[1_silly_girl]

How you ever think about you and your bf/bg can't be together forever? like something might happen in the future. we can't predict the future right so we don't' know what will happen next. how would people deal with this? lately it had make me feel sad, depressed , i cried every nite when i sleep. i can't leave him >< i don't know what to do. I'm afraid to know that we can't be together forever

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

lol. that's what you thought now. You'll think differently later when some guy comes into your life and you fall in love with him.

Yes I'm sure everyone has that time.

[vvn]

Yes, I have, but nothing is guaranteed. You can't guarantee that he'll be with you forever, or the rest of your or his life, so you should just focus on the present and be happy with what you have now.

[DevilishDang]

hrmm i noe we can't b forever especially he's goin bak to his home country and all
i got over dat n i enjoy n cherish every moment now

[Nailliv]

no wonder your name is silly girl

u need to stop doubting and worrying so much about the future

and just live and be happy with your current bf

who knows what there to come :]

[RITSUKO]

I do that all the time. When times are good, what if the mutual feelings change? @_@
but you know what, just go along with it happily, i'm sure whatever happens, happens.

[xstrawberry_bearx]

Whatever happens, happens sweetie (:
You can't predict the future, even if you can it wouldnt be 100% accurate right?
Just enjoy the moment; don't think of silly thoughts<3
Though I would lie if I said those type of thinking never cross my mind
But honestly, just be happy for now

[grainsofrain]

be spontaneous and let it be.
if you keep on moping over it, how can you enjoy the times you have right now? :]
and even if you guys won't be together, there can be another person out there in which you could have the same exact feelings, if not stronger, for.

[jaeka]

Cause I live in the present? I just take each day as it comes, never worrying like omg tomorrow he might dump me or maybe a week on friday. >_> Live in the present.

[witchery]

^ Yeah exactly. Break-up is inevitable, but you don't think about it, it's really unnecessary.

[Humilious]

Live in the moment. Enjoy it while you can. Finding someone you'll spend the rest of your time with takes a couple tries. Don't worry about it so much.

[mal3ficum]

I know it's said to think about leaving your s/o. But things happen and you might or might not walk your separate paths.
But knowing that there's the possibility forever doesn't exist (like marriage onwards-wise) you should just give your all in your relationship. Cuz you never know when it might end right?

[mintypanda]

You can't worry about the future. I'm sure you have a lot of scenarios in your head that "might" happen and break you guys up but you can't do that. You will just have to live each day and see where your relationship go from there.

[Yuvi22]

got to be optimistic.
Just live through it the fullest as much as you can.
My love and I had a talk about this before. Honestly, we agreed on the same thing which had created an even stronger bond about our relationship.

[saelwen]

hey, don't keep thinking about it! You won't get any answers even if you think about it 24/7, because you can't tell the future. Just enjoy the present

[xyummy]

Yea.. that's what I used to think everytime me and my ex used to fight... but I'm over it. There's so many guys out there how do you know that he's Mr. Right? Plus, you shouldn't worry about the future too much cuz it'll affect the present. Just cherish every moment that you have with him right now. The future is uncertain so why bother wasting time worry about it? What if you guys end up together? Then you'd be wasting all those nights crying for no reason...

[4evainvain]

I believe anyone must have come across this sort of feeling of leaving someone they love in the future, so don't worry about this too much you are not alone. What i think u need to do right now is to think about the present and if possible fix any bits of pieces that are missing in your relationship. Don't give up. All the best

[flyxme.]

i have those thoughts sometimes too
and i feel like i have to prepare for the future lol
but what if we break up? then everything i've done would be a waste
it stresses me out but i dont really worry so much about it anymore,
just focus on the present and cherish every moment :]

[misstiem]

I have. But it was when my boyfriend and I weren't the strongest. I began getting insecurities because of the things he has done when we were dating. I never once thought about us 'not lasting forever' before we went downhill. But I think the point is to never doubt your relationship because it's just gonna leave you fearing about leaving each other.

[watcher]

typical stage of fear. you like the person so much, you start worrying about losing the other. you can hit a downward spiral from here and slowly let your relationship die from your insecurities, or you can simply hope for the best and try to make things work. most significant others can tell if something is wrong with you, and if you let your insecurities take over, you're going to ruin the rhythm and destruct the relationship yourself. the irony of it all is that you caused your own premonitions, which you had control of.

enjoy the relationship and treat him well. to a certain extent, you control your destiny. so make the most of it.