on the way to class--and they've always made the 'sex eye' to each other. Then, one day, when they were on the bus together, she started laughing because he was making eyes with her. And that laughter started the conversation. Sometimes you just gotta show that you know he's making eyes at you.

[starperson]

^^^Yes, I smile. Ok so I did once. But that is a great idea. Thank you! Do you have a suggestion to how I should show him??

[rachilde]

As far as I know it, it's mostly about the tone of voice you use to approach someone you've never spoken with. You can very well say "what are you looking at" and it not be threatening by smiling and using a playful tone. My friend does this funny little thing where she just becomes so embarrassed by the guy making eyes at her that she just smiles really widely and covers her face with her hands and peeks out through her fingers. When I have to start conversation with strangers, I always ask things like "do you know what time it is?" or ask other harmless questions that lead to things like "what's your name?"

[starperson]

okok I will try! Thank you!!~

[Nailliv]

aww how cute

say hi to the poor guy, what u got to lose?!

go sit next to him and ask for help

play dumb, be like OHHH so thats how u do it.... gosh u are so smart

how about u help me over a few more problem over coffee?

[starperson]

^^^ ahaha I love it. That would be a nice thing to do, huh?

geez im too shy. haha

[Nailliv]

^^^ ahaha I love it. That would be a nice thing to do, huh?

geez im too shy. haha

okay the, just ask to borrow a pencil

and "accidentally and "innocently"" touch his hand when he hand it to u

then look away and smile

[starperson]

^^^But we go to a school where we dont really talk to people. And I see him only inbetween class. (read intro post) haha

[Nailliv]

^^^But we go to a school where we dont really talk to people. And I see him only inbetween class. (read intro post) haha

hush my dear, and listen

i am sure the school allow u to talk, but sadly it is just filled with over achiever nerds that are antisocial

I guess carry all your classes text books even when u dont have a certain class

and just straight up bull rush bump into him and drop all those books

(also note add alot of random scratch papers so it takes longer for both of u to pick up) *at which point u half ass and slowly pick up each single individual papers*

then start a conversation right there, funny thing running into you hehe

U can take it from there,

for example

-aww thanks for helpin me, how can i ever repay such a kind gentlemen act? how about some ice cream?! :3

or..

-WATCH IT OMG!!!!!!!! my paper is all mixed up, thanks al ot jerk face... You are not leaving untill my paper is correctly organized.

i am sure u can come up with something :]

[starperson]

^^^ Alright then! Thank You!! ~~

[derrek]

A sense of humor is good. I got on a bus today and the whole thing was empty, except one cute girl. I sat DIRECTLY next to her (even though EVERY other seat was available) and said "Is this seat taken?" hahahaha! She looked at me like "WHAT!?" and I looked at all the empty seats jokingly and she caught on. If you can think of something silly to say it breaks the ice and creates a warm atmosphere.

[Nailliv]

^^^ Alright then! Thank You!! ~~

u agree but are u willing to do it..

my time is precious baby girl

i have alot of soompi topics to attend to all day.

[Shikabane Hime]

Pass private notes.
You can practice with me. I'll pretend not to reply.

[starperson]

^^^ whaaaaaaaat?? o_O...

Nailliv I will do it. The least I can do is try right? haha

[Nailliv]

^^^ whaaaaaaaat?? o_O...

Nailliv I will do it. The least I can do is try right? haha

no baby girl U WILL DO AND SUCCEED!

AJA FIGHTING!

beside im alway available if he turn down that offer :]

its a WIN WIN situation!

i got your back cutie.

[QWERTY.]

your school is weird
are you not allowed to talk to people or something
there must be atleast some time for you to stop and talk to someone
if not then when you pass him stand near him and pass him a note with your email or something
if he is interested he will email you if he isnt then he isnt LOL or he doesnt have a email cause he is strange

[starperson]

^^^ no haha you can talk, but not to much during class I dont think.
It is a self study school. So you go there to just do your own thing.

Nailliv, lol such a charmer . But I need the support right now haha!
Thank you!!

[Nailliv]

^^^ no haha you can talk, but not to much during class I dont think.
It is a self study school. So you go there to just do your own thing.

Nailliv, lol such a charmer . But I need the support right now haha!
Thank you!!

well it will be no longer self study, but a partner study :]

indeed i am such a charming lad, u do not need support, u need CONFIDENT.

[Shikabane Hime]

^^^ whaaaaaaaat?? o_O...

You can't even pass notes? so sad
Well, I'm not in your school, so I should be fine.