[Akira45393]

As stated on the title, what techniques do u guys use to tell if soemone likes u?

-sometimes i think too much [is this wrong?]

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And for girls, what kind of messege/hints do u guys drop on ur crushes?

[eximius]

The most effective method I've learned was to ask them straight out.



Other than that... it's if they talk or treat me differently than they would others.

[Shikabane Hime]

Make unexpected moves that you know would warrant a slap otherwise.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

If you've never asked them on a one on one date. It's safe to assume they'll reject you.

yup, thinking too much is really wrong, but thinking, is not wrong in my opinion. Doing some critical thinking (I think it's the same like overthink xD) might help for a guy. Since we make the moves, and at the end of the day we're the ones who's gonna ask the question, so thinking a little bit will help, but not too much.

While for girls, over thinking, as good as useless. They're not gonna make any move, so why bother, all they do is sit and pick, I can't even believe it.
It's like working on a supermarket, and she's the counter girl, and guys just comes to him, she don't like, reject, she likes, welcome
I CAN'T FRICKIN BELIEVE IT, IT'S THAT EASY.

Plus, I've already proven that it's fairly difficult to see when girls like a guy.
They waste their time thinking about him and testing him instead of dropping hints. So trying to find hints is as good as useless, and won't blame you if you can't find any, since they barely drop any.

So the easiest way is I guess yeah just asking her straight. But then again, you got to make sure you've done some things to minimize those risk of getting rejected

but anyways, yup it's fairly difficult to tell for 100% whether they like you or not in my opinion.

good luck anyway.

EDIT: remember, the guys that gets rejected the most are the ones who's gonna succeed later

[Sleepy213]

The easiest way is to ask.

Don't always rely on clues.
You can have clues where you think she likes you.

But she actually doesn't.

Let me just say this, I've been there and done that.
It hurts.

[&. crepuscular]

plan a. ask your friend who is also a friend of your crush.
plan b. ask your friend who is a friend of your crush's friend and make your friend dig information out of the crush's friend and find out.
plan c. ask. or confess.
plan d. stay curious.

my ex told me that he was going to ask someone out and i bothered him for 3 hours until he finally confessed that it was me. o-o that's one alternative.

[DeeIsRadicalYeah]

most of the time, you can just feel it.

[~Tropical.Mists]

^
Agreed. Unless someone's really dense, you can just usually tell by the vibe they give you or the way they act/talk to you.
If you're still on the fence, you can try asking mutual friends.
But usually I just know when they talking to me a lot or when they start trying to do things to please you or when they just straight up, ask you out ^^

--xoxo.
TM

[the last hour.]

best confirmation is asking him really :s I would like to know this too! Gah. Or ask a close friend of that person that would know if he/she likes someone or not? x)


my hints? I glance over a lot at the guys I like haha.

[mintcracker]

they can give you every indication of interest without actually liking you.


I say get it out there and ask them, that way either they reject or accept.

[insanelyCRAZY]

not to be conceited.
but lol...i just KNOW when a guy likes me.
or has some kind of attraction towards me.
i've learned to ignore and put up with it though and just remain friends without any awkwardness.

[!Lei]

You really cannot tell for sure. But that can be just me, I'm highly unassuming. xD; I always assume that they're just friendly, unless they go for the "in-your-face" confession. XD

I've already stopped trying to decode, because of this one guy who just..flat out stumped me.
EVERYONE, especially my best friend *who is also his friend* and his BEST friend, KEPT teasing us together.
When I look at him, it's just...*shrug* Like he doesn't care, and looks at his best friend as if he was mentally retarded.

Aside from that, he acts as if I don't exist, he never comes up to me, not even to start a convo. like "don't-care" attitude. xDD

83;;; That's why I gave up on him.
Imagine to my surprise when he told me he loved me at the end of the school year.

I hated him then. ><;

[Akira45393]

I just have this strange feeling when I’m around her. It might be her numerous glances at me when I’m around her; for some reason I assume that she likes me. <~ Prove me wrong, b/c I’m confuse with female perspectives…

[pockystixx]

gut feeling, or you ask around... like their friends
they'll know hehe, specially the bff

[_ATELIER]

i stare, flirt, hint his friends so they'd hint him, start small talk.